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cleojones

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Is it not normal I hide the job???
« on: 26 July 2020, 06:42:10 pm »
I've been recently frequently questioned why I am hiding what I am doing. Like, what the hell?
Isnt it like the norm in the industry  :| :FF
« Last Edit: 26 July 2020, 06:48:49 pm by cleojones »

TantricTease

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #1 on: 26 July 2020, 06:45:32 pm »
I've been recently frequently questioned why I am hiding what I am doing. Like, what the hell?


If the clients are asking you then just ask them the same back or better yet, tell them it’s none of their business...or say nothing, smile sweetly and change the subject..start as you mean to go on...

cleojones

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #2 on: 26 July 2020, 08:16:12 pm »
No its by random people trying to expose me

TantricTease

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #3 on: 26 July 2020, 08:18:39 pm »
No its by random people trying to expose me

They are shaming you because they are jealous of the money you make and with women then some of them feel threatened by sex workers because they know that the chances are your a great shag and they don’t like it, if it’s men that they are probably pissed off that you won’t have sex with them for nothing, you know because sp’s are sex crazed nymphos that just love having sex with strange men they don’t fancy 🙄🙄..it’s horrible ain’t it and maybe cut them out of your life, if at all possible.

Pink unicorn

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #4 on: 26 July 2020, 09:21:22 pm »
Don’t know about others but I do, I’ve told no one about the escorting side of my life

Helen4444

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #5 on: 27 July 2020, 09:09:38 am »
Same and I've been doing it 8 years

Liverpoolgal123

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #6 on: 27 July 2020, 11:03:11 am »
Only person who knows about me is my mum, we’re really close and she’s my babysitter so couldn’t hide it from her really, obviously it’s not what she wanted for me but when she sees what I’m doing with the money for my kids, the house, trips/holidays she understands. We do have a laugh when I share some of the funnier bits of escorting and some of the gross bits (shit stained sheets). I do think I wouldn’t be able to to work if she didn’t know, the guilt and having to hide my suitcase full of goodies, my second phone etc would be too stressful

TantricTease

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #7 on: 27 July 2020, 12:08:20 pm »
Only person who knows about me is my mum, we’re really close and she’s my babysitter so couldn’t hide it from her really, obviously it’s not what she wanted for me but when she sees what I’m doing with the money for my kids, the house, trips/holidays she understands. We do have a laugh when I share some of the funnier bits of escorting and some of the gross bits (shit stained sheets). I do think I wouldn’t be able to to work if she didn’t know, the guilt and having to hide my suitcase full of goodies, my second phone etc would be too stressful

Your mum sounds great! My mu

Your mum sounds great! I have just found out that my daughter knows that I work and my mum told her, what a total bitch, what she neglected to mention to my daughter was that I gave my mum a ‘loan’ of a few hundred ££ and my mum hasn’t paid me back knowing full well how I earned it! Not a great mum x

Hazel1990

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #8 on: 02 August 2020, 05:09:45 pm »
These guys get so offended about not knowing what we do the rest of our time like it is their business!?!?! Just make something up and remember what you said ..stick with the same thing each time like p.a or something they cant ask many questions about.

Hazel1990

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #9 on: 02 August 2020, 06:27:24 pm »
Oh sorry I misread your post doh!
I remember I had a client who said to me...no matter what,  however close you are to your family or friends...NEVER tell them what you are doing. Promise me...he said. He wasnt a regular just a guy I met when I was doing massage through an agency.  His words always ring in my ears when I am tempted to tell my sister or a close friend.
Believe me you are protecting them aswell as yourself not telling as all it does is makes other people feel uncomfortable unless you are in our world you wont understand it. Who ever your client is sounds like he is trying to F up your life. Dont pay attention that's my opinion and like one of the other ladies said just ignore the question and change the subject or get him out asap !x

cleojones

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #10 on: 26 September 2021, 12:08:26 am »
I asked why sb would be trying to expose me

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #11 on: 26 September 2021, 04:40:51 am »
They are shaming you because they are jealous of the money you make and with women then some of them feel threatened by sex workers because they know that the chances are your a great shag and they don’t like it, if it’s men that they are probably pissed off that you won’t have sex with them for nothing, you know because sp’s are sex crazed nymphos that just love having sex with strange men they don’t fancy 🙄🙄..it’s horrible ain’t it and maybe cut them out of your life, if at all possible.

Exactly this worded perfectly TT.
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Camille Paglia

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #12 on: 26 September 2021, 08:47:54 am »
No its by random people trying to expose me

don't keep telling randoms about your job, simples  :FF

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #13 on: 26 September 2021, 08:48:59 am »
They are shaming you because they are jealous of the money you make and with women then some of them feel threatened by sex workers because they know that the chances are your a great shag and they don’t like it, if it’s men that they are probably pissed off that you won’t have sex with them for nothing, you know because sp’s are sex crazed nymphos that just love having sex with strange men they don’t fancy 🙄🙄..it’s horrible ain’t it and maybe cut them out of your life, if at all possible.

TT did anything more come of your neighbours and the phone calls etc???

saltysweet

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Re: Is it not normal I hide the job???
« Reply #14 on: 26 September 2021, 09:05:21 am »
TT closed her account a couple weeks ago Thick Thights.