I've just noticed that my spell check changed a word there but I think you get the idea.
It's odd that this has bothered me so much. I don't really care what customers opinions are but I thought my receptionist would have a better opinion and attitude. I guess I'm just asking if I'm justified to be angry or am I just being over sensitive?

I would go to her and straight ask her: “ so how does making a living from us -prossies- feels like? It technically makes you a pimp and a criminal, so is being a pimp a much better position in that moral high horse you’re riding? Sorry I’m asking for a friend”

See what she says.

It's difficult to know what the problem is without hearing the tone she used; I can't see anything wrong with what she said (presumably to a boundary pushing punter who was being a pain in the arse on the phone and trying to push her into services she doesn't offer)?

What specifically is it you're objecting to? Not that it matters - you can go independent any time you like (and keep working at the brothel too if you want to)

It was definitely the tone used..almost sneering.
I know she refuses to use our cutlery or cups or the communal fridge but I just laughed that off.
I know it's my issue but I think I've just lost all respect, which works both ways.
She has never worked.

If she is not the owner of the brothel. Could you say something to them? Say you don't want to work shifts with her. How do the other women who work there feel about her?

It does depend on her relationship with the owner of said brothel if they are close friends or family members they probably won't do anything. But if you have noticed her implying you are "dirty".  Then others probably have too. They might just sack her if they think your going to leave because of her shitty attitude. Especially if others have also complained about her.

You could just also just leave and work in a different brothel(if there are others nearby) or go independent. Or both. I like to work for various parlours and agencies around  the country. But I don't have any other commitments so that's easy for me.

It was definitely the tone she used..almost sneering.
Ive ignored other things like hwr refusing to use our cups or plates and not using anything from the fridge or putting stuff in it.
I just think msybe its the final straw for me and i resent tipping her now. .

I remember this bothering me once when a receptionist used to keep her cup outside of the kitchen where the rest were kept. I also remember the owners daughter who used to do receptionist work proudly saying she could never do what we do ‘has to much respect for herself’ a punter had asked if he could have a service from her and she came out with that.

As much as all that pissed me off just had to take it on the chin cause when it comes to being blunt i’m just as bad my self for saying what I think.

Reading this, how someone who is earning money from this industry and yet still looks down on us workers, makes me realise this is why I don’t tell anyone!

Loras advice above is good I think x