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EllaD

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Overtime
« on: 17 April 2012, 08:59:47 pm »
So...I met a client, and got a bit carried away and ended up staying an extra hour. That was fine,was rather enjoying it but now he's asked for a repeat booking. Which is great - but he's put it through as 2 hours at my one hour rate. I don't know how to tell him without insulting him that me overstaying the last time was a bit of a mistake, and this time I shall be keeping a closer eye on the time?

divine_madonna

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #1 on: 17 April 2012, 09:06:40 pm »
Hi Ella, you could just be honest about it with him, but that might offend him a bit...or you could say something along the lines of you have another booking after his which you?d be happy to cancel to spend longer with him if he pays for two hours...might make him feel special  :)

EllaD

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #2 on: 17 April 2012, 09:24:30 pm »
Yeah could do, to be honest am a bit miffed that he assumed I'd split my fee in half for him (need to stop being such an ego stroker...). Thanks for the advice!x

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #3 on: 17 April 2012, 09:38:48 pm »
I personally would say 'I can't wait to see you again, I really enjoyed our last meet.. especialy when you *insert something he did that you enjoyed and want more of* but I think you've made an error with the booking form, my 2 hourly rate is *XX* so if you put it through again I will look forward to having more fun with you ;) '

It massages his ego whilst letting him know in no uncertain terms that you expect your usual rate ;) I do like Divines suggestion of a 'next booking' but if the guy turns into a regular there's only so many times he will fall for it before you have to come out and be honest with him?
..Some would say I am selling my body but I know I am selling so much more than that..

divine_madonna

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #4 on: 17 April 2012, 09:47:51 pm »
I do like Divines suggestion of a 'next booking' but if the guy turns into a regular there's only so many times he will fall for it before you have to come out and be honest with him?


Aaah very true  :) my suggestion is a quick fix, Cora's is much better in the long term if he does become a regular. You have to start as you mean to go on.

EvaBeeva

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #5 on: 18 April 2012, 10:54:23 am »
I find men generally try to take the piss when it comes to money, but most will pay up if you stand your ground.  They want it for free but discounted is close enough ::)
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Lost in Translation

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #6 on: 18 April 2012, 11:02:10 am »
trust me, the female clients do the same!  But they try it on waaaaaaaaay more when I tell them not to worry, yes I do actually like women cause I'm a dyke. They then think I'll do them for free if they send me pics of their tits.

LOL yes. very nice. it's still the same rate.

divine_madonna

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #7 on: 18 April 2012, 11:16:18 am »
trust me, the female clients do the same!  But they try it on waaaaaaaaay more when I tell them not to worry, yes I do actually like women cause I'm a dyke. They then think I'll do them for free if they send me pics of their tits.

I?m quite shocked by this. I?d have expected better from the fairer sex...maybe it?s the ?paying for it? part that seems to fazzle peoples brain? If you don?t mind me asking do you get a lot of female clients? I thought they were rare, I?ve only ever had one enquiry from a woman in the whole time I?ve been escorting.

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Re: Overtime
« Reply #8 on: 18 April 2012, 12:26:34 pm »
I have also noticed this with my female clients sabrina and to be fair i was expecting them to be a " breath of fresh air" compaired to the men but nope lol x

I have a couple of regular ladies i see danae and get quite a lot of requests from ladies xxx
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Re: Overtime
« Reply #9 on: 18 April 2012, 03:12:03 pm »
trust me, the female clients do the same!  But they try it on waaaaaaaaay more when I tell them not to worry, yes I do actually like women cause I'm a dyke. They then think I'll do them for free if they send me pics of their tits.

I?m quite shocked by this. I?d have expected better from the fairer sex...maybe it?s the ?paying for it? part that seems to fazzle peoples brain? If you don?t mind me asking do you get a lot of female clients? I thought they were rare, I?ve only ever had one enquiry from a woman in the whole time I?ve been escorting.

I have regulars on webcam, some of them asking me on dates. I have been taking incalls for about a week and outcalls for two- I've had three enquiries, one serious with a booking next month and a couple of people tentatively asking me if I would teach them how to have with another woman. From experience it takes more correspondence with the gals and more hand holding but with good reason - they are more freaked out, generally. Their boyfriend/husband doesn't know and/or it's their first time exploring a sexuality they think has to be secret.

I got about one a month when I was escorting through an agency. All instances they were 1) drunk 2) been dumped 3) crying/or visibly very upset and none of them I had sex with. I let them sob into my boobs give them a massage, listen to how bicurious they were, how long they had been that way, and what asses their recently departed boyfriends were. And what could I do to them?

One passed out on me when she had obviously taken something, I put her in the recovery position, took an extra ?25 and the pizza in the fridge for my trouble, called an ambulance and left the door ajar so they could get in. She was lucky. she was a photographer and the house was fully kitted with thousands of pounds worth of stuff. Someone less scrupulous than me could have robbed her blind.

the inquiries I've had and the girls on webb cam have been ok. I get at least one a night (probably because my profile talks about me having female partners and going to Brighton pride) but I wouldn't put their behavior as better. why should it be? they are purchasing a fantasy and they want a bargain, and maybe if they try it on, they can get something for free. When they start flirting, thinking that works like it does with some mechanics to get some money bumped off... lol no sweetheart, it doesn't work that way. And don't try to pull me at work!

I used to get girls on the phone sex line and they were no different than the average person wanting to get off as quickly as possible for the lowest amount of money.