So, I'm a 21yo biochemistry major (and minor in business MGMT/investment strategy) living in NC SanDiego.

I had an interview today with an agency, and am taking professional photos on Monday. Before I step into this head-first, if anyone is open to sharing their beginner stories/feelings/tips, I'd be more than happy to listen.

I've been looking for a job for about 6mos now, and the results of my persistence are dismal. I'm sick and tired of being broke. That being said, its probably obvious by now I'd work in the industry for the pay. I don't feel the social stigma of the industry is what will bother me, nor the pay-for-play issue. I worry about my health and cooch tightness - I don't want to be in this for a month or two and get beat the * up. IMO - having a bf and having sex 1-3 times a day is almost the same as having 1 or 2 clients, right?

What are the typical "rules" for condom use in the industry? And how often to guys ask for anal/to ejac in your mouth? I want to keep this as hygenic and sterile as possible, and minimize the amount of risk I expose myself to.

I feel I have a good head on my shoulders, and want to satisfy my clients and establish a solid reputation with my clients. In the past, I've done sexual services (lingerie housekeeping, party stripping, selling my underwear lol, etc), but have never solicited sx.

 I'm assuming many of the clients girls see are mediocre at best in regards to physical appearance. How do you ladies deal with getting down (and enjoying yourself while doing so) with a man you're not attracted to? Without using a paper bag ^_~ jk

So yeah...If I come up with any other questions I'll post them. In the meantime, I hope there's enough traffic going through this site to get some helpful replies~

Thanks,

- G

It seems you haven't read the articles on the main site, please go there now: www.saafe.info. You'll see that come-in-mouth and anal are specialist services which you should *never* agree to unless you've decided in your own time and without pressure that you want to do them. The same goes for uncovered oral, though a lot of people offer it as standard and some agencies will expect you to do it.

Your vagina won't become loose from having lots of sex unless you're having very bad/extreme sex that damages your muscles.

Having sex with people who we wouldn't normally be attracted to has been discussed here a lot. Search the forum for "unattractive" to read some thoughts on it.

This forum gets plenty of traffic, but it's also had hundreds of newbies asking questions over the years. Don't forget that you can look back over all these past discussions.

IMO - having a bf and having sex 1-3 times a day is almost the same as having 1 or 2 clients, right?

If you're going to get confused between sex with a partner and sex with a client, or think that the two things are in any way similar, then I respectfully suggest that this isn't the job for you.

R xx

agency pros 
- easier to keep your identity secret
- don't need to spend time or money on setting up, marketing
- don't need to spend time on admin or weeding out idiot timewasters
- usually get regular work if its a decent agency

agency cons
- harder to be individual and carve a specific niche for yourself
- lack of information about the clients
- need to be 'on call' a lot of the time which limits your social life/bookings can come at very short notice
- receptionists playing favourites
- at the end of the day, it's not the agency owner doing the shagging.  You have much more of a vested interest in your safety than they do

I would say - go indie if you want it to be a longer-term thing, or a main source of income.  Go agency if you just want to give it a try or see a couple of clients a week around your regular study or job.

CIM/anal - only if you want to offer it, not requisite

If you plan to go indie then spend a good 2 days reading this site before starting to work on you site etc.  I wish I knew about saafe when I started out!

Unattractive clients - close your eyes and zone out!