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martine21

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Job getting too much?
« on: 06 December 2014, 11:56:11 am »
getting help.
thank you
« Last Edit: 06 December 2014, 03:21:49 pm by roxymartine21 »
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Fabulassie

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Re: Job getting too much?
« Reply #1 on: 06 December 2014, 12:00:32 pm »
I would say that you need to look at your drinking first and foremost. Yes, the alcohol is revealing some underlying issues but in terms of managing your behaviour, drinking is the immediate issue. I am not saying that you're an alcoholic or anything - you may rarely drink - but it's clear that drinking is a problem for you in that you have a bad reaction to it.

If you can get that sorted, then you can address the other issues. Why did you become provocative and "drawing him in?" Do you see all the interplay between men and women as a power trip thing? Do you feel like you have nothing to offer outside of your sexuality?
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Re: Job getting too much?
« Reply #2 on: 06 December 2014, 12:02:43 pm »
I don't think it's necessarily the job, although if it's been stressing you out a bit you might have just needed to get some crap out of your system and it's not always pretty when that happens :).


What I would say is that if drink or even just a particular drink affects you in this way, it might be best avoided altogether. You could have wound up in a really nasty situation with this bloke, and whilst I'm guessing he was completely baffled it could potentially have turned a lot worse and if you're drunk and not in control, you'd have been in real trouble.
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Re: Job getting too much?
« Reply #3 on: 06 December 2014, 12:07:04 pm »
Yep, if this is what happens when you're drunk, it's not good for you, is it?
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Re: Job getting too much?
« Reply #4 on: 06 December 2014, 12:49:40 pm »
I would say it is a combination of both the job and alcohol.

Obviously alcohol, whether it be what you were drinking or just alcohol in general, does not agree with you and turns you into the angry/disagreeable drunk.  Alcohol affects different people in different ways and we must work out for ourselves which we are. Some people are happy drunks and some are not.

I think the stresses of the job don't help and it may be that you are not dealing with them as well as you think.  Only you will know the answer to that one.

What is best to do is to ask yourself some questions and answer yourself very honestly. You don't need to tell anyone else your answers, it is no one else's business, but be honest with yourself or it could be detrimental to yourself.

Good luck. X
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