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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #15 on: 25 September 2015, 03:24:19 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I know Ian, too good to be true  :-\. But he obviously thought about it to the nitty details, telling me about the house purchased through his company,  ownership documents and transfering the ownership to me.
But thats the thing with a fantacist its their fantasy and therefore they will have spent a long time sitting and thinking about it and wanking over it so they will have the details down pat in their head.

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« Reply #16 on: 25 September 2015, 03:30:32 pm »

I'm here at the moment and every day get asked for overnights. Extra long extended bookings 
Very few of them come off but ive never been asked for so many in my life

Thet also want regular pictures so that they can put of FB and social media and say your there girlfriend  ;D

Yes there are some very very wealthy guys out here. Very wealthy indeed who could offer that scenario a several times over


I hope that he didn't run up your phone bill with his bullshit. I know my UK mobile phone gets charged if im called from abroad

My phone balance didn't go down much, thanks for the advice and from Bibi about international numbers.  :)

Buying a house and paying your services upfront for a full year might sound far fetched but it is chump change for very wealthy guys. But the other posters are right, it is not realistic given the choice of escorts in the UAE.

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #17 on: 25 September 2015, 03:44:30 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I know Ian, too good to be true  :-\. But he obviously thought about it to the nitty details, telling me about the house purchased through his company,  ownership documents and transfering the ownership to me.
But thats the thing with a fantacist its their fantasy and therefore they will have spent a long time sitting and thinking about it and wanking over it so they will have the details down pat in their head.
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I know Ian, too good to be true  :-\. But he obviously thought about it to the nitty details, telling me about the house purchased through his company,  ownership documents and transfering the ownership to me.

Hmmm there's that thing I once read somewhere. It was about lies. So basically some people when they lie (and fantasising is a sort of "untruth") they tend to give way too many details because they think that it'll make their lie seem more "true". It's more "calculated", much less spontaneous than an actual truth would be.

Thanks for all the advice. Fantasists will prey on desperation 

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #18 on: 25 September 2015, 05:22:55 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I know Ian, too good to be true  :-\. But he obviously thought about it to the nitty details, telling me about the house purchased through his company,  ownership documents and transfering the ownership to me.

Hmmm there's that thing I once read somewhere. It was about lies. So basically some people when they lie (and fantasising is a sort of "untruth") they tend to give way too many details because they think that it'll make their lie seem more "true". It's more "calculated", much less spontaneous than an actual truth would be.

So true. I think I read the same book. If it's very well rehearsed then it's red flags waving in both hands. I didn't know you got charged by answering foreign numbers. I always subconsciously avoid them anyway.

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #19 on: 25 September 2015, 06:32:13 pm »
I'd stop him right there, and ask him to get in touch when he's ready to make a booking in the usual way.

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #20 on: 25 September 2015, 09:43:23 pm »
In the US, it's common for everyone to pay to receive calls on their 'cellular', but none of the UK tarriffs I've seen charge you for receiving calls from non-UK numbers... if you are in the UK.

If you're not, you tend to pay for everything except receiving texts.



'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #21 on: 25 September 2015, 10:18:45 pm »

Sounds like a con to me, it reminds me of the guy who used to call me everyday when I first began escorting. He would spend at least half an hour telling me about how he wants to move me into his second unoccupied house which happened to have six bedrooms, give me ?500 per day whilst opening me an unlimited account at BINNS. It was funny because BINNS had been House Of Fraser for a very long time and I doubt the one in my small town ever gave people credit accounts. He was a funny guy.

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #22 on: 25 September 2015, 11:17:05 pm »

Sounds like a con to me, it reminds me of the guy who used to call me everyday when I first began escorting. He would spend at least half an hour telling me about how he wants to move me into his second unoccupied house which happened to have six bedrooms, give me ?500 per day whilst opening me an unlimited account at BINNS. It was funny because BINNS had been House Of Fraser for a very long time and I doubt the one in my small town ever gave people credit accounts. He was a funny guy.

Something's clearly wrong with me:) I won't spend 15 min on the phone with my SISTER let alone 30 minutes with a POTENTIAL CLIENT...


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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #23 on: 26 September 2015, 03:38:58 am »
If it sounds too good to be true... it usually is. If an email is too long I just delete and block anyway as it's likely a load of pompous drivel I have no interest in, I don't even bother reading the first line.

Damn fantasists think we haven't heard it all before! :FF
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« Reply #24 on: 26 September 2015, 01:57:40 pm »

Sounds like a con to me, it reminds me of the guy who used to call me everyday when I first began escorting. He would spend at least half an hour telling me about how he wants to move me into his second unoccupied house which happened to have six bedrooms, give me ?500 per day whilst opening me an unlimited account at BINNS. It was funny because BINNS had been House Of Fraser for a very long time and I doubt the one in my small town ever gave people credit accounts. He was a funny guy.

This cracked me up mysteriousGirl ;D

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« Reply #25 on: 26 September 2015, 02:01:13 pm »
If it sounds too good to be true... it usually is. If an email is too long I just delete and block anyway as it's likely a load of pompous drivel I have no interest in, I don't even bother reading the first line.

Damn fantasists think we haven't heard it all before! :FF

You are right about very long emails Teddy Bear.  I think some clients genuinely want to book the escort and their nerves make them overly talkative or start writing very long flowery emails. Some clients sound too good to be true but I did have a few who gave me fantasist vibes but still ended up being genuine  ::) no fast rules

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« Reply #26 on: 26 September 2015, 02:04:57 pm »
I'd stop him right there, and ask him to get in touch when he's ready to make a booking in the usual way.

I should have made him work harder to earn my trust

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #27 on: 26 September 2015, 03:07:10 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I laughed pretty hard at this, and I'm not being mean about the original post.. I'm going to remember this to post as a slap in the face dash of reality and quote it and read it myself when needed!

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #28 on: 26 September 2015, 04:50:13 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I laughed pretty hard at this, and I'm not being mean about the original post.. I'm going to remember this to post as a slap in the face dash of reality and quote it and read it myself when needed!

You are not being mean Curvygal. Normally I wouldn't give this kind of guy the time of the day. It was his gift of the gab and calculated intelligence which fooled me. Obviously got a reality check

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #29 on: 27 September 2015, 07:19:03 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I laughed pretty hard at this, and I'm not being mean about the original post.. I'm going to remember this to post as a slap in the face dash of reality and quote it and read it myself when needed!

You are not being mean Curvygal. Normally I wouldn't give this kind of guy the time of the day. It was his gift of the gab and calculated intelligence which fooled me. Obviously got a reality check

Well most perverts, narcissists and manipulators have a level of intelligence that's fairly good or even above the average. That's how they manage to get their victims.