Hi,

I've been escorting for 3 years now and recently had some bad experiences with clients who wanted to be regular but I do not want to see them again.

 Last time one of them booked me by using a new number and when he arrived and I recognized him, I told him he could stay only for half an hour.  He started shouting and became very agressive keep shouting he had come to stay one hour and would stay as long as he had planned.
I told him he should calm down and I was not happy to see him after this behaviour and mainly because of his abusing behaviour on our last meeting,  then he shouted he  would not leave and didn't care he would fuck me anyway and did not understand my problem he was not aggressive... I was shocked and afraid he would hit me as he made threatening moves with his hand  . So I told him he could not stay and I would call the police. He said he did not care and was shouting sitcoms then finally left after a couple of minutes.

I try to be as discreet as possible as I live in a flat and I am sure this time all my neighbours heard him shouting words like bitch and came to fuck etc..   

How would you handle a situation like this?

And what do you say to someone at the end of a meeting when you know you don't want to see him again?

Thanks for any advice

Sorry to hear about your bad experience.
Just as Alice says, main thing is remaining calm. Do not go into argument with somebody who gets angry since it'll just anger them even more. Remain calm and ask them to leave. You may want to put police number into your quick dial in case you need it. No point saying "I'm not going to see you again" because this only fuels aggressivity towards you. Think first about getting them out. And if this happens with same client more than once you really should report them to the police.

Think about talking in steady calm voice. It's basic psychology and should work:)