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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: storm on 01 August 2015, 06:21:35 pm
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for the last 5 years or so, I've been an 'outcall only' escort... economic climate is not good for these anymore (at least for me) and I'm now doing incalls...
I need some help girls,
i'm totally unrelaxed being the 'host' -outcalls I just feel so much more 'in control' of the situation and don't struggle at all breezing into a room and filling the gaps...
incalls I get tense, its so strange I feel this way.
like when I open the door, what do you say to your clients? I try to say, 'make yourself at home' but find the incall clients seem so much more nervous compared to when they are hosting me :(
Is there any little tips you use to get them and the atmosphere nice and relaxed when they come into your space? I don't host from a full living space, so can only can make use of a hotel room with bed/possibly a chair etc
Sorry if its a silly question but it would help me greatly thanks
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Everyone will be different but I generally welcome them with a big smile and offer them a drink etc. I also have candles lit as I personally love candles and find it helps set the mood. x
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I think on outcalls, it's more common to sit and have a little chat before starting. However, with incalls I think it's somehow easier to just get started with a kiss. If you do kissing, then a good kiss as a greeting tends to get things off to a good start. Loosen their tie while looking into their eyes and kissing them a bit and ask how they're doing and if they would like a shower. If they want a shower, show them to it and before they go in ask if they'd like to sort the paperwork. If they don't want a shower, lead them into the bedroom and ask for the money then help them undress. Basically, just get stuck in right away. From what I've read, guys generally really like that.
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I agree with fabulassie. Guys really like it when it's personal and getting the money out of the way is a good start, I always make them shower but I'm the mistress so there is no way for them to refuse.
I always get them a drink (water, soda) and chat while touching them and walking to the shower upstairs. A flow in which they join because I lead the way as if it's the most ordinary thing.
Remember: it's your place, you are in charge. If you feel in control and get your own 'routine', it will be only time to get the flow of hospitality!
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General chit chat, "how has your day been?" & "have you been working today?" those sorts of things, I take my clients straight to the bedroom I don't entertain in my living space, in there I have plenty of room, some where to sit and chat etc.
Shower and paper work out the way, and while they are in the shower I'll go get them a drink, depending on the type of booking I will take off my top layer (dress/dressing gown) and lay on the bed or do some saucy pose for them to walk into. A massage I find is a great way to relax both parties gives you breathing time and both of you a chance to get used to each other.
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If you be relaxed it will create a relaxing atmosphere many clients praise how relaxed they are with me.
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thanks so much for your replies ladies :)
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Whenever a client shows up and tells me how beautiful I am, I just giggle and say "thank you! You haven't even seen my dick yet!"
Then I go, "I'm just kidding! I don't have a dick.... any more."
That really puts them at ease.
;)