Author Topic: is this the norm? (Read 1654 times)

sugar · « **on:** 16 July 2014, 02:56:04 pm »

I have a non drug policy in my house, Stated on my profile. However today had a middle aged guy today who sounded well spoken, sane and reasonable when he booked this morning. However he ended up being 50 mins late, and then when he finally arrived, he seemed complely dazed and weird. Then he requested if he could to do cocaine and showed me a bag of it. I told him no drugs allowed due to me not knowing how he will react towards once he has taken the stuff. I offered him a wide selections of wines and soft drinks. He declined and persisted to beg to take his cocaine. I asked him can't he be with a woman sober, he told me no.... he cant. He said ever since he has punted he likes a few lines if cocaine through out the booking. He said all his other girls dont mind. I refunded his money back and told him, he is welcome to see me when he is sober but not whilst under the influence.

Obviously this situation is not the norm, however how many of you ladies have punters who like a few innocent drinks or lines of coke before a booking to calm their nerves. Am I being too uptight ? It was a hour booking so missed out on that money.

Jenny 2 · « **Reply #1 on:** 16 July 2014, 03:03:04 pm »

No way are you being uptight!

You were absolutely right in what you did.............. and forget the money! I would do the same thing

It absolutely angers me that some guys out there think it's perfectly acceptable to take drugs with us in our flats! Remember also this is completely illegal and God forbid there were some traces left in your place.................

I have kicked people out of my bookings for suggesting the same, literally given them their money back and told them to take a hike.

I get really pissed off when I see on aw that term ' party' as it means to use drugs with a girl.

I have even put a mention of it on my website and aw profile - saying no drugs are tolerated by me in mine and the same on outcalls too.

Many years ago when I was more naive, someone arrived and I should have seen the warning signs, (excessive sweating, twitchy, very paranoid) and during the booking he became so ridiculously paranoid about things going on in my hallway (completely in his mind ...) that we had to stop and he left. I refused to see him after that and if I ever got a sniff of that behaviour again, I would not continue with the booking.

You never know how it could go and do you really want illegal substances in your place of work?

So don't doubt for one minute that you did anything wrong, you didn't.

martine21 · « **Reply #2 on:** 16 July 2014, 03:04:36 pm »

I don't think it's for anyone to say what is right or wrong in this situation. It's your property and your time so to me it's your rules.

I have in the past few months had dealings with clients who have a few lines of coke, I find with all of them they cant get it up and it makes it hard work for me, so now days I wont deal with it if I can avoid it.

I don't have issues with drug taking as such (nothing major obvs) as I have been abit of party animal myself once upon of time, but I don't engage in it anymore, I wouldn't judge anyone but wouldn't put up with it in work, too much hassle.

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Feltipen · « **Reply #3 on:** 16 July 2014, 03:04:53 pm »

Each to their own but I wouldn't do a booking with drugs involved.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #4 on:** 16 July 2014, 03:05:46 pm »

Quote from: sugar on 16 July 2014, 02:56:04 pm

I have a non drug policy in my house, Stated on my profile. However today had a middle aged guy today who sounded well spoken, sane and reasonable when he booked this morning. However he ended up being 50 mins late, and then when he finally arrived, he seemed complely dazed and weird. Then he requested if he could to do cocaine and showed me a bag of it. I told him no drugs allowed due to me not knowing how he will react towards once he has taken the stuff. I offered him a wide selections of wines and soft drinks. He declined and persisted to beg to take his cocaine. I asked him can't he be with a woman sober, he told me no he cant. He said ever since ge has punted he likes a few lines if cocaine through out the booking. He said all his other girls dont mine. I refunded his money back and told him, he is welcome to see me when he is sober but not whilst under the influence.

Obviously this situation is not the norm, however how many of you ladies have punters who like a few innocent drinks or lines of coke before a booking to calm their nerves. Am I being too uptight ? It was a hour booking so missed out on that money.

One last night arrived 30 minutes late without any communicating informing me. He texted me said he was here. I ignored him. Only a certain type take advantage he was one of them. Although could have accepted but didn't nor did I feel guilty. These are more likely to play up I took it as a red flag.

The_Lynx · « **Reply #5 on:** 16 July 2014, 03:20:31 pm »

Not phased at all about clients using drugs, I'm a casual user myself, but like Martine said, it's more work. With coke/E they can't stay hard, with speed they can't finish and could keep going for hours on end. I've given a 2 hours long blowjob once in my personal life, as a result of amphetamine being involved. Augh.

Hotblondie · « **Reply #6 on:** 16 July 2014, 03:34:02 pm »

I hate drugs. I had a regular who used to use them when he visited me and because he didnt understand I dont want drugs in my house and was totally inable to stay hard because of them, I had to let him go (blocked his number after few messages from him I considered to be rude and unnecessary).

I dont want drugs in my house at all so I wont accept any clients who brings them and insists using them in my presence.

Erotic flower · « **Reply #7 on:** 16 July 2014, 04:20:37 pm »

good on you sugar,
I had a client turn up at hotel and whip out his little supply of coke so fast I didn't get time to stop him I made him use baby wipes to clean it all up straight after. I was not even asked if I minded (he was also on it during the booking).

Nia Hope · « **Reply #8 on:** 16 July 2014, 04:27:17 pm »

I don't allow drugs either, did an outcall once with a couple who were off their faces on coke and he was very aggressive throughout, was quite easy money though in some ways because they didn't stop talking for most of it so no sex! X

tvhappiness · « **Reply #9 on:** 16 July 2014, 04:38:02 pm »

You should have asked him to leave immediately. If you were having the worst luck and the police decided to raid or he out of no where became violent. I understand it's hard to tell someone to leave because you are worried it could make them angry e.t.c maybe other members would know how to deal with a difficult situation like this.

The_Lynx · « **Reply #10 on:** 16 July 2014, 04:52:38 pm »

Quote from: tvhappiness on 16 July 2014, 04:38:02 pm

If you were having the worst luck and the police decided to raid or he out of no where became violent.

Unless you're in the guy's house, and he actually stores/sells dope, a police raid is incredibly unlikely. LE tends to have better stuff to do than to go after people with tiny amounts meant for personal use. Unpredictable behavior is a very real concern with some stuff, however.

happyhappyjoyjoy · « **Reply #11 on:** 16 July 2014, 05:11:39 pm »

i have no problems with drugs but I do wonder why they bother. Everthing affects the winky in some way and if I don't know the person then I would also worry about them tweaking out.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #12 on:** 16 July 2014, 06:19:55 pm »

I don't have a moral problem with it but I just can't be arsed doing a booking with someone who is sweating,gurning and getting a droopy cock and not being able to cum.Not my thing.I once had a guy book for 2 hours actually en route he told me he was going to drop some mdma and he wanted me to suck him off for the entire 2 hours...er nooo!He was actually surprised I would have an issue.I'm not desperate enough to be pratting about with someone off his face for 2 hours.

Dani · « **Reply #13 on:** 16 July 2014, 06:32:51 pm »

I can think of nothing worse than trying to do a booking with a guy on coke. Not only will he be sweating and struggle to keep it up, he will also have no idea of how long he has been there and expects you to carry on until he has finished which never ever happens.
I don't mind the fact they are hard work it is all the other problems that come with drug use. erratic behaviour, mood swings (always my fault the drugs make them soft not the drugs fault etc). I find the unpredictability of people on drugs leaves me cold and very uncomfortable
I now have a very clear no drugs rule. In fact I have a no drinking rule as well as I cannot tolerate the smell of alcohol on someones breath and I know some men like a drink before so I just tell them they would be better seeing someone else.

I also do not want drugs in my property. escorting is legal, Having drugs in your bedroom is not. I want to stay on the right side of legality and crossing those lines may well bring you additional problems.

I think you did the right thing

Rosa · « **Reply #14 on:** 16 July 2014, 09:54:09 pm »

No it is not the norm.

Someone sent me a text the other week telling me he had some 'coke' could we have some dirty fun?I'd already advised him I was fully booked, so I think this was to try and 'persuade' me otherwise. It had the exact opposite effect.

As Dani says it's illegal to have illegal drugs on your premises, Escorting/prossying is legal and I keep on the right side of the law.

This is aside from the fact that coke and other drugs including alcohol can render most people boring, and be detrimental to being sexy - despite making the user feel quite the opposite.

No way Ho Say.

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