Hi,

I just had a guy proposing me a cash meet, are these things legit ? (The guy is submissive and he wants me to come to the cash machine with him, take the cash and leave)
Or is it a pure time waster scam ? Would you advice me to go for it or is it too good to be true ?
Has any of you ever had a cash meet experience ?

If something seems too good to be true, it usually is. Also, do you even offer this service? If you don't, why would someone contact you for it? Do you often provide services you don't advertise for randoms?

Don't waste your time with this.

If something seems too good to be true, it usually is. Also, do you even offer this service? If you don't, why would someone contact you for it? Do you often provide services you don't advertise for randoms?

Don't waste your time with this.

Agree, and especially if you are a newbie, some will take advantage of the fact

The guy had no reports on CE and seemed fine on the phone but just in case I declined the offer but as Miffy said usually when it’s too good to be true it usually is plus I wouldn’t like to be accused of stealing money because this is what he could do if he is malicious. I don’t even advertise for this kind of services either.

These randoms work on folks greed and desperation.

Exactly.

If randoms were truly interested in procuring x service, they would contact a service provider who offers it. But it's not about that, it's about time wasting, trying to push boundaries and god knows what else.

Last week I have a man send me 18 messages in the space of 90 minutes. He wanted to fly me to his country of residence. I declined him immediately, pointing out that my website and ads are clear in that if he wanted to meet me, he needed to come to London. He was adamant he wanted to fly me to him. I told him if he wanted someone to fly to him, he needed to find a FMTY escort and he was wasting both our time as I was never going to get on a plane to meet someone I hadn't already spent time with. Cue another message from him begging me to reconsider as he was desperate to meet and wasn’t interested in looking for another escort. At this point I went off to have a bath. I returned to another 15 messages begging me to fly to him. I almost shared them all in the ‘How not to book an escort’ thread but they’re all too tragic.

Natalya, if you take just one thing from this thread, don’t waste any time on those who contact you for services you don’t advertise. Don’t make exceptions, don’t bother coming here to ask our opinion either. It’s not rocket science. If the punter was serious, he would seek out the appropriate escort in the first place.