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Author Topic: I have finally stopped offering penetrative sex and I’m a happy hooker again!  (Read 2629 times)

English Green

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Totally agree on your feeling that men are being over serviced.
They are coming to expect every service they can think of or enjoy to be included in every SW's offering regardless of the price or their own personal hygiene, or in many cases, total lack of it!

Yep they are definately being over serviced and have done for a long time. They do expect a hell of a lot in a booking but they only expect it because a lot do offer everything now so that is why they expect it.

English Green

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Tantric i don't think £100 an hour is shit hot cash like you said your still offering risky services like CIM and OWO etc and tisk catching infections and risks of smelly cunts making you puke. I remeber the average hooker 20 years ago charging £120 an hour for far less services and no OWO or kissing.

Take off adverts and tax( if you pay it etc, i only say that as i know some don't pay any)and work expenses is that £60 or.
there about an hour in total? Not the £100 take home is it. I personally don't think it's good money unless you pay zero tax on it which obviously is a problem in itself.


TantricTease

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Tantric i don't think £100 an hour is shit hot cash like you said your still offering risky services like CIM and OWO etc and tisk catching infections and risks of smelly cunts making you puke. I remeber the average hooker 20 years ago charging £120 an hour for far less services and no OWO or kissing.

Take off adverts and tax( if you pay it etc, i only say that as i know some don't pay any)and work expenses is that £60 or.
there about an hour in total? Not the £100 take home is it. I personally don't think it's good money unless you pay zero tax on it which obviously is a problem in itself.


It’s shit hot in the sense that where else can you get that for an hours work, in general I meant.  I just am not sure if I’m being greedy or what moaning at £100, and knowing that I could be getting £120, that’s greedy I think and I’m sure the men would agree..haha.

Although like you say, CIM is far more risky than covered penetrative sex as is rimming so yeah, I’m sticking to my £120, and like you say, the price has been the same for years and really, £120 ain’t lots of cash at all.

TantricTease

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Oh English and I never ever think of the cost of my ads, I forget about that, and when I buy a pay safe then I never ever keep receipt, and there is plenty times when I have to top up and show number and AT, this is due to me not posting enough new pics for my private gallery...tax is different as not all S/E person declares EVERY penny they make...but that’s not to discuss here, and anyway you don’t pay £40 in tax if you only make £100!

fallen angel

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Fallen Angel I will do and thanks, you’re so right that why should I lower my rates, I mean imo physically sex is harder work for me, you feel old going through the menopause so even in doggy then my knees are uncomfy immediately, and to be fair I’ve met someone out in real life and whilst it’s just casual, then I just wanna fuck him, he makes me horny and not many men are able too these days and I ain’t giving him and his tongue up!!😂😂😂

It’s been a LONG LONG time since I’ve had a good sexual connection with someone in real life and I can’t fuck for cash AND in personal life because I won’t be horny for personal sex and at this point in time, then I NEED a man in my personal life, he’s my sex toy and he knows it!! 😂😂

Haha that's great! I'm pleased for you. God knows it's difficult enough to find a partner when in this line of work.

English Green

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It’s shit hot in the sense that where else can you get that for an hours work, in general I meant.  I just am not sure if I’m being greedy or what moaning at £100, and knowing that I could be getting £120, that’s greedy I think and I’m sure the men would agree..haha.

Although like you say, CIM is far more risky than covered penetrative sex as is rimming so yeah, I’m sticking to my £120, and like you say, the price has been the same for years and really, £120 ain’t lots of cash at all.

There is plenty of careers out there where they earn more then us in a year plus our hourly rate is never for 8 hrs a day 5 days a week it's very up and down.  I had a locksmith out that was there 10 mins and he still charged well over £100 plus i got my fence fixed an extra few poles put in the fence was repaired the job was priced at £250 they were there 1hr 15 mins so that is a lot more then most hooker fees.

I think our job is more risky and dangerous so your fee is certainly not being greedy especially with rimming and CIM included. So it would not enter my mind you are over charging.

English Green

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Oh English and I never ever think of the cost of my ads, I forget about that, and when I buy a pay safe then I never ever keep receipt, and there is plenty times when I have to top up and show number and AT, this is due to me not posting enough new pics for my private gallery...tax is different as not all S/E person declares EVERY penny they make...but that’s not to discuss here, and anyway you don’t pay £40 in tax if you only make £100!

No but you take out the costs of working and tax etc you could easily be left £60 from the hour depending on your work outgoings and hotel or flat costs too.

Vintage Miss

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I agree that clients over the years have come to expect more services. When I first joined the industry there were still women around whose main years were 80s/90s and even kissing was rare let alone full GFE, pretending to actually fancy them stuff,  unless you were a very high end expensive escort. I had a guy actually email me the other day bemoaning my price and telling me to lower it to give 'ordinary guys a chance', as though my pussy ought be some kind of charitable facility.

So yea, I don't think 100 for oral and cim is unreasonable at all, I think even today that is a competitive price. But at the end of the day its not about what I think, but whether you can make the money you need to make in the time you have, offering the services you are willing to offer at the price you'd like... and if you can, that is all that matters.

Vintage Miss

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And even if you lose a few regs, forcing yourself to have sex when it makes you feel this way is not unlikely to cause you long term stress, to put it lightly, and your emotional wellbeing in this game is paramount.

saltysweet

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I understand, yea dealing with a combo of meds so many interractions to consider.

Yes, I can see why you don't want the over keen DT boys. Like a sunday all you can eat roast where they pile up the plate with steak and no salad. :)
« Last Edit: 22 April 2021, 07:54:00 pm by saltysweet »

Missyblue

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If you go by the reviews on tht review site — most of them seem to be happy with a mediocre massage and giving  the masseuse oral and ending with hand relief for £90/1hr.
« Last Edit: 23 April 2021, 03:25:27 pm by Missyblue »

English Green

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If you the reviews on tht review site — most of them seem to be happy with a mediocre massage and giving  the masseuse oral and ending with hand relief for £90/1hr.

Unless she is catering for those particular people i don't think it counts what they like to pay.

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I guess its the same as any kind of service you provide, it about charging what you feel comfortable with and then see what kind of interest you get. If you find that you are busy on the lower prices then put the prices up accordingly or as and when you feel like its time for a price change.
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fallen angel

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I guess its the same as any kind of service you provide, it about charging what you feel comfortable with and then see what kind of interest you get. If you find that you are busy on the lower prices then put the prices up accordingly or as and when you feel like its time for a price change.

Yep i agree, i think I was undercharging for quite some time.
Happy with my increased rates so it's never good to undervalue yourself.