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Gypsy

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #15 on: 29 January 2020, 11:53:49 am »
Quote from: Missizzy on 29 January 2020, 08:08:07 am
I'm not so much hating men as feeling bitter about the job, if that makes sense? x

Why do you feel bitter about the job?

It may help to think of the plus points like being totally in control of who you see if you're indie. Being your own boss. Getting to work when you want and being able to have a life as well etc  :)
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Missizzy

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #16 on: 29 January 2020, 11:58:51 am »
I think I'm just a bit worn down with it, I'm hoping to go back to being my own boss soon but currently I'm working in a parlour, which isn't ideal but suits my circumstances right now. I suppose everyone feels like that every so often  :)
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Mirror

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #17 on: 29 January 2020, 12:25:09 pm »
Quote from: Gypsy on 29 January 2020, 11:53:49 am
Why do you feel bitter about the job?

It may help to think of the plus points like being totally in control of who you see if you're indie. Being your own boss. Getting to work when you want and being able to have a life as well etc  :)

Without men we wouldn't have the custom, and the independence.
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Missizzy

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #18 on: 29 January 2020, 12:28:23 pm »
That's a good point, and 99% of men are fine, sorry :)
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Justine

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #19 on: 29 January 2020, 12:55:47 pm »
My thoughts on this one are that while I absolutely do not feel any kind of hatred towards men since doing this work I do have a different outlook compared to when I was just a civvy with no experience of being paid.

I used to think of certain men (relatives, high profile gorgeous fit blokes, gym bod and handsome men, older men who still have a wife after 40plus years and seem devoted and loyal etc) would not cheat or pay pro's because why on earth would they do that? but they are just as likely to pay us and not always because they have to but because they want to. Many of these men are in relationships and I even see their social media profiles with their partners and in laws devotedly praising them to god standard. 

Before anyone asks why I would look at their social media I will say that before the data protection rules tightened up I could screen new men and search their phone numbers very easily and up would pop their facebk accounts. Currently I get a few men giving me their full and real names. I can google what the hell I want and do that. Surprising what emerges and I am a curious soul so if their names are linked to a sofa they want to sell on a local buy and sell site I take a little look. So much more personal info is easy to see.

How could I hate men when they have provided me with what I have now and that is a mountain more than I had 11 years ago!
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Philipa

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #20 on: 29 January 2020, 05:07:29 pm »
Quote from: jellib33 on 27 January 2020, 01:36:11 am
I tried a mentorship with a company, I tried my best to get everyone to like me, the office games make me hate men and people even more. I feel so trapped. Has anyone experienced something similar?

A toxic work environment will make you feel awful.
Good on you for leaving!
If you feel trapped, have you thought of other ways to supplement your income?

I only hate men who are misogynist, evil or prey on women. In my heart, I don't hate all men.
I'm quite fond of some clients. Although you hear me complain a lot about them...




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Francesca-Rose

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #21 on: 02 February 2020, 08:19:38 pm »
Some times if I'm having a bad day I think it god all men are wankers. Usually I'm lucky enough to then get a complete sweetheart who makes me think oh yeah not all men are dicks  :)
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Ellie B

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Re: [Feeling as if] I Hate Men
« Reply #22 on: 03 February 2020, 12:04:01 am »
I love gay men!
Men can be bastards and women can be bitches.
I would try to focus in the good in people, both male and female.

All I would say that escorting does make you often hate men just because they come across as being selfish by paying for sex. Once the deed is done, they fuck off. We know the score by being in the business so maybe best not to dwell on the facts!

However, there are lovely men out there that do not fall into the above category, whether they pay for it or not.

One thought is, that the prison population is made up 75% men  and 25% of women!!
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