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lucieparks4

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Im New! Advice, Buddys, Pointers Appreciated :)
« on: 29 October 2012, 01:05:50 pm »
Hi Ladies, Im Lucie and im completely new to this. Im currently a student and have been considering working as an escort for a while but never had the balls to do anything about it. I came out of a longterm relationship at the beginning of the year and have built up my confidence hugely with men and with regards to sex and now feel i can do it.
Its actually come about a bit by accident but i sort of have a 'client' lined up. I was out with a friend in town and a couple of older guys were speaking to us. i should mention this was halloween night and i was dressed as a slutty dead bride...  Anyway the men said something jokingly about both taking me home to which my friend also jokingly said oh you can afford her. He took this seriously and said i would definetely pay you whatever you want to take you home tonight, then he asked if i really do charge for sex, possibly alcohol talking and being dressed up i could put on an act i said yes and would he like my number as i was out with my friend tonight but could arrange to see him another time. He text me about an hour later saying he would give me ?100 for an hour with him i text back saying i'll text you tomorrow to arrange things properly.

Since this ive made up an email, with the same false name i gave him when i met him, had a read through the saafe site and other similar sites, i need to know exactly what to do next, we are emailing now and he has explained why he wants to pay me for sex and it all seems very genuine.   ive told him a few dates and times im free, he says he will sort somewhere out as i said i dont have anybody at mine and suggested his or a hotel room at his expense. is there anything else i need to do/tell him/ask him before this?!

im not nervous just excited and want to make sure i do this right as he doesnt know im a newbie!! xxx

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« Reply #1 on: 29 October 2012, 01:46:34 pm »
Lucie, please read through the whole info part of the site and then read it again.

Under no circumstances is any of your time FREE. He must have thought he had won a coconut.  ALL YOUR TIME IS PAID FOR.

I am on my way out but please do not see this guy under any circumstances without payment.

Others will be along shortly to put you on the correct path.

There is always a lot of newbies at this time of year with the run up to christmas and everyone wanting to make a few extra.  It is not all it is made out to be and not for everyone.  You must be in the right frame of mind. 
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« Reply #2 on: 29 October 2012, 02:38:31 pm »
This is a silly way to start IMO. You don't say anything about security any measures or anything, and a lot of girls would laugh at only being paid ?100 an hour, if that rate suits you then great but I really think you need to think this through a lot more than you actually have. It's really not a game.

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« Reply #3 on: 29 October 2012, 04:37:51 pm »
This is a silly way to start IMO. You don't say anything about security any measures or anything, and a lot of girls would laugh at only being paid ?100 an hour, if that rate suits you then great but I really think you need to think this through a lot more than you actually have. It's really not a game.

I disagree MsK, depending on where you are ?100 per hour is an acceptable amount for example in the North East the going rate is ?80-?120.  And as long as security, cash and boundaries are sorted out it can be fun.

Lucie, my advice would be to look on Adultwork for girls in your area and see how much they charge. 

If your friend who made the original joke is open minded, ask her to be your security buddy (if she isn't use the search bar at the top of the site to look for other girls in your area who can help) then when the arrangements for the meet are made, give the time, date, venue and information on the client to your buddy and arrange a time just before and just after the meet so you can tell her you're ok ( you may wish to make up a safe word to use incase the guy isn't as nice when you're alone and you need help)

ALWAYS take the money upfront, I normally take it, go to the bathroom to freshen up and stash half in a make up bag and half in the zip part of my handbag, just incase he decides that after having some fun he wants a refund.

There are loads of other tips on the main saafe site.

Good luck and have fun!

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« Reply #4 on: 29 October 2012, 05:35:49 pm »
This is a silly way to start IMO. You don't say anything about security any measures or anything, and a lot of girls would laugh at only being paid ?100 an hour, if that rate suits you then great but I really think you need to think this through a lot more than you actually have. It's really not a game.
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I disagree MsK, depending on where you are ?100 per hour is an acceptable amount for example in the North East the going rate is ?80-?120.  And as long as security, cash and boundaries are sorted out it can be fun.

I didn't mean it like that. I only charge ?120ph myself for an hour incall and ?140-?150 outcall and this is an outcall remember. I'm not criticising the rate I just don't think she has thought it through that's all, it's comes across like its abit of a joke.
« Last Edit: 29 October 2012, 05:41:18 pm by MissKylie »

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« Reply #5 on: 29 October 2012, 07:08:08 pm »
I'm in Nottingham/ Mansfield- I believe thats where you are based, so I'd be happy to be your security buddy. HOWEVER... do not go into this lightheartedly, it is a life changing decision, and you should take some real time to mull it over, read the main site, read the forums, read the best and the worst. Then if you still think you are able to do this job, I will happily act as a security buddy for you. But at this point you need to seriously think about what you are getting into.

Also when you look at AW for average pricing (if you decide you want to do this) then only compare the prices of those that have feedback, as lots of the others are fake profiles  :)

Best of luck, feel free to PM me if you need any help.

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Re: Im New! Advice, Buddys, Pointers Appreciated :)
« Reply #6 on: 29 October 2012, 10:34:56 pm »
Lucie, please read through the whole info part of the site and then read it again.

Under no circumstances is any of your time FREE. He must have thought he had won a coconut.  ALL YOUR TIME IS PAID FOR.

I am on my way out but please do not see this guy under any circumstances without payment.

Others will be along shortly to put you on the correct path.

There is always a lot of newbies at this time of year with the run up to christmas and everyone wanting to make a few extra.  It is not all it is made out to be and not for everyone.  You must be in the right frame of mind. 

By free i meant available to see him, sorry i didnt explain that properly.

The reason ive previously thought about it and more seriously considering it now isnt just the money. I'm very open minded and enjoy sex, it wasnt just a flippant thought whilst drunk, the reason my friend joked about 'affording me' was because ive spoken to it about her and asked her opinion a while back. 

SweetPleasure - ive told my friend about this guy and she has said she'll make sure she's around when i meet him. thanks for your advice with splitting the money too!

Misskylie - i know where you're coming from about how its started, i didnt expect him to actually be serious and get back to me the next day!

Casey_Kisses, will pm you, thank you :)

Just thought id get on here being new to this for some support, thanks everyone :)

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« Reply #7 on: 29 October 2012, 11:19:54 pm »
Hi Lucie,  On re reading your post I realise I misread your wording.  So glad you didnt intend 'giving it out FOC'.  All the best with whatever you decide.
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« Reply #8 on: 29 October 2012, 11:58:28 pm »
Hi Lucie,
before starting, read all the information, advices and whatever that you can on the site.
Do not sort it out by yourself without taking precautions.
Anyway, clients understand whether someone is a newbie or not... so watch out!
If you have doubts, do not be shy and ask, here you can find a lot of advices 
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« Reply #9 on: 31 October 2012, 04:56:20 pm »
make sure you take condoms  ;D and get paid  first -   he might try it on bareback , or try to pay afterwards ( disclaimer not all clients are like that i haven't met any that are really that bad ) however your new ( not to sex obviously ) but just set your boundaries of what you want to do
« Last Edit: 31 October 2012, 04:57:56 pm by ParisB »

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Re: Im New! Advice, Buddys, Pointers Appreciated :)
« Reply #10 on: 31 October 2012, 06:47:12 pm »
Hey everyone, met with casey_kisses for lunch today and had a really good chat, and lots of fab advice, then had my first booking this afternoon and all went well. thank you for all your tips :) xx

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« Reply #11 on: 31 October 2012, 06:56:01 pm »
...thank you for all your tips :) xx

you're welcome!  ;)