For me personally:
- Throw and cushions on the bed. Sex gets messy, men often think they have great aim going for your boobs/stockings and don't. Not over my super expensive Primark duvet cover!
- Tidy away anything with your real name on it. I don't have photos of loved ones up anyway (not my thing), but if I did, it wouldn't be in the areas clients access.
- I only allow access to the entrance hall, bathroom and bedroom. I close other doors. I've perhaps had a handful of clients pass comment on this; some have returned. I do appreciate that there are stories of guys who have been attacked so they may be jumpy (and one of my clients was!), but my stance is please appreciate that I am allowing a strange man into my home. Both of us want to go home to our families, so let's just get comfortable.
- I also leave the TV on in another room - even if I'm alone, people often associate it with someone watching it. Touch wood, I've never had to pretend to shout that 'friend' either.
When getting an incall -
- I give them the postcode of a property
I can see from my window clearly, and ask them to call when they're parked up. Most guys are experienced and know the drill; they'll usually tell you the make and colour, but you'll have spotted it already.
- I tell him to walk up to whatever number, staying on the phone with me - when I can see he is clearly walking in my direction, so lessening the chances of him just being an address collector, I give him my buzzer number. Some guys are still address collectors though, but in my experience when they've passed this point, they've committed.
- I don't fling open the door in my raciest outfit and say 'well, hello...' I usually just peek my head round the door to usher him in quickly.
- I am always fully dressed in a dress, stockings, heels. Some dresses I own do show my stockings; others are more down to imagination. It is very rare that my clients ask for anything else, but as always, your mileage may vary.
- I make niceties ('I'm so happy to see you/its so good to see you again/did you find me okay?/how was your drive?' blah blah) and ask them if they want a drink. Most men ask for a drink. I don't give alcohol, but if they bring a bottle of wine (some do), I'll pour them a glass. I would strongly advise not drinking with clients until your confidence builds, if ever - I can have a polite glass now, but I frequently use the 'I'm driving' excuse. Even one glass can impact your judgement, and when you're new, you want all the clarity you can get.
- If they want a drink, usually clients give you money then, or I say 'will we get the paperwork side done as well?' whilst taking their coat to hang up. Money in hand, I go into the kitchen after offering them a shower, and taking them through to the bedroom. If clients give you an envelope - do check the contents. Don't just assume because it feels like money, it
is money.
Clocks in bedrooms look natural, I used to have one that played my iPhone playlists. Note what time he arrives. Some women allow time for showering, others incorporate it into his booked time; you'll find a way that works for you. Personally I've always found those few minutes of chatting to a client afterward to go in my favour - I tell them at the outset if I have somewhere to go after them, and they don't bother if I'm kind of hurrying them out.
If it makes you feel safer for your first few incalls, you can text a friend. I don't tend to bother as I have mates I'm constantly in conversation with throughout the day.
You'll develop your own style if you continue escorting - I think we all do, you know what feels comfortable for you and what doesn't. This is just what I've done since - oooh, 2009? 2010? Another escort may be very different to me. The homepage of SAAFE (the actual site) is also very useful.
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