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Itsanna657

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Kissing clients
« on: 21 January 2024, 12:39:50 pm »
Hi I'm new here  :)
Just wondering if there are others who don't offer kissing and do you think it affects if your busy or not ?
Iv never offered any kind of mouth kissing so no pecking either (watched pretty woman a few too many times  ;D)
Bit iv gone verrrry quiet recently and wondering if this could be a part to play? I do most other services except anal but I get asked for kissing alot and always refuse  ???

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #1 on: 21 January 2024, 05:37:20 pm »
I think it's just quiet at the moment and not exclusively down to not offering kissing. I'm finding enquiries at a minimum, I'm putting in zero effort though as I'm not working this month. Actually nice to not have to answer questions.

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #2 on: 22 January 2024, 07:33:31 am »
I did do DFK, not al clients want it but it fills time and is better than them fingering me.

It's at discretion, so does depended on the mood.  Then if I didn’t offer it every time it caused comment, so I stopped all at discretion services and it made no difference.

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #3 on: 22 January 2024, 11:22:32 am »
I've always offered this at discretion, and make it clear in my advert that it will be my choice whether we kiss or not! Lots of reasons as to why I won't kiss someone, the main one being poor personal hygiene.

It hasn't affected business as far as I can tell, as there are quite a few clients who prefer not to kiss SWs, and also a fair few who prefer not to have full penetration.

There's always something out there for everyone, and you will get clients who specifically book you because you don't explicitly offer "full service". Some clients just want a cuddle and a chat, and maybe a happy ending.

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« Reply #4 on: 22 January 2024, 02:09:30 pm »
I don't offer kissing as i find it very claustrophobic, too intimate up close and some people smell.

It does not affect me too much but i will miss out on some bookings as some clients are really obsessed with kissing but i don't care as i just cannot do it.

I think a lot do expect it now days but i manage fine without it.

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #5 on: 22 January 2024, 04:50:08 pm »
I took kissing off two years ago and never been happier. I would also state I do not have low rates because of this I range between 180/200 depending on where I am.

It did not affect my business at all.

It used to make me physically unwell the slimy tongues going in my mouth of many different men I don’t know why. Some ladies love it and fair play to them.

I also didn’t like clients being so close to my face found it intimidating too full on. When you’re having sex your face is quite far away from theirs that’s just exercise to me. I save kissing for my partner. I feel I can only offer this when seriously attracted to someone.

I don’t offer CIM either.


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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #6 on: 23 January 2024, 12:13:41 pm »
A good majority have bad breath so it is very easy to refuse.

It is on my list but not doing it again until March owing to colds season.

I don't think it affects business for as long as you offer other options.

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #7 on: 23 January 2024, 01:22:37 pm »
I took kissing off two years ago and never been happier. I would also state I do not have low rates because of this I range between 180/200 depending on where I am.

It did not affect my business at all.

It used to make me physically unwell the slimy tongues going in my mouth of many different men I don’t know why. Some ladies love it and fair play to them.

I also didn’t like clients being so close to my face found it intimidating too full on. When you’re having sex your face is quite far away from theirs that’s just exercise to me. I save kissing for my partner. I feel I can only offer this when seriously attracted to someone.

I feel exactly the same as you, just  you mentioning slimy tongues made me feel sick and yes I think it is a far more intimate act that PIV.
I have it marked as at discretion as I do feel like if I removed it all together it would adversely affect buisiness, I have a few regs who particularly want it as part of a booking but I'd love to do away with it all together.
« Last Edit: 25 January 2024, 02:31:36 pm by fallen angel »

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #8 on: 23 January 2024, 01:24:26 pm »
Hi I'm new here  :)
Just wondering if there are others who don't offer kissing and do you think it affects if your busy or not ?
Iv never offered any kind of mouth kissing so no pecking either (watched pretty woman a few too many times  ;D)
Bit iv gone verrrry quiet recently and wondering if this could be a part to play? I do most other services except anal but I get asked for kissing alot and always refuse  ???
This month has been painfully quiet so I really don't think it's just the lack of kissing to blame.

fallen angel

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #9 on: 23 January 2024, 01:29:58 pm »
A good majority have bad breath so it is very easy to refuse.

It is on my list but not doing it again until March owing to colds season.


Yes the huge number of guys with bad breath is the reason I really don't want to offer this service but actually telling them that's the reason is a buzz kill so yes, cold/flu season is a good get out clause for  few months at least and most guys happily accept that.
« Last Edit: 25 January 2024, 10:54:35 pm by fallen angel »

Itsanna657

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #10 on: 24 January 2024, 11:13:03 am »
I'm so glad I'm not the only one iv met just a couple other girls who don't offer it but most iv met do and I wondered if that was why I'm quiet atm although I have never actually offered it
I do have it as at discretion and that's ONLY because if Chris Hemsworths doppelganger walks in I'll probably pay him to let me kiss him lololol
Defo feels a lot more intimate to kiss a client than to have sex or a blowy but maybe I just watched pretty woman too many times  ;D

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« Reply #11 on: 24 January 2024, 06:02:37 pm »
I didn’t  have it on my list either, then I thought it may be why I’m not getting many enquiries so put at discretion, as I wouldn’t mind too much if they had decent hygiene.

 This thread has given me the courage to take it off again, if I so choose. . It makes me heave just thinking about it.

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« Reply #12 on: 24 January 2024, 10:08:09 pm »
Like someone else said kissing fills a lot of time without them being physical with your body which I prefer and I really enjoy kissing so it’s a no brainer for me, I find a lot of clients always confirm before hand that I offer dfk to make sure they are getting the service they want but I’m hoping they’re just double checking what’s already on my page. Everyone has their own niche so tailor your page to what you feel comfortable doing and you will be able to get the most out of your days by feeling comfortable and not irritated by constantly doing things that are out of your boundaries, if you keep offering services you hate or dislike you will soon become adverse with the job and more likely to take breaks or not want to work at all.
Do what is right for you and your personality will shine through with it which will bring you repeat custom, forget what everyone else is doing, just focus on what you want to do

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Re: Kissing clients
« Reply #13 on: 24 January 2024, 10:12:24 pm »
Also, this month has been ridiculously quiet with kissing or not!

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« Reply #14 on: 25 January 2024, 09:29:49 am »
I offer it on discretion but in practice I don't often do it, its too intimate a thing for me to do with someone I am not attracted to, and I also have this feeling that when I'm not attracted to a guy he has a 'smell' that's not pleasant even if he doesn't actually smell bed, hygiene wise, its hard to explain  ??? I'd rather have sex than kiss. I feel similarly about receiving oral.