Surely it's even less of a good idea to do it if you're a sex worker (I think the whole concept is mad - corrective surgery down there, yes, cosmetic, no)?? What if you get complications healing etc.?

I know it seems crazy but I've been super unhappy with my vag for ages to the point that it's affected me sexually. So I think it's kind of a godsend that surgery is an option.

But I do agree with you in terms of been a sex worker and getting it done, that's what I'm unsure of. If I should wait till I stop escorting.  I want to ask a plastic surgeon but then I'll have to tell them I'm an escort and I'm not sure if I want to do that.

And the complications are scary but I know with tightening its actually has a really short healing time  surprisingly and I'm sure quite a few woman have it done after giving birth if the damage is substantial.

My first reaction was to think that you're mad.

Has any client ever gone 'Oh, I think you should cut half your labia off'? I didn't think so. Even if they did, the correct response is to suggest they lose half their scrotum first, not to book surgery.

My second reaction is 'what they said'.

But the first one hasn't gone away: is this really the best thing you can do with the money?

What's the difference between having your nose done, getting implants or a DV?. If your vagina has huge labia, or it's too loose due to gaving birth I don't see where's the problem is by wanting to change it. It's just plastic surgery.

Thank you ladies I'm going to take this all on board and start to update my profile with some of the bits that's been suggested.

yes sure you can message me.

I have nothing against cosmetic surgery I've got boobs,fillers that kind of thing,but I suppose this is 50/50 on the cosmetic/corrective side -  due to a very complicated birth and refusing corrective surgery after I think it something I need to do to feel a bit more like the old me lol (ive never had anybody anything but it's how I feel within myself)