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Mariaxxx

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Is it the end?
« on: 05 September 2022, 04:37:37 pm »
I've read a punter opinion somewhere that in a couple of years there will be almost no demand for escorts. And I feel he is quite right with that ( at least from my point of view).

I feel like this business is getting worse everywhere ( was working in a few countries in Europe, tried Dubai and Asia).

I am working since 2012, my best years was 2014-16 but since then it is getting worse and worse pretty much everywhere. Camgirls also complain even tho technically they have world wide access.

So is the oldest profession of the world collapsing? Why?

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #1 on: 05 September 2022, 06:04:02 pm »
The punter who told you this sounds oddly unaware that prostitution has existed in one form or another for almost as long as people have, and free casual sex has for longer still! And in every part of the world too, including places far more challenging to work and punt in than this one :)

Usually the people who say this sort of thing are not very bright and just projecting their own situation onto everyone else (a little like the people on both sides who only use Adultwork and can't get their heads around the fact that the rest of the internet exists and is managing fine without them) because they struggle with the fact that not everybody is the same as they are. Either way I wouldn't take it too seriously provided you're putting the necessary effort in.

I daresay a fair few will give up if they're not earning enough for whatever reason (the commonest being that it's everybody else's fault rather than that they could up their game a bit), but as with every other sector, I doubt anybody with a good service offering, a solid business and decent clients has anything much to worry about.

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #2 on: 05 September 2022, 09:16:50 pm »
Very much doubt it. Men need sex, well most do, lots of my clients are married but still need more. There will always be a market for sex, it's just a question of how profitable it is. I'm only 2 years in, but rare I don't make my minimum. Cost of living is going up but speaking to lots of my regs, they'll still find a way to afford it. I think it also depends how you set your fees. I have another business and see people give up that 'frandchise' very easily, whereas I put a lot of effort into that side too so make money, just not enough to give up the escort work.

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #3 on: 05 September 2022, 09:52:51 pm »
Almost 11 years in its defo no quieter down here

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #4 on: 05 September 2022, 09:54:29 pm »
I find many men now can't be bothered to spend money on dating because what most really want to have sex and it's easier and less stress to pay for it, So I think it's definitely not the end of sex work unless something is put in the drinking water to chemically castrate 90% of the Male population.

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #5 on: 06 September 2022, 10:11:55 am »
I find many men now can't be bothered to spend money on dating because what most really want to have sex and it's easier and less stress to pay for it, So I think it's definitely not the end of sex work unless something is put in the drinking water to chemically castrate 90% of the Male population.


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I dont worry what someone is telling me, I judge based on how busy my phone seems to be. Also I have impression that is not necessarily the money issue only coz if it the case they would be bargaining of course and lately even this doesn't happen. Can be just deadly quiet.

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #6 on: 06 September 2022, 01:12:09 pm »
I don't think selling sex will ever be the end but i have noticed big changes over the years. I do think it's harder for some women if they want to do much more vanilla or safer services because they will have a limited percentage of clients to attract compared to ladies that offer a really lot with starting prices quite low.

So that is the only change that i think is harder as men expect so much more now days and so much more competition.

So my point is ladies that could and used to earn a really lot on same services years ago will not get the same now days as it's tougher and a lot more independents working now. I also think going to new areas do not always make you busy compared to doing that years ago pretty much guaranteed you would be busy all day every day for a while.


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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #7 on: 06 September 2022, 04:42:01 pm »
I don't think selling sex will ever be the end but i have noticed big changes over the years. I do think it's harder for some women if they want to do much more vanilla or safer services because they will have a limited percentage of clients to attract compared to ladies that offer a really lot with starting prices quite low.

So that is the only change that i think is harder as men expect so much more now days and so much more competition.

So my point is ladies that could and used to earn a really lot on same services years ago will not get the same now days as it's tougher and a lot more independents working now. I also think going to new areas do not always make you busy compared to doing that years ago pretty much guaranteed you would be busy all day every day for a while.

I am curios to hear what  you consider as "offer a lot"

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #8 on: 06 September 2022, 05:45:31 pm »
Thread tidied and off topic posts moved.

Those who want to discuss the day to day use and banking of cash can do so here; there is no need to derail others' threads to drumbang your pet subjects, and it's going to stop.

I am curios to hear what  you consider as "offer a lot"

Without wanting to speak for EG, she has posted repeatedly that she thinks people who offer services like OWO get more business than those who do not, despite all evidence from others (including me) that it makes fuck all difference provided everything else is bang on. It's a bit like those who think women over 40/size 12 and so on get less business, and whilst some punters will certainly think that too, they're few and far between, and not to be troubled with :).

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #9 on: 06 September 2022, 05:56:58 pm »
I do think it's harder for some women if they want to do much more vanilla or safer services because they will have a limited percentage of clients to attract compared to ladies that offer a really lot with starting prices quite low

Everyone has a 'limited' number of potential punters by virtue of everything from their location to their prices to their working hours to their hair colour. Nobody appeals to everyone.

For as long as people conflate offering different services with fewer services this weirdness will continue, when in reality this is like saying an Indian restaurant is offering 'less' than an Italian restaurant because they don't serve pizza. Each restaurant has it's own tailored offering and they're not comparable.

There is also far more to services than a tacky ticklist on a shitheap site like Adultwork, and the punters who realise that are the ones I want and thankfully, get. Granted I had to move areas to get them in sufficient numbers to earn the money I want and obviously this isn't going to be possible for everyone, but this was nothing to do with a lack of punters per se, just a lack of punters I could stay in the same room as for more than about thirty seconds without wanting to shriek.

It amazes me that agencies still exist, but they do. Some people are happy to pay a pimp even in 2022, but it would be nice to see them eventually crawl off into the history books.

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #10 on: 20 September 2022, 02:58:11 pm »
As someone mentioned earlier, people find a way to save and spend on companionship.  Our industry has survived multiple recessions and wars for 1000s+ years in europe, and exists in countries and societies that some people would be surprised to hear about.  Don't worry, we'll still be around !! :angel:

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #11 on: 20 September 2022, 04:54:41 pm »
I don’t think it’s the end but I think it’s slowed down. Because lots of people are getting increases in bills. Energy and also food. I feel like everything is going up right now. So people I’ve less money to spend. They might not use sex workers as often

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #12 on: 22 September 2022, 06:15:20 am »
The work that will always continue to bring customers
Sex industry
Funeral business
Food and alcohol

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #13 on: 22 September 2022, 06:40:15 am »
Nail salons always seem very busy too.

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Re: Is it the end?
« Reply #14 on: 22 September 2022, 09:16:29 am »
Nail salons always seem very busy too.

I agree all the beauty staff specially Botox
Fillers hairdresser they always have customers