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PixieLove

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I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« on: 11 February 2013, 02:09:00 am »
Hello all,

It has been a very long time since I last came on to the Forum, glad I've rediscovered it!

As the title suggests, I want to orgasm during my bookings. I find it difficult to orgasm if someone else is touching me, I don't use toys to reach orgasm, so it's not that I'm not sensitive enough.

Do I need to practice more kegel exercises?

Any suggestions would certainly help. I want to orgasm more!!!
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #1 on: 11 February 2013, 02:26:54 am »
what exactly is the problem? Can you orgasm by yourself? WIth a partner that you *click* with?

It's VERY normal to not orgasm by penetration, even with a long-term partner, so don't worry if you're not getting there with casual sex or clients. And I used to find when I was younger that it was more difficult to GET THERE with any partner, some ladies (like me) find it easier to orgasm as they get older :)
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #2 on: 11 February 2013, 02:42:08 am »
Thanx for the fast reply @Cat_BBW !

I can orgasm by myself, but it's so much funner with someone else!

My boy friend can sometimes manage it, but I just feel like I'm under so much pressure to orgasm in a specific amount of time.

Why do you think you find it easier as you get older?

I have had clients mention it as well :(

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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #3 on: 11 February 2013, 03:10:40 am »
Quote from: lulu69 on 11 February 2013, 02:42:08 am
Thanx for the fast reply @Cat_BBW !

I can orgasm by myself, but it's so much funner with someone else!

My boy friend can sometimes manage it, but I just feel like I'm under so much pressure to orgasm in a specific amount of time.

Why do you think you find it easier as you get older?

I have had clients mention it as well :(

I think it's easier as you get older (in my experience) because mentally, emotionally, physically and psychologically you're more *tuned-in*. It's hard to explain! I used to think I was multi-orgasmic at 18, but really it was NOTHING like it can be now, at 40+!

If you're worrying about your clients though, start faking. The old saying goes "fake it till you make it", and it's very apt here! You don't have to go nuts, just...pretend! One day it might happen ;)

And with regard to your boyfriend AND clients: if you feel under pressure to "perform" it won't come naturally.

The best thing to do is NOT worry about it, and it will all happen in due course :)
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« Reply #4 on: 11 February 2013, 03:16:38 am »
fake it 'til you make it haha yeah I'll have to start doing that to not bruise their ego's!

Do you know whether doing more kegels or Ben Wa Balls would help? Possibly to become more in tune with that area?

I'm a complete hedonist, I just want more pleasure...Looking forward to maturing in to what you are describing  ;)
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #5 on: 11 February 2013, 03:23:04 am »
Quote from: lulu69 on 11 February 2013, 03:16:38 am
fake it 'til you make it haha yeah I'll have to start doing that to not bruise their ego's!

Do you know whether doing more kegels or Ben Wa Balls would help? Possibly to become more in tune with that area?

I'm a complete hedonist, I just want more pleasure...Looking forward to maturing in to what you are describing  ;)

Kegels/pelvic floor exercises will ALWAYS help ;) Keeps everything tight and firm and in place. And helps to avoid urine leaks and prolapses when you're older!  :o
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #6 on: 11 February 2013, 03:36:17 am »
Useful stuff  ;)

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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #7 on: 11 February 2013, 02:39:13 pm »
If some of your clients are mentioning their potential pleasure in sharing in an orgasmic experience with you, have you considered guiding them to clitoral stimulation with their clean fingers or orally doing it?
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #8 on: 11 February 2013, 03:33:54 pm »
I dont wish to be controversial here - and god knows I'm all about the orgasms - but I dont think you should start trying to work on your ability to cum during bookings.

It's something that you need to explore with someone who is there for your mutual pleasure ie partner, friend, fuck buddy, whatever. That way you can really relax, and discover what it takes you to get you to where you want to be.

I'm not saying that you shouldn't enjoy your bookings, or that your Clients dont want or wont enjoy you orgasming, just that it will be far easier to explore if you're not mentally keeping an eye on the clock, that he has his condom in place, that he's not scoping your room to steal your money, that house keeping aren't about to knock on the door, that your next booking wont be early and all the other million and one things that occupy a working girls mind!

R xx
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« Reply #9 on: 11 February 2013, 03:43:23 pm »
hahahaha Rooby hilarious and true!

I know that women's orgasms are not like mens, that our coital encounters don't always have always end in the culmination of the Big "O" I just had the feeling that it seemed easier for other girls to reach these.

I do agree that all the thoughts that do come up in a booking really wouldn't help in achieving the best state of mind that I guess one requires :D
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #10 on: 11 February 2013, 03:48:39 pm »
as i have got older i have been able to come more, but i don't come every time! it depends how good the client is at certain things. clients shouldn't expect you to come on tap if they think that then they don't understand the female body.
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #11 on: 11 February 2013, 04:08:06 pm »
Quote from: lulu69 on 11 February 2013, 03:43:23 pm
I know that women's orgasms are not like mens, that our coital encounters don't always have always end in the culmination of the Big "O"

Men's encounters don't either...

You say you find it difficult if someone else is touching you. That suggests you either need to stop worrying and just enjoy it if it happens or offer - for example - a close up view of you doing what does work. This can be made part of tie and tease, for example.
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #12 on: 12 February 2013, 10:13:10 pm »
Quote from: Taylor on 11 February 2013, 03:48:39 pm
as i have got older i have been able to come more, but i don't come every time! it depends how good the client is at certain things. clients shouldn't expect you to come on tap if they think that then they don't understand the female body.
That's true, as I got older i have also been able to come more with good clients but still fake it sometimes with some.
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Re: I want to orgasm in my bookings!
« Reply #13 on: 13 February 2013, 08:44:02 pm »
>< Looking forward to maturing!
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