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xbbwkimx

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Childcare [was 'Do any of you have..']
« on: 11 February 2013, 09:38:45 pm »
Kids? What do you do with them wen you have a booking lol.
Iv been giving my sister a tenner each time iv got a booking! But normally try n stick to Thursday n Friday when ds is at preschool.

My sister told me to be careful because if someone finds out and tells social services what I do, I could lose my babies, now I'm worried! :(




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Re: Do any of you have..
« Reply #1 on: 11 February 2013, 09:51:09 pm »
As long as your kids are cared for and arent in the property while clients are there, you should be ok.

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Re: Childcare [was 'Do any of you have..']
« Reply #2 on: 11 February 2013, 10:04:40 pm »
I would tread carefully with the working from home scene. One for social services, it is risky working from home with children living there, even if your sister can verify that they are cared for and away from bookings. SS can be very difficult regarding this type of profession. But also another risk is the client themselves, there are numerous warnings of guys going bad or weird on here, even the nice regulars can become assholes.

Trust me, I`ve been there nice guy went stalker on me after being a 3 year reg. Guys can be assholes and have a habit of just dropping by unannounced at all hours if they know its your place and also the risk of them finding personal details or even blackmail.

I dont mean to scare you, but you really should find another place to work consider outcalls, flatshares or hotels ASAP to be on the safe side. xxxx

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Re: Childcare [was 'Do any of you have..']
« Reply #3 on: 11 February 2013, 10:14:47 pm »
yes i think working from home with kids brings problems of its own even if u do everything right. I would perhaps use a hotel or rent a single room to do the work, people can be so malicious.

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Re: Childcare [was 'Do any of you have..']
« Reply #4 on: 11 February 2013, 11:20:13 pm »
i'v done it before you need to keep your buisness to yourself an make sure no-one but you knows what you do, also be very carefull in reguards to ss if they ask any questions your a companion you go to them no extras and the best thing to do is make sure you have security at your home i had a great big pittbull when i did it so i had no problem with returning stalkers guess they would of been to scared to not many clients had a problem with my dog being in the house as they understood we need to be secure.......like i said the best thing is to make sure ss don't find out i.e make sure its only your sister that knows.
i think finding elsewhere is allways best if you have children but needs must at times xxxx

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Re: Childcare [was 'Do any of you have..']
« Reply #5 on: 12 February 2013, 06:43:48 am »
I always say if you are in the position that you have to work from home do it but as soon as you can afford to rent rooms or hotels do it.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Childcare [was 'Do any of you have..']
« Reply #6 on: 12 February 2013, 07:49:27 am »
I work from home and am a single parent with no and i mean no assistance.  I work from 10am - 4pm Monday - Friday and ensure my daughter is off the premises and any evidence i.e. photo's are not viewable for clients.  She is at school and afterschool and during holidays I have her in a play group. 

I have had to deal with Social Services and the only advice i can give you is that to ensure that you can prove that your children are not near the house.  But to tell you honestly if they find out about your bukkake parties they might view it differently.  Also do ensure you are not claiming benefits as it is their duty to report if they feel you are claiming and earning cash in hand.