Author Topic: what should I say? (Read 1814 times)

Charlotte York · « **on:** 29 October 2012, 04:04:55 pm »

I have a guy who emailed asking to book with me. He said he'd only ever seen a girl on cam and wanted an escort. I gave him my number so we could arrange a booking and he said he'd let me know when he is free. He now keeps texting me randomly saying 'how are you' and stuff like that. Should I just carry on ignoring this time waster or say something?

Lady_Lust_XXX · « **Reply #1 on:** 29 October 2012, 04:06:46 pm »

If you want to text anything then I would reply with, sorry I'm busy just now. Contact me when you are looking for a booking.

If you dont want to do that, then yes, I would continue to ignore.

LadyLove · « **Reply #2 on:** 29 October 2012, 04:09:19 pm »

I have a set email/text for this If you would like an appointment you need to email/call with a definate date/time/duration in mind

If he then doesn't call but continues to bombard you with inanities, you will know he's a TW

DianaMurphy · « **Reply #3 on:** 29 October 2012, 04:15:56 pm »

I would drop him an email explaining in brief the best way to contact an escort to make a booking, if this is his first time then he won't understand/appreciate that he is making a nuisance of himself. If he wishes to be chatty let him know when you'll be next on cam and then he can do so in private chat

jessiejess501 · « **Reply #4 on:** 31 October 2012, 07:08:29 am »

Maybe you should also think of the time you are putting in instead of seeing other clients...

I do think a gentle approach is best, but agree with someone who wrote to say you are busy. You can still encourage him without being short.

Some of the men I've met just wanna chat and email. The vast majority are looking for companionship and are lonely. So, any attention/response will help fill that void.

Am interested to find out how things go!

This site is great - I just joined...

Thanks for sharing

LucyA · « **Reply #5 on:** 31 October 2012, 09:14:06 am »

Have you also checked his feedback and time he joined the site, if he has no or negative feedback I would be wary, especially if he joined the site long ago.

I agree with the girls above, but if he turns abusive, maybe ignore him or if it gets ridiculous lengths, contact him one last time and tell him he is harassing you and you will inform the police if he dosent cease. Sometimes these guys can be wolfs in sheeps clothing and try it on, you owe him nothing. xx

pandora · « **Reply #6 on:** 31 October 2012, 10:16:24 am »

Total timewaster. Just ignore.

Dani · « **Reply #7 on:** 31 October 2012, 03:14:10 pm »

If all his feedback is just for camming he may genuinely be new to escorting and not realise that sending lots of texts is annoying at the least and will have some people think he is a timewaster. Send him a polite email explaining that it is not a dating site and although you are aware he is excited and nervous he is only to text once a booking is confirmed and then only if it is relevant. i.e to say he is on the way but stuck in traffic
Be polite but let him know it is not a dating site and you do not have time for lots of texts. If he continues after reading the email then just block him

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