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Author Topic: Just wondering how people explain the extra cash flow to family/friends?  (Read 2370 times)

blissblu

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As the title says, just curious. I have people close to me who seem to be questioning how comes I am never short for cash, obviously I am careful not to be too careless...but obviously it's aroused some suspicions as to why I have extra cash a lot of the time.
So, how are people explaining this? And for those who do this type of work full time...what do you explain to people about what you do for a job? Thanks :) xx

Melanie

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I do this besides my office job and yes, I am careful about what I tell people when I spent some money. When someone makes a comment or hints (on Facebook or real life) that I am "doing well apparantly"I always say:
"it's about priorities, people see what I do, but not what I don't. So yes I can stay in a fancy hotel when I go on vacation, but I drive a very old car, my laptop is cheap and old etc." After this answer usually people shut up  ;) And when I don't feel like answering at all I alway use the Ebay voucher excuse for my dinners and stays at hotels. I really won an ebay voucher for a 5 star hotel at one point. So that gave me the idea to use it as an excuse if asked questions.

Recently I bought a new expensive watch and expensive shoes, I just don't mention it and when they notice they usally don't notice it all at once but just one item.

 

Melanie

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ps. I usually pay cash since I started doing this work. If someone comments about that I say that using real money helps me keep track of my spendings  ;D. And like my mom says: it's of nobodies business how much money you have or how you got it. But still, it gives me a piece of mind to have some answers ready in case someone is very nosey.

chloe94

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I just say I'm saving money on little things where I can, and if anyone comments on new clothes/jewellery I just say it's either off a discount website or a good find on ebay or that I saved up for it  :)
I tend to keep most money in notes in my purse rather than put it in the bank because I'm worried that making several deposits around the same amount will raise suspicion (I'm not avoiding tax or anything) because banks seem pretty good at tracking money habits x

Innocent-whore

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I usually don't let people get close enough to ask these sort of questions but when they do I always invent a rich boyfriend  ;D

blissblu

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Thanks girls, some good ideas in there! This type of work definitely needs a good and quick imagination, eh lol :)

lady c

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I suppose if u have a close family and friends they will notice especially if they were in your life before the work, however its how you go about it all that matters if u suddenly have something expensive then u can always say it was an ebay item bla bla or if they are nosey then like me u could say mind ur own lol... Personally like the other girls i don,t flaunt it i live by my means and i don,t really think its anyones business.

Caledonia

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The only expensive thing Ive bought so far is a ?200 washing machine and I said I had a good win on a scratchcard lol. Ive bought some clothes but nothing that I cant say Ive been saving for.

Lady in red

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I do the same , just don`t show that I`ve got a little bit more money :-)

Kimmy

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Because I was unemployed when I started escorting my mum clocked straight away but I also think that's cos we'd discussed it previously as she was thinking about it but thought she was too old (at 42!) xx

If your that bothered say you've been getting lucky on scratchcards and hide as much cash as possible xxx

Emelie

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If you travel a lot, you can say a friend has offered their frequent flyer points to you to get free flights or that you have a friend working for an airline who gets dirt-cheap flights (both have happened to me in real life, so it's possible).

If people make comments about my expensive phone, laptop etc. I tell them that before I bought it, I used the same old cheap phone/laptop for years, so it's not like I'm always spending tons of money on that sort of stuff. Or say that you're paying for things in small monthly installments.

In general it amazes me how many people, even new acquaintances, make remarks about other people's apparent wealth/money situation. Unless it's your good friends or family wondering what's going on, I think it's really nosy and impolite, and I do have a tendency to say so to people I barely know who are snooping around, trying to figure out whether I'm well-off...

Orchid

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I tend to put it into food and petrol, pay bills but if friends see my purse on a night out with cash in they don't ask. I am sure there will be plenty of people who would complain if I was borrowing from them and not paying back, they count themselves lucky on occasion im generous !!
Am very discreet and don't draw attention to this side of escorting too much. its the hiding of my outfits and toys, lots of lube and strap ons and condoms that stresses me when some people come in !!! They even ask why I have so many white towels but I tell them I like daily baths...
enough said  ;)

ladyjennaj

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I try and spend as much cash as possible on food shopping and clothes. People usually asked why I always have ?50 notes, and I usually say I've been paid in cash for modelling work?

erotica

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I use to tell them that I did glamour/lingerie / artistic modelling and now I say that I have a rich /older boyfriend but it is a pain to lie.

Emily b

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ps. I usually pay cash since I started doing this work. If someone comments about that I say that using real money helps me keep track of my spendings  ;D. And like my mom says: it's of nobodies business how much money you have or how you got it. But still, it gives me a piece of mind to have some answers ready in case someone is very nosey.

Exactly , its nobodies business to question where and how you got your money - I think its extremely rude !! >:(

If anybody ever asks me, I tell them I worked for it ....like everybody else !!
Emily b

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