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Hermione

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Incorrect Condom usage
« on: 23 October 2008, 12:50:04 am »
I posted this issue on another board so apologies if you have already seen it.  In short, at a recent two girl booking, the other girl's condom skills were nothing short of scary.  She stretched and pulled it before putting it on the poor gent, only to have it break as she was rolling it on.  I stopped her and put the condom on the client correctly.  I received a lot of responses from escorts and clients alike and it seems that many were unaware of safe and correct procedures. 

Could the link below be placed in the STI and GUM section on the main site?

http://www.condomessentialwear.co.uk/protection/condom-how-to-use

I realise that this will probably be superfluous for most of the ladies and gents on this site and do not wish to be patronising or insult anyone's intelligence, but that experience has left me very concerned about the welfare of others. 

Any info anyone can give about preferred brands and personal expereinces with condoms would be much appreciated.  My attitude is that if I can't roll it down in a few seconds, then it is a bad condom and should be immediately discarded. I always buy multiple boxes preferably from different places in the event that there is a flawed lot.  I also find that if the guy holds his bits steady while I apply the condom it makes them much easier and quicker to use.  This flies in the face of any objection that condoms are mood-killers since a good condom should only take a few seconds to apply. 

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #1 on: 23 October 2008, 01:58:21 am »
i dont think anyone should be patronised.  I read your post on the other site and was shocked that a profesional cant get it right so frankly if someone reads this post and learns from it GOOD.

I did also read on the other site talk of putting it on with your mouth.... i cant master this trick at all, been trying for years but no one has ever objected to my method or thought that it was a mood killer (sometimes the complete opposite) but i bet if i stretched it like a balloon first it could scare the shite out of some!!!

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #2 on: 23 October 2008, 02:00:01 am »
I buy Condomis 100 or so at a time and it works for me. I don't discard a condom if it doesn't go on easily since it my experience it depends on the cock.

When I have the condom on the head but can't roll it down easily I suck the head, it leaves both my hands free to roll the condom down and well as holding the willie taught, so it works even if it's not as hard as it should be.

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #3 on: 23 October 2008, 02:04:12 am »
i used to have a thing with a guy who had possibly the smallest penis in the world and he was the most difficult person i have ever used condoms with.... just thought id share that with you all  ;D

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #4 on: 23 October 2008, 02:31:58 am »
I just saw it on other board and sent a reply too! Glad not to be the only one on that particular board as I find some of it a bit clique-y. I said it there too, but proper condom use was drummed into me by my sex ed teacher at school and the nightmares associated with a broken condom full of banana mush. Memories  ;D

 Anika that's a good technique-

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #5 on: 23 October 2008, 08:53:50 pm »
i dont think anyone should be patronised.  I read your post on the other site and was shocked that a profesional cant get it right so frankly if someone reads this post and learns from it GOOD.

I did also read on the other site talk of putting it on with your mouth.... i cant master this trick at all, been trying for years but no one has ever objected to my method or thought that it was a mood killer (sometimes the complete opposite) but i bet if i stretched it like a balloon first it could scare the shite out of some!!!

I'm not at all sure putting a condom on with your mouth is safe.  How would you squeeze the air out of the end?  If it can be done, and I'm not saying it can't, it seems to require far more skill to get right than I will ever be comfortable with.  Sounds far too complicated for me! 

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #6 on: 23 October 2008, 09:01:12 pm »
I saw it on PN too and was pretty horrified, especially when some of the male posters confirmed that they had seen supposedly professional women struggling like this! I can't put them on with my mouth either, but then I wouldn't want to  ;D. I find that the main thing is choosing the right size; I keep Mates Natural and Condomi Natural but also Pasante Large and Trim - and have had occasion to use all of them!

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #7 on: 23 October 2008, 10:06:28 pm »
I'm not at all sure putting a condom on with your mouth is safe.  How would you squeeze the air out of the end?

With your tongue, or so I hear. I've thought about trying it, but I'd rather work on my deep throat technique.

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #8 on: 24 October 2008, 07:52:59 am »
I'm not at all sure putting a condom on with your mouth is safe.  How would you squeeze the air out of the end?

With your tongue, or so I hear. I've thought about trying it, but I'd rather work on my deep throat technique.

Definately going to get more requests for deep throat so definately worth mastering.  I'd give some tips but to be honest i dont really know how i do it.... sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt.  weird.

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #9 on: 24 October 2008, 10:51:03 am »
Actually, it's not so much technique for me as four years of practice. Just keep wearing down the gag reflex. I can do it to most men now, even with a condom. It doesn't work if the girth is too much, though.

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conflicting advice on lube and condoms...
« Reply #10 on: 24 October 2008, 07:44:20 pm »
Hey,

 I've read several times that a drop of lube should be used inside the tip of the condom in increase sensation for the guy, however, I've just read in a book that this can make the condom more likely to slip off during sex.  Should the lube-in-tip technique be left for oral only?

Any thoughts?

Cece

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #11 on: 24 October 2008, 09:21:22 pm »
It increases the chance of slippage but decreases the chance of it breaking. I've been putting lube on underneath the condom for years and have had the odd breakage but no major slippage (except when I used a large and shouldn't have), so I stick with it.

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #12 on: 24 October 2008, 09:57:24 pm »
Wow, the odd breakage is something that terrifies me.  I had a friend who actually caught an STI the one time a condom broke. :'(

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #13 on: 24 October 2008, 10:09:52 pm »
Well, I've been doing this for four years. It happened a couple of times when I first started, that was when I'd let the client do it so I'm much more careful about that now. Since then it's happened with two clients (two or three times with one of them, if I was still seeing him I'd have switched to extra strongs). Unfortunately you can't avoid all risk.

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Re: Incorrect Condom usage
« Reply #14 on: 25 October 2008, 02:27:17 am »
Anyone have a link to the OT? Just reading what's been posted so far, Im disturbed. Im going to follow the link posted above. I need to make sure Im doing it right.