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Greetings everyone. This is my first topic here on this forum, so please bear with me. I wanted to bring up an interesting topic that I'd like to get some opinions on. In a few weeks' time, I'll be entering the world of high-end escorting via an agency. I've been escorting on the side for several years now. However, the clients I usually see are more of your average Joe, paying me a couple of hundred dollars for an hour. I feel as though I could increase my earning potential if I "polished" my look up. I'm proud of my body but I feel that my natural brown hair and brown eyes would hinder my best earning potential. I wouldn't be able to earn as much money as say, a blue-eyed blonde. I've dyed my hair honey blonde and invested in a very expensive pair of hand-painted blue contact lenses to fit this physical mold. I've also researched a few websites where high-end escorts advertise their services. Most of the ones charging in the $500-$1000 range are white, exclusively light-eyed, dark or light hair, or slim to slim with a few curves. Being foreign born (especially if you're from Ukraine or Sweden) is a bonus. It's like you have to have these very select physical features to maximiZe your earning potential. Do you girls agree that high end escorting calls for a very specific look? Do you think changing my look is wrong? Do you have problems with it? Thoughts? Opinions? Thanks!  :)

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #1 on: 05 October 2015, 01:36:12 am »
I couldn't be bothered. I quite like how I look and the 'high end clients' will probably seem like bellends to me. Plus I could never be considered as high class with my accent.

I've never really understood this, we all suck cocks for a living, just some girls charge more to seem 'better'

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #2 on: 05 October 2015, 01:49:21 am »
God.. How sad to have to change yourself to increase your earning potential.. I prefer to just give amazing service and look as best I can with what I was born with. Money isn't everything.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #3 on: 05 October 2015, 01:52:13 am »
I don't believe it matters what colour your hair is, what colour your eyes are or anything else for that matter.

I'd rather just be "me" too.
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It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #4 on: 05 October 2015, 02:02:22 am »
This is just my opinion, but I don't think changing your appearance always works convincingly. The skin colour, for example, of a blue-eyed blonde is likely to be different to that of a brown-eyed brunette, and someone can look a bit 'off' or odd if they don't get it right.

But more to the point, there are tons of men who like darker coloured women - why not just play on your natural assets?
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #5 on: 05 October 2015, 04:51:36 am »
This is just my opinion, but I don't think changing your appearance always works convincingly. The skin colour, for example, of a blue-eyed blonde is likely to be different to that of a brown-eyed brunette, and someone can look a bit 'off' or odd if they don't get it right.

But more to the point, there are tons of men who like darker coloured women - why not just play on your natural assets?

I agree with this.
Maybe see how it goes if you're convinced by the whole "men prefer blondes", but from experience as both I know that isn't true

Where did you get the idea from, did the agency tell you this?
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #6 on: 05 October 2015, 08:42:43 am »
I worked last summer for one  agency in paris,  hour  starting 600e, anal  extra  500e etc etc ... overnight startintg   5000e. so i think  i can call this high class or high price lol

 I'm  Czech i don't speak  fr. I'm173cm blue   eyes  and  natural  redhead ..... i had a  lot  of  work,  but  after  two  week  i decide,  for  me is  better be  independent, I'm  not a party  girl, and of my experience this is what mostly  this guys do, and  want and i will   don't star do coke life  just because somebody  pay me .....
Im looking  for apartment  in London

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #7 on: 05 October 2015, 09:47:52 am »
Greetings everyone. This is my first topic here on this forum, so please bear with me. I wanted to bring up an interesting topic that I'd like to get some opinions on. In a few weeks' time, I'll be entering the world of high-end escorting via an agency. I've been escorting on the side for several years now. However, the clients I usually see are more of your average Joe, paying me a couple of hundred dollars for an hour. I feel as though I could increase my earning potential if I "polished" my look up. I'm proud of my body but I feel that my natural brown hair and brown eyes would hinder my best earning potential. I wouldn't be able to earn as much money as say, a blue-eyed blonde. I've dyed my hair honey blonde and invested in a very expensive pair of hand-painted blue contact lenses to fit this physical mold. I've also researched a few websites where high-end escorts advertise their services. Most of the ones charging in the $500-$1000 range are white, exclusively light-eyed, dark or light hair, or slim to slim with a few curves. Being foreign born (especially if you're from Ukraine or Sweden) is a bonus. It's like you have to have these very select physical features to maximiZe your earning potential. Do you girls agree that high end escorting calls for a very specific look? Do you think changing my look is wrong? Do you have problems with it? Thoughts? Opinions? Thanks!  :)

If you can pull it off that's great!  -Call me weirdo but if I'm going to suck dick I'd rather charge 800 pounds for the hour than 150- Problem is I wouldn't get away with it.

But If you can... go ahead and be my guest.

Problem with pulling off that whole high end escorting is that:
- You have to be very young (below 30).
- You have to almost look like a model or be one.
- You have to be posh (or learn how to pull the "made in Chelsea accent properly), unless you're from like Lituania or something.
- You have to dress posh, talk posh.
- You need to be able to hold a proper conversation.
- You need a nice apartment in a posh area.
- You need a very sophisticated and professional website with expensive photographs.
- You need to have a VERY sofisticated look (that means no fake orange tans, nose piercings, tattoos, faded jeans with holes or funky coloured hair).
- You need to look almost flawless/impeccable.

And of course all the above requirements cost a lot of money. But if it's financially worth it.... why not?
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #8 on: 05 October 2015, 09:59:42 am »
Greetings everyone. This is my first topic here on this forum, so please bear with me. I wanted to bring up an interesting topic that I'd like to get some opinions on. In a few weeks' time, I'll be entering the world of high-end escorting via an agency. I've been escorting on the side for several years now. However, the clients I usually see are more of your average Joe, paying me a couple of hundred dollars for an hour. I feel as though I could increase my earning potential if I "polished" my look up. I'm proud of my body but I feel that my natural brown hair and brown eyes would hinder my best earning potential. I wouldn't be able to earn as much money as say, a blue-eyed blonde. I've dyed my hair honey blonde and invested in a very expensive pair of hand-painted blue contact lenses to fit this physical mold. I've also researched a few websites where high-end escorts advertise their services. Most of the ones charging in the $500-$1000 range are white, exclusively light-eyed, dark or light hair, or slim to slim with a few curves. Being foreign born (especially if you're from Ukraine or Sweden) is a bonus. It's like you have to have these very select physical features to maximiZe your earning potential. Do you girls agree that high end escorting calls for a very specific look? Do you think changing my look is wrong? Do you have problems with it? Thoughts? Opinions? Thanks!  :)

If you can pull it off that's great!  -Call me weirdo but if I'm going to suck dick I'd rather charge 800 pounds for the hour than 150- Problem is I wouldn't get away with it.

But If you can... go ahead and be my guest.

Problem with pulling off that whole high end escorting is that:
- You have to be very young (below 30).
- You have to almost look like a model or be one.
- You have to be posh (or learn how to pull the "made in Chelsea accent properly), unless you're from like Lituania or something.
- You have to dress posh, talk posh.
- You need to be able to hold a conversation.
- You need a nice apartment in a posh area.
- You need a very sophisticated and professional website with expensive photographs.
- You need to have a VERY sofisticated look (that means no fake orange tans, nose piercings or tattoos).

And of course all this costs a lot of money. But if it's financially worth it.... why not?
Totally agree, why not change your look. Im sure most of us dye our hair wear makeup, have boob jobs etc etc, if you are happy to do it then do it! Good luck x
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #9 on: 05 October 2015, 10:21:04 am »
I also don't see anything wrong in changing your look in order to earn more money. It's business as any other, and if it helps you make more, then it's fine as long as you can be bothered.
I agree that there is a specific look that a 'high class' escort is expected to look like. You certainly don't have to be blonde or tall or white or whatever, but you do need to look impeccable, wear expensive looking clothes, handbags and shoes, nails and hair always done. You are expected to be something 'more' than a 120 an hour girl, otherwise why pay more

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #10 on: 05 October 2015, 10:36:02 am »
Also keep in mind that (as an indie) you DON'T get many calls from guys willing to pay 800 pounds an hour (unless you have like 20 glowing reviews on TER) , because the men who can pay that kind of money is a  small niche.
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #11 on: 05 October 2015, 10:38:34 am »
Or alternatively:

You are expected to look like something 'more expensive' than a 120 an hour girl, otherwise why pay more

Why pay more because somebody has been to the hairdresser and bought some expensive clobber on eBay is anybody's guess, but a fool and his money etc, etc. It's worth pointing out that the OP isn't in the UK, and where she is things like perceived status via appearances are likely to be more of a factor than here :).

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #12 on: 05 October 2015, 10:43:50 am »
Or alternatively:

You are expected to look like something 'more expensive' than a 120 an hour girl, otherwise why pay more

Why pay more because somebody has been to the hairdresser and bought some expensive clobber on eBay is anybody's guess, but a fool and his money etc, etc. It's worth pointing out that the OP isn't in the UK, and where she is things like perceived status via appearances are likely to be more of a factor than here :).

And then it's an expense, so might not be worth it.

I'm fairly 'reasonably' moderately priced (althought that's all relative), and I make sure I'm groomed, smooth, hair styled but I don't spend much money doing that. I simply look after myself and make sure I have some decent staples in my wardrobe/lingerie collection.

Best hair cut I've ever had cost me ?6.

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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #13 on: 05 October 2015, 11:10:12 am »
Or alternatively:

You are expected to look like something 'more expensive' than a 120 an hour girl, otherwise why pay more

Why pay more because somebody has been to the hairdresser and bought some expensive clobber on eBay is anybody's guess, but a fool and his money etc, etc. It's worth pointing out that the OP isn't in the UK, and where she is things like perceived status via appearances are likely to be more of a factor than here :).

I agree, but The "high end escorting" is just another business model. You can charge 800 for the hour and see 6 guys a month, but when you deduct posh apartment/lifestyle expenses you're left with 200 pounds of saved money. In the meanwhile, the 200 pounds escort, is living much more modest, sees 20 guys a month and is able to save 800 pounds.

I don't think one business model is better than the other. It's what works for you. And what works for jane doesn't work necessarily for Suzie.

Knowing that there's women out there charging 800 per hour because of "perceived satuts" doesn't bother me the slightest (in fact: power to them). Power to them because they're dealing with the rich sociopath assholes, the wolves of wallstreet, the super aggressive self entitled CEO's and the middle eastern royal family coke heads  with 20 Ferraris who love the gullible 25 year old model. I'm sooo glad i don't have to deal with those guys honestly. Give me any time the 9 to 5 Joe's who doesn't want a skinny 25 gullible model but a real woman, the blue collar worker or the builder who just got his christmas bonus.

 But each to their own.  ;D
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Re: Is there an exclusive appearance prototype for high end escorting?
« Reply #14 on: 05 October 2015, 11:27:34 am »
It's just marketing, we all fall for it in some ways. I prefer Clinique products rather than Rimmell but probably would look the same if I wore Rimmell makeup! Some girls have different prices on aw than on their website or agency profiles, same service, same girl. It's just business x
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