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Raven 1

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I know it sounds quite silly, but I wanted to ask if there is any way I could find a mentor to help me with launching my escort business? I have done escorting in the past in my younger years through an agency when I was naive to the business  (the agency was horrible), so I have no qualms about sleeping with strangers for money and think the job really suits me.

However, I tried to start independently a few months ago and spent money on hotels and just got people with warnings and felt overwhelmed and wasted money on hotels. I literally didn’t see 1 client. I got scared about wasting what little money I have on hotels and have left my profile dead - no reviews still. I am wondering whether I should delete my profile and start again maybe?

I really want to do this for a living and I want to escape my horrible home life, but I just can’t understand what I am doing wrong.

Could anyone suggest anything? Does a 1 on 1 prossie coach exist in this line of work?!

amy

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You could post in the Buddy section here if you want some support, but I think most of us would be wary of 'mentoring' somebody new in the sense that we'd feel responsible if something went wrong. Incitement laws aside (and they're worth considering), I know I'd feel terrible if I tried to give somebody advice and it was a disaster - what works for one person just won't work for another.

I think you're reading too much into 'warnings', from what I can remember from your other threads. Also bear in mind that timewaters are the first people to contact newbies (even for any of us who go to work in a different location for the first time) so it's not an instant fix, and like any business it takes time to get moving.

Are there any parlours near you? The money is definitely less, but it's a place to work plus company and security and you don't need to worry about screening or advertising either :)
« Last Edit: 11 April 2024, 06:44:30 pm by amy »

amy

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I should also have said, but sex work aside please call Women's Aid if you're really having a hard time! You don't have to be stuck with some nasty bastard; build up your fuck off fund and get planning to leave :)

Raven 1

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Thank you so much Amy for your kindness. Yes I get that it may be deemed in that way. However I will see if there are any buddies to make in a more general sense; I would love to make friends in the escort world and I promise I am a solution-orientated person and won’t bore anyone with woe is me. I just need a little advice at the moment.  I think I do need to stop being overly obsessed with warnings and I need to go with the flow a bit.

I’m in Surrey not too far from West London, so I guess maybe just put parlours in Surrey.  If anyone knows any that  I can work at alongside launching my independent escort business, please let me know.   

Yes the fuck off and sustainability fund is what I am going for! I have decided that tomorrow is the day that I get back to. 🤗😀
« Last Edit: 03 May 2024, 11:11:27 pm by Raven 1 »

ladyofthemansion

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If you look on Acemassage there are loads of parlours there. You could start off with those then go Indi when confident enough.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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You can DM if you want advice on parlour/brothels in London and SE England.. I worked independently for a while and found it very stressful and didn't do well financially. I prefer the support of working with other people. Although I know not everyone feels that way.

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Ladyofthemansion great I will take a look  :)

Lora thank you for the offer I have DM’d you. X