Having just seen the AW profile - and been its 22nd view - it's clearly aiming at the tiny market (women clients) with the larger one as an afterthought. That's the wrong way round.

I don't know how many women browse AW looking for men to pay, but it must be a very small fraction of the number of men. Even if were a larger number, you are one of currently 3,007 very optimistic men offering sex to women in London.

Female clients exist, but if you find them on AW, go out and buy a lottery ticket because it's your very lucky day.

What do you have to offer men? Put it in the profile. What do you have to offer a M/F couple looking for a MMF threesome? There won't be anything like as many, but put that in the profile. Then's the time to think about what you have to offer women.

Though my rant was more to do with craigslist posts going nowhere, or being offered 30 quid for an hour...

I am absolutely certain I won't get female clients initially I thought that advertising as a straight escort would draw gay men with a straight fantasy to message me, but I stand corrected there - I am now openly aiming the profile to that fantasy

I also thought that gay escorting would be a quick way to make money and fix a desperate situation, though it seems that as with any other line of work, it takes time effort and experience to be successful

and really, thanks for all your help and advice. I am grateful. I will stick at it and hope it gets better with time and experience....

I also thought that gay escorting would be a quick way to make money and fix a desperate situation, though it seems that as with any other line of work, it takes time effort and experience to be successful

Well that's not just you - we have legions of people of all genders signing up thinking prostitution is going to be a licence to print money and the answer to all their problems, and sadly most find out quickly that this just isn't the case. As you've spotted, most people in jobs which command a three figure sum as an hourly rate have to work bloody hard one way or the other whether it's via studying, training or just old fashioned grafting (both physical and mental) to do whatever their job entails, and if you're going to be successful, this is no exception .

The days where we could confidently advise virtually everybody who registered that they could just pack in the day job and earn a decent living from sex work are pretty much gone, and whilst it's more than possible to make a very comfortable income you have to work far harder to do so because as it becomes more acceptable and easier for anybody to do it, not unsurprisingly far more people do. But it's not impossible and a lot of it's a matter of patience if for no reason other than that those who think it'll be that easy soon fall by the wayside and when they do, you'll still be there .

 I can only seem to get bookings on bp anyone else have this problem