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kimba

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What Would You Have Done?
« on: 31 July 2010, 02:21:59 pm »
Have you ever turned up to an outcall booking to find more than one guy present, without you being warned?
How did you react girls?
I have just wasted a full morning getting ready and travelling to what I thought was a standard booking with a fella.
When I arrived, I was shocked to find there were 4 of them there.
They were all stoned, almost young enough for me to have given birth to and promised to keep the lounge door closed while I went upstairs with 1 to do the deed as it were..
I walked straight out as I felt compromised, vulnerable and also embarrassed as it was the first time it wasn't just myself and the client involved.
On the drive home I actually thought that they were most likely harmless and that the lad was just using his pals address for the booking. He had been asking on the phone if I would stay overnight and he would reserve a Hotel, but I had said we'd do the hour meet firstly to see how we got on.
Anyway, he never apologised for not warning me, never called me back etc, etc, Probably booked another girl straight after to chance their luck again..
What do you think girls? Did I do the right thing in walking out and how do you feel about parties in general?
I have never had 2 guys yet, never mind a bunch!  :o

Sarita

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #1 on: 31 July 2010, 02:37:48 pm »
I would have been out of there quicker than you can say run.  I would never, ever take a booking with more than one guy unless I knew them extremely well and even then I wouldn't do more than 2.
In order to keep safe in this business (IMO) you have to feel  in control of the booking and in this situation I can't see how you could possibly ensure your own safety.

I've done parties, but that's a completely different situation as there are several girls and the guys don't know each other. 

kimba

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #2 on: 31 July 2010, 02:45:41 pm »
Yes, I have always had a rule that if they want to see me with a mate, then they must book me solo firstly.
At least you can get a grasp of someones' character that way, but even so it could change when another fella is involved..As I say, it hasn't happened yet!
I think you lose what limited control you have as soon as you are outnumbered?
I'm not even that keen on husband and wife bookings for this reason and rarely accept one..

Cherrylips

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #3 on: 31 July 2010, 02:48:50 pm »
I would've walked as well.  Maybe they were harmless but it was still disrespectful and he probably would have fell asleep half way through anyway being so stoned so yeah I would have done the same as you.  Ugh the thought of it.   ::)  ;D

Lucy Chambers

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #4 on: 31 July 2010, 08:09:44 pm »
I would have left, after demanding a cancellation fee. And if they said no, I would have kicked up an almighty fuss. I remember years ago turning up to a hotel suite in the Dorchester, only to find two other escorts and a group of 10 idiots from Brunei. I saw six of them...I shiver to think now but at the time I felt very under pressure by the agency I was with. Six clients with no english back to back is hell...add to that other women you don't know from adam in the same room and it starts to resemble Dantes inferno.

As to the question of parties, they are fine. Managed well and with a couple of ladies you know they can be a scream, but it is always well organised, with prior booking, and with your input.

Did he sound stoned on the phone?

UrbaneAspects

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #5 on: 31 July 2010, 08:27:32 pm »
I would have left, after demanding a cancellation fee. And if they said no, I would have kicked up an almighty fuss.

I'm a believer in making a scene 'when due, and under certain circumstances', but with 4 guys...do you think raising hell would do anything? They could all grab you, 1 limb for each guy and carry you upstairs to do something absolutely unthinkable. All the hell raising in the world wouldn't stop a bunch of stoned, limp dick nuts from carrying on an orgie.

I'd just cut the losses and jet.

Lucy Chambers

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #6 on: 31 July 2010, 08:33:18 pm »
Nah J, you know why?

A) They called me to private residence.
B)They were not planning to rape or kill me, or the door would have slammed behind me the minute I walked in the door.
C)They were smoking weed, not crack. The police don't like illegal substances.
D)I don't take kindly to my very valuable time being wasted.
E)I can be quite formidable in person. Read scary.

But yes, you are right. Lots of men equals run in my safety manual too- unless the above happens.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #7 on: 01 August 2010, 12:42:30 am »
Nah J, you know why?

Because basically you're a bitch? (I mean that in a wont-take-any-shit from anyone type of bitch LOL)

Miss Mary

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #8 on: 01 August 2010, 12:48:22 am »
Lucy I applaud you for having so much gangsta in you. Kudos.

I probably wouldve barked on them something awful, simply cause it would killed there buzz  ;D

Then if I didnt get my MONEY, I'd jack there weed. At least then I'd have something to show for the drive.

(shrugs)


In all seriousness Kimba, thats a terrible situation and overall,  leaving was I think the right thing to do.

Lucy Chambers

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #9 on: 01 August 2010, 01:12:11 am »
miss mary...I have never laughed so much in my life. Thank you.

Ps. I own a cavalier king charles  spaniel  (Harriet) and tons of heels. I'm sure you get the picture.
« Last Edit: 01 August 2010, 01:22:38 am by Lucy Chambers »

Lucy Chambers

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #10 on: 01 August 2010, 01:13:17 am »
Nah J, you know why?

Because basically you're a bitch? (I mean that in a wont-take-any-shit from anyone type of bitch LOL)

There is no basically about it Joey. I am a Bitch.

kimba

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #11 on: 01 August 2010, 02:02:02 am »
No Lucy, he didn't sound stoned on the phone at all.
It was 9.30 on a Saturday morning and having just woken and pre-caffeine shot, I was probably the lesser coherent one during the call!  :-\ Not that I didn't make all my usual checks etc.. He just sounded like anyone else I take calls from. Polite, respectful, abit nervous etc..There were no sounds of others in the background, which is something I am always listening out for. It was 2 hours later by the time I arrived though.
It has since occured to me that if they hadn't had the longe door open and were all visible to me ( it was his mate who let me in I discovered ), then I would have maybe never known they were there anyway? Or until they decided to appear in the bedroom if that was the intention.. Perhaps I have been in houses before with others present in another room and never known it?
I know some guys have told me they are scared of getting robbed by girls/drivers if they take a late night booking alone in their home, but that's another issue..
I remember once getting a call from a guy who wanted to take me straight upstairs as his mother would be watching Corrie downstairs! I declined... ( didn't want to miss an episode myself! )  :)

Harlow

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #12 on: 01 August 2010, 05:45:08 am »
Hi

Walked & not have looked back. This is a scenario that worries me a lot with out calls. I'm am just glad for your sake that it turned out to be a mild experience that just left you being put out, rather then god who knows?

H xxx

Lucy Chambers

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #13 on: 01 August 2010, 11:49:43 am »
No Lucy, he didn't sound stoned on the phone at all.
It was 9.30 on a Saturday morning and having just woken and pre-caffeine shot, I was probably the lesser coherent one during the call!  :-\ Not that I didn't make all my usual checks etc.. He just sounded like anyone else I take calls from. Polite, respectful, abit nervous etc..There were no sounds of others in the background, which is something I am always listening out for. It was 2 hours later by the time I arrived though.
It has since occured to me that if they hadn't had the longe door open and were all visible to me ( it was his mate who let me in I discovered ), then I would have maybe never known they were there anyway? Or until they decided to appear in the bedroom if that was the intention.. Perhaps I have been in houses before with others present in another room and never known it?
I know some guys have told me they are scared of getting robbed by girls/drivers if they take a late night booking alone in their home, but that's another issue..
I remember once getting a call from a guy who wanted to take me straight upstairs as his mother would be watching Corrie downstairs! I declined... ( didn't want to miss an episode myself! )  :)

You did all you could then Kimba. I would always try and have a good look around a private residence. I go to the bathroom, walk around a little bit and try and be nosy. I know it seems rude, but it is your safety that matters more.

Miss Mary

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Re: What Would You Have Done?
« Reply #14 on: 01 August 2010, 05:54:35 pm »
miss mary...I have never laughed so much in my life. Thank you.

Ps. I own a cavalier king charles  spaniel  (Harriet) and tons of heels. I'm sure you get the picture.


King charles spaniels, the new gangsta dogs of year, apparently! Times being what they are and women's balls getting bigger by the second...I don't think there's anyone with more cheek than us. ;) And FYI, heels can be a fierce weapon.  :)