What a strange thing to say. Is this how you would behave? FWIW, it wouldn't occur to me to do either of these things.
My only concern is him not reappearing. I have only consented to spend x period of time with him, and I don't want to have to deal with him returning having 'accidentally' missed his train or some such fabricated nonsense.
An escort friend had this situation happen, and why I am over-thinking things.