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ana30

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #60 on: 13 October 2015, 10:41:32 pm »



"... you will see how many bitches claims that they are models/high value women but they whore themselves  for 20k-30k $/week

Irina do you believe that once you have sex in exchange for money you're not a "high value woman" anymore?

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"Reality is the name we give to our disappointments"

angel Irina

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #61 on: 13 October 2015, 11:01:55 pm »



"... you will see how many bitches claims that they are models/high value women but they whore themselves  for 20k-30k $/week

Irina do you believe that once you have sex in exchange for money you're not a "high value woman" anymore?

no no no!
Don't get me wrong girls
It's not about money, it's about how much do you have respect for yourself. accepting someone shitting on your body is not something i appreciate and have respect for
Claiming they're models and they negate prostitution at the same time make me i don't have any respect for these women. It's not about money they get at all

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #62 on: 13 October 2015, 11:12:50 pm »
Did I stutter?

Once again, the services other sex workers offer are nobody's business but their own and we don't slag people off here because their choices are different to ours. I doubt very much whether the women concerned care if anybody 'respects' them or not on this basis, and there's no reason why they either would, or should.

Move on please, or I'm locking it. If it helps to have a reminder of what the topic is, then read the thread starter again.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #63 on: 14 October 2015, 08:20:41 am »
if for no reason other than that this stupid sniping is so boring I can feel my bones decalcifying.

Hilarious  ;D

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #64 on: 17 October 2015, 06:45:56 pm »
High class can mean different things to different clients/escorts/agencies.

I personally find brunette hair, brown eyes and skin prettier attributes to blonde. Look at the Kardashians, JLo, Beyonce etc etc you don't have to be blonde to be beautiful.

I disagree with the posts saying you have to be a young, educated, posh, model. One thing we all know is that clients are a mixed bunch and all like/want a variety of looks, shapes and sizes. What makes you high class is the amount of money the client pays you.
My advice is to stand proud as you are and know your worth is more than you are getting paid. :)

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #65 on: 18 October 2015, 01:20:44 am »
I don't think so, used to work for a so called high end agency when I was touring regularly in London. I'm oriental, petite, short, normal ok looking, quite surprised they took me in actually lol. And on their website they are all types of girl with different races and nationality. Didn't get much jobs from them though didn't expect to anyway being new and just touring.

I used to meet up with a high paid escort, she used to be on aw and prob the most expensive one charged 400 or 500 an hour, she was oriental as well and in her 30s, very short, not a very attractive face if I'm being honest, but she has a very warm personality and always dolled up with expensive outfits had hundreds of field reports with her regulars..

So I don't think there is a exclusive type, your own unique style is way better, be one of the kind, take care of yourself and find a way to get regulars also.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #66 on: 18 October 2015, 05:06:32 am »

I disagree with the posts saying you have to be a young, educated, posh, model. One thing we all know is that clients are a mixed bunch and all like/want a variety of looks, shapes and sizes. What makes you high class is the amount of money the client pays you.
My advice is to stand proud as you are and know your worth is more than you are getting paid. :)

Not at all, you don't have to be young, educated or posh. As far as I know, clients are a mixed bunch and some might prefer a size 6, 22 yr old model type whereas another client wants a mature escort with life experience under her belt. It's still required when charging that kind of price to look immaculate at bookings in high class type of outfits. I was turned away for wearing smart trousers to one of these bookings. The client wanted a classy LBD and underwear with that,  ::) I didn't feel like shelling out an extra ?200 for the new outfits.

I don't think so, used to work for a so called high end agency when I was touring regularly in London. I'm oriental, petite, short, normal ok looking, quite surprised they took me in actually lol. And on their website they are all types of girl with different races and nationality. Didn't get much jobs from them though didn't expect to anyway being new and just touring.

I used to meet up with a high paid escort, she used to be on aw and prob the most expensive one charged 400 or 500 an hour, she was oriental as well and in her 30s, very short, not a very attractive face if I'm being honest, but she has a very warm personality and always dolled up with expensive outfits had hundreds of field reports with her regulars..

So I don't think there is a exclusive type, your own unique style is way better, be one of the kind, take care of yourself and find a way to get regulars also.

agreed Cat, some escorts are very good with clients and earn considerably more. I used to work with a girl, average looking  but really good at making clients extend the bookings. She gets long bookings just by extending and keeping the clients interested. It's different for everyone. There's no appearance prototype to making clients pay up


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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #67 on: 19 October 2015, 10:03:26 pm »
From my experience it does not matter how good looking or well dressed you are the girls that appeal to a large majority or men are the ones that know how to charm the birds out of the tree!!

Unfortunately that's not me  ::)

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« Reply #68 on: 04 April 2017, 04:54:26 am »
I would like to try to make myself into a higher end escort and cater to a more elite clientele. I have the talent, personality, and customer service expertise to do a splendid job but I'd like some other ladies constructive criticism on the way I look or the content of my AW profile. I'd like some real world advise and an honest opinion on if I'm pretty enough to cater to a higher end clientele.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #69 on: 08 April 2017, 01:25:39 am »
No, they don't all look like supermodels. Very few would come close to being confused as a model.

In general, yes, most "high class" (aka, high charging) escorts are pale skinned (not necessarily caucasian, however), slim (sizes 8-12, however there are quite a few size 14 girls too and some very thin ones; I think it's proportionality) and above average attractiveness. Most do not have educations any higher than other escorts: they fabricate and lie as a marketing pitch. I have never noticed a trend with hair colour, eye colour etc. However, crazy hair dos, bright red hair etc generally would be a no.

You don't need to be under 30 (it works very well to be older, not every man wants to be seen in public with someone so young it brings into question if they are paid or a golddigger), you can be of any ethnicity (however, people are inherently racist. They tend to see a western or northern euro as "worth" more than an eastern euro, many clients openly discriminate against Romanian's etc. Some clients think that black women will be more aggressive or risky, that latina's will be full on and "crazy" etc), you don't need to initially have a flash website.

If you are a attractive (even moderately so) woman that is not substantially overweight, in decent shape and can hold a conversation - you are in a good position to charge the same rates. Clients do expect a little more polish, good communication, entertaining conversations and do expect a good service for that price.

There are outliers to every situation.

There are many ways to make money. Some women like to work at lower rates with higher volume as it's more consistent, some want to work as little as possible due to commitments they have, or because they like to think of themselves as certain things.

The best thing to do (IMO) is to start low and raise your rates over a long period of time where your reputation reflects it.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #70 on: 08 April 2017, 08:30:53 am »
A friend of a friend owned a High end escort agency in London. Most girls were lucky to have a client a week.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #71 on: 08 April 2017, 09:09:45 am »
Greetings everyone. This is my first topic here on this forum, so please bear with me. I wanted to bring up an interesting topic that I'd like to get some opinions on. In a few weeks' time, I'll be entering the world of high-end escorting via an agency. I've been escorting on the side for several years now. However, the clients I usually see are more of your average Joe, paying me a couple of hundred dollars for an hour. I feel as though I could increase my earning potential if I "polished" my look up. I'm proud of my body but I feel that my natural brown hair and brown eyes would hinder my best earning potential. I wouldn't be able to earn as much money as say, a blue-eyed blonde. I've dyed my hair honey blonde and invested in a very expensive pair of hand-painted blue contact lenses to fit this physical mold. I've also researched a few websites where high-end escorts advertise their services. Most of the ones charging in the $500-$1000 range are white, exclusively light-eyed, dark or light hair, or slim to slim with a few curves. Being foreign born (especially if you're from Ukraine or Sweden) is a bonus. It's like you have to have these very select physical features to maximiZe your earning potential. Do you girls agree that high end escorting calls for a very specific look? Do you think changing my look is wrong? Do you have problems with it? Thoughts? Opinions? Thanks!  :)

Personally I wouldn't change my look for earning potential only if I fancy a look change. Like for example I used to do photos in uniforms. But fancy a change to dresses and keep the stockings. I think you can decide whether to put your price up regardless of look.

Did you know you can coloured contact lenses then dye your hair blonde. Going to these type of lengths for big money isn't practical I think. I couldn't be asked to chase the money like that.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #72 on: 08 April 2017, 04:16:55 pm »
I did not start working til I was in my 30's and I am size 12-14....I started off at 200 ph and did quite well however was not happy with the type of client I was getting.  I also had an agency and they said my rates were too low and that clients think if you are cheap you are no good  ???

Unfortunately at the time I had a boyfriend that was always trying to put me down so my confidence was quite low then... I agreed to put them up and it changed everything. I finally had the type of client I was comfortable with and also I could work less too !!

It also gave me the confidence to get rid of the looser boyfriend  :)

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #73 on: 08 April 2017, 05:40:19 pm »
I charge a bit more than the going rate on my 1hr bookings and I too dont think it makes me work less or more than anyone else. When it was quiet I put my prices down as I thought I was asking too much, but was still quiet. So now I dont bother lowering anymore.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #74 on: 08 April 2017, 11:25:45 pm »
For some reason there is this massive stereotype that very wealthy men would go only for pale, blonde, very skinny lady. I dont think thats true and I dont think you have to change yourself to become High end escort. Maybe add some more glamour and be more posh but to colour  your hair blond and wear coloured lenses is not good idea in my view. I think every man has different taste and what mostly matters is to look good, provide good service, to be entertaining and interesting and to have good manners.
Also don't forget that blond look doesn't suit everyone. If i colour  hair blond and wear light lenses I will look like a mistake and not high end definetely. So just be yourself, dress well, talk smart and make good money :)