I would say what you're doing is a little destructive and negative. I could see it putting guys off. Just because its a like on there profile doesn't mean they expect it on every booking. Remembering also that filling in there profile might be a distant memory to some guys and they're bound to get carried away. Of course they all like "bukake"!

I get quite cross when guys email asking for bareback, hard sports and water sports, I normally direct them to the search page where they can look for girls by their likes list.

If I get a booking request with no prior contact I email them asking what it is they're after and advise from there, but just because they enjoy role play (for example) doesn't mean it's what they want from me.

I would always ask before saying "I don't do that" but I can see why you would not want Mr Watersports-Enthusiast at your door with his snorkel before mentioning it.

I agree with MissArcaBunny and Friday in that with most services, I definitely don't think it's our job to check what a client's listed in his "Likes" and tell him which ones he can't get with us - but I think that with OWO and kissing being at discretion, because such a majority of escorts do both of those (or at least say they do, if asked - I've seen tons of FRs lamenting that services like these were promised but not delivered), it's more likely that a client will make the annoying assumption and end up wasting your time.

Not that this should change anything, of course! If I had my way, all clients would be given a special new brain cell that enables them to ALWAYS double-check rates and services before trying to book an escort no matter how much they might be distracted by their own penis. In fact, I'd probably implement a law that states that if you show up to an appointment without checking these things and decide that you don't want to stay because you should have checked, then you'd definitely have to pay for all the time wasted (including getting ready and travel time) at full rates!

But as the others have said, it's part and parcel of this work that you have to constantly ensure every single potential client is A) not a creepy weirdo, B) not a timewaster and C) is fully aware of what an appointment with you costs and entails. Many clients can, of course, take care of all these things themselves by being sensible people. But the rest, the ones who for some reason dislike reading words even when those words are really quite important, or who think that it's our job to sort them out with the correct booking with the right girl at the right price (a link to the AW search form is more than I'd even consider my duty ), well, they're just what we call "One Of Escorting's Delightful Downsides" and we all have to put up with it.

Still. If I didn't offer OWO or DFK, I might be tempted to confirm services with all potential clients at the time of booking (i.e. pre-confirmation and definitely pre-appointment). Definitely make it super-friendly, though, and make sure to mention what you do do with huge enthusiasm, etc etc.

Think of it this way too, how many times have we been contacted by guys with everything they want to do and the outfit changes they wanted only to find one blow job and they're done?!

It's all about selling what you do do not what you don't do.

I am much the same as paris as i started out from paper adds ....i am selling my self as far as i am concerened  my service consists of hand relief (covered) oral and sex  in a undressed state ................................but then i will ask if there is any thing particular they want if they say no that is what they get ( not so cut and dried though) ..............if they ask for eg  water sports i will say yes but only me on you at the end of the service... if they ask to do water sports on me i will say no.... if this is a deal breaker so be it ....but i dont mention every service (extensive lists) i do or dont as if i drone on it goes in one ear and out the other if they ask for services  i dont do i will always tell the truth at the point of contact .

I also always tell the client i am not skinny if they want some one slim i not for them as well ;-D

As for Aw i  never look at their likes as people like ticking everything in sight plus i get most of my buissness elsewhere  and i dont think its important to me  as i could never get through a list the size of some in a day never mind half a hour ;-) .

Just be really chatty friendly  on the phone and in the room and then your half way there ...........as it is not always about the sex some are just lonely , want human contact , feel loved ,attention etc