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sweetminniemilf

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Jealous client
« on: 21 October 2013, 04:35:50 pm »

I am relatively new to this and one of my clients has booked me for the third time now. I feel he is potentially good to be a regular.
He admitted that he has a crush on me and thinks I have one on him too. I am good at my job and love it so I.can see why he thinks I do really like him.
 However he booked a friend of mine and then told me he knew I was jealous (because we have worked together and he also thought I was cross that he was fucking my friend), it actually seems like he was jealous because he was probing her for information about how busy I am as an escort and trying to get other info out of her. I have been strict with my boundaries though have texted him back if he has texted me as it is just courtesy and I am generous like that. Now I will not do that so I don't give him the wrong impression.

Have you any gems of wisdom?
I have checked the various forums but can't find anything specific.
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Dani

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #1 on: 21 October 2013, 07:29:03 pm »
personally anyone that was pumping another escort for info on me would get blocked immediately.  He doesn't sound quite right even down to him saying he knows you feel the same way about him.  Yes having regulars is great but only if they don't cross any boundaries.  Boundary pushers are the ones we do not want as regs as it will just get more and more difficult.
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Pink~Princess

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #2 on: 21 October 2013, 08:03:40 pm »
With what you described he sounds creepy, delusional, stalkerish and never mind potential client, he's a potential problem. I'd block him.

xx
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eve-discreet

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #3 on: 22 October 2013, 12:11:38 am »
This is a no brainer. He is the client from hell, doesnt understand the strict rules with being a client and thinks it is a form of dating.

One for the blocked list methinks
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HollyH

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #4 on: 22 October 2013, 12:27:02 am »
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« Last Edit: 15 December 2013, 09:27:03 pm by TheH »
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Pink~Princess

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #5 on: 22 October 2013, 08:56:01 am »
I too have clients who tell me they love me that are completely harmless BUT this guy she's describing doesnt seem harmless, he seems like a major problem to me and she's only met him 3 times.
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lady c

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #6 on: 22 October 2013, 10:04:44 am »
Gosh this is a nightmare I have had it several times two of them have asked me out saying they know I like them as much as they like me, I in the end had to stop seeing them. Like you I love this job and we are probably very convincing. I say just keep it professional and if he continues block him.
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happyhappyjoyjoy

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #7 on: 22 October 2013, 11:34:26 pm »
hmm, this one seems like he is trying to play games? Especially trying to make you jealous by booking your friend and then talking to your friend constantly about you is just plain wrong. I would be careful about this one as this sounds like it could get very nasty very quickly.
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barbie88

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #8 on: 23 October 2013, 09:26:11 pm »
He sounds like a potential nutter I personaly don't let guys book in again if they start getting rude or obsessed . Ive banned 4 regs recently for getting obsessed . A lot of these guys like to think we only see them they need to wake up . xxxx take care
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sweetminniemilf

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Re: Jealous client
« Reply #9 on: 23 October 2013, 10:03:57 pm »
Hey girls,
Firstly thank you all! Exactly what I needed to hear, the replies confirm my fears that yes he is getting into this way too much, trying to provoke a jealous response from me about my friend and creeping her out too. But also he is no longer seeming like the same 'nice guy' that he was after the firat two sessions! It did get weirder after our next appointment with him immediately texting my friend and worrying her about my safety by cryptically saying she's not for me,  prolonging the messages and generally getting too personal and contradicting himself. All very strange and realised that he would be a dangerous liaison that I will most definately be avoiding in the future!
Safe and sound, and ready to meet new, less creepy clients  ;)
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