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MollyG

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Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« on: 25 September 2015, 01:46:36 pm »

Had a client call from an UAE phone number saying he wanted to move to the UK and find a full time escort. He said he will pay for the house and a year of my working fees. We haven't met before, but we spoke in detail about his move to the UK and what the escort/mistress arrangements will be. He goes into detail for 30 minutes about how often he will see me and how much I'am allowed to entertain friends. He sounds very intelligent and obviously thought this arrangements plan through. Maybe I'm too gullible? ??? He asks me to decide and email him back. Is he genuine or is there red flags? Any advice would be helpful ladies

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #1 on: 25 September 2015, 01:48:31 pm »
Moll, usuall con ignore & block.
« Last Edit: 25 September 2015, 01:50:49 pm by cheesypeas »
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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #2 on: 25 September 2015, 01:52:56 pm »
Um I suspect a complete fantacist really.Ask yourself why a bloke who has never met you wants a regular arrangement with you?And out of all the escorts in the land he only wants you?A guy who has met you a few times them yes maybe.And you are expected to email back and agree to be dictated to by a bloke you have never met?
Full of shit.As said usual con by someone either getting off on email and calls or looking for a lass to give freebies probably bareback.

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« Reply #3 on: 25 September 2015, 02:27:31 pm »
Moll, usuall con ignore & block.

Thanks Cheesypeas  :)My initial feelings were to block him. He was very well spoken compared to other fantasists even email with his @company .com. Obviously he thought it through what to say and how to say it  ::)

Um I suspect a complete fantacist really.Ask yourself why a bloke who has never met you wants a regular arrangement with you?And out of all the escorts in the land he only wants you?A guy who has met you a few times them yes maybe.And you are expected to email back and agree to be dictated to by a bloke you have never met?
Full of shit.As said usual con by someone either getting off on email and calls or looking for a lass to give freebies probably bareback.

You are right he probably auditions a handful of escorts. I asked him to wire transfer some money first, to prove he is serious about my time. My fantasist radar is off lately  :-\

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« Reply #4 on: 25 September 2015, 02:30:19 pm »
His emails are probably a copy and paste shot which only have to have your name inserted.

Block and forget.
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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #5 on: 25 September 2015, 02:31:41 pm »
Moll, welcome. Hey if you had him on sex chat that
would have earned about 60 pound for 30 minutes lol
But he gets off on free kicks.
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« Reply #6 on: 25 September 2015, 02:32:26 pm »
His emails are probably a copy and paste shot which only have to have your name inserted.

Block and forget.

Thanks Lady_Lust it is too good to be true

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« Reply #7 on: 25 September 2015, 02:34:12 pm »
Moll, welcome. Hey if you had him on sex chat that
would have earned about 60 pound for 30 minutes lol
But he gets off on free kicks.

He talked for the better part of 30 minutes  ::) Never thought about sex chat, thanks for the suggestion

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #8 on: 25 September 2015, 02:35:12 pm »
 ;D lol Hey forget his nasty pants and onward!
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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #9 on: 25 September 2015, 02:57:59 pm »
There is something abou UAE guys  they are prone to being a fantasist  I could write my own book on the often excellent fantasy they send me I get several a day

I'm here at the moment and every day get asked for overnights. Extra long extended bookings 
Very few of them come off but ive never been asked for so many in my life

Thet also want regular pictures so that they can put of FB and social media and say your there girlfriend  ;D

Yes there are some very very wealthy guys out here. Very wealthy indeed who could offer that scenario a several times over

But seeing that there is hundreds of prossies in every bloody hotel / bar.nightclub in fact thosands of them here in the UAE far more then london  why would he need to get one from the UK

In my hotel  which is a lovely 5 star hotel my friend and I have been actively matching up the escorts from backpage and MR were up to around 20 so far  my friend is better at spotting them than me


I hope that he didn't run up your phone bill with his bullshit. I know my UK mobile phone gets charged if im called from abroad


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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #10 on: 25 September 2015, 03:05:51 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?
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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #11 on: 25 September 2015, 03:14:16 pm »
That's a very good point ladies be careful of answering mobiles or landlines that come up as a foreign number quite often its you that will end up being charged for the call.

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« Reply #12 on: 25 September 2015, 03:19:11 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I know Ian, too good to be true  :-\. But he obviously thought about it to the nitty details, telling me about the house purchased through his company,  ownership documents and transfering the ownership to me.

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #13 on: 25 September 2015, 03:19:32 pm »
+1
I get emails from them.
So sometimes they "have never seen an escort before" and of course will pay as much as I want etc.
Or they are arriving to London "tomorrow/next week/etc" and will pay me as much as I want.

They all have plenty of feedback of course:)))) I sometimes wonder how stupid some men can be.

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Re: Is he a fantasist or genuinely seeking arrangement ?
« Reply #14 on: 25 September 2015, 03:22:45 pm »
"I have never met you, but I want to buy you a house..." And you are asking if they are a fantasist?

I know Ian, too good to be true  :-\. But he obviously thought about it to the nitty details, telling me about the house purchased through his company,  ownership documents and transfering the ownership to me.

Hmmm there's that thing I once read somewhere. It was about lies. So basically some people when they lie (and fantasising is a sort of "untruth") they tend to give way too many details because they think that it'll make their lie seem more "true". It's more "calculated", much less spontaneous than an actual truth would be.