Two posts in the one day, dear oh me, this is some day it is shaping up to be!

So I just had my last booking and it shook me up a little, in more ways than one!

My client booked via AW and we had the phone chat etc and all was well. However, when he arrived, I freaked out a little (only on the inside!). He appeared to be a drug addict of some sort; that pasty skin; foaming at the mouth; sores round his mouth and nose; swollen hands and ankles etc. I didn't know whether to tell him to leave or not! I was a little unsettled as I genuinely didn't know how he would react. He didn't seem to be high at the time, but clearly was an abuser of something.

While he was in the shower I had a feel of his jacket pockets to make sure he wasn't carrying. When we got into the bedroom, I suggested we used my bed restraints and I strapped him to the bed. This was for my own safety. He got some very restricted services: no owo, no cim, no kissing and no sex. Throughout the duration of the booking I just kept thinking he was going to rob me.

But actually, he was respectful, he behaved and he left on time without any hassle. I am disappointed in myself. Firstly for assuming something bad was going to happen because he looked like he was a drug addict. Secondly for going through with the booking even though I thought something might happen. And thirdly for feeling his pockets for knives etc.

Do you guys ever make assumptions about people based on their appearances? I suppose in this industry it is hard not to :-S

I've actually had a couple of drug addicts and past drug addicts admit it to me, I don't really care as long as they're not using during the booking, especially if it's an incall at a hotel I'm using. Drugs aren't really the problem for me, I tend to get this feeling if I get a very large and overbearing or aggressive looking client, though if I make a mental list of the clients that have acted this way with me, they tend to be very unassuming average-height quiet seeming men. I base most things on attitude as opposed to appearance really, but I would never blame someone in this line of work for feeling uncomfortable because of the very nature of what we do. I despise it when bitter punters say it's no different to refusing someone as a shop keeper or something, I would love to ask them if they'd understand the difference had I presented them with a 70 year old man to either fuck or sell groceries to.

It's the been partying for last two day types, or plain hungover I really do not like. For a start off they tend to have a wierd smell about them, plus are quite over ambitious or get annoyed about their performance really easily. I just feel very uncomfortable and will do anything to avoid seeing anyone in that state.

Sores can be a result of anything, and I apply the same security rules to everyone no matter what they look like.

I have known people from all walks of life, in all situations and find that morals and standards don't necessarily correlate with lifestyle.

It's not always easy to think sensibly when you get a shock, which I would have done if faced with the client NC describes. He clearly didn't feel too aggrieved at the service he received, and I would say he should be grateful she went through with it at all.

Ah sores around mouth, now I would not be kissing him and turning him around at the door.

You said he was clean and respectful, which is all that should be needed to provide the full services on offer.

I really think the client was ripped off here. Not much you can do about it now though I guess.

I didn't mention his cleanliness. He went for a shower before hand but he was not clean as I removed a thick ring of cock cheese from under his foreskin before opting for OW aided by my body wand. He made no attempt to kiss me or give me oral or else I would have explained these were off limits.

He left extremely happy so no, I don't think the client was ripped off or felt that way!

What?!! He had the cheek to do it in your flat?! Drug addicts do worry me because their behaviour can be so unpredicatable.

I strictly do not see clients who have been drinking, and once a regular showed up who had clearly been drinking; I could taste it off him depsite his multiple visits to the bathroom for mouthwash. I was furious with him, told him so and have never seen him since.

I think hardcore drug users wouldn't spend any disposable income on hookers or have any sex drive.

I thought this too but then thought he only gave me the money to rob it (plus my day's takings) back off me.

Ah sores around mouth, now I would not be kissing him and turning him around at the door.

Ditto. There is NO way I would go there. I wouldn't be able to service him I'm afraid.

I'm becoming very picky in my old age though!