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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: BustyLatoyaxx on 18 September 2014, 11:01:43 am
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Hey ladies I am completely new this I recently split up with my boyfriend of 2 years and have been left with all bills so I've decided I'm going to do this on the side aswell as working. So anyway yesterday I had my first client he came at half 11 at night was half an hour late he kept wanting blowjobs whenever I stopped after a long long while his hard on just went back down it was lictually just a disaster we attempted to have sex but he just couldn't get hard he took 2 Viagras before he came and still didn't get hard and he didn't cum. does this happen a lot? I have another today at half 2! Also what condoms do I buy what sizes? As yesterday i was lucky and found one in my draw.
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Hi latoya.
You can buy regular condoms and few kiing size for the well endowed gents.
Personally I buy Durex extra safe in regular size and pasante king size.
You can also get them for free from GUM clinic or buy them in bulk from ebay (I buy them from ebay).
You have to have plenty of condoms at all times, dont rely on clients to bring you any.
Im sorry for you first not that good experience, maybe you should avoid seeing clients that late in the evening, thhe nicest clients come during the day, the not so nice, late in the night, drunks and such.
Have a read on this forum and the main one and use the search option for everything you need to know, you will find many good advices xx
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On the one hand, hooray for the money he paid, on the other, you've learnt some lessons. Some of these are easier when you don't need the money now, but...
... there are plenty of people who would say that their time starts at the agreed booking time (or who would just not see anyone unexpectedly thirty minutes late!) so if they arrive half an hour into an hour's booking, that leaves them thirty minutes.
... not every client can do everything they want in the time. 'Oh dear, how sad, never mind' - it's not your problem. With some, you'd still be working away now.
... working from home has its upsides (cheap, there's always something for you to do) and its downsides (do a search here for some stories, but for starters, imagine he was three hours late and started kicking up a fuss outside...)
... you need to be prepared. This means boundaries in place and the safer sex stuff that goes with some of those boundaries. Hoping to just "luckily" find a condom in a drawer isn't going to be good enough next time.
As ever, there's much more to be found by looking here and on the main SAAFE site (http://www.saafe.info/).
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Could I suggest you research EVERYTHING before you get into a situation you cannot handle?
It's important than you know what you are doing. Don't forget you are offering a service and you want repeat business. If you're not at your best and well prepared your reputation will suffer and it's hard enough to get good repeat business.
Something basic like condom size knowledge is vital. The wrong size causes problems (getting stuck inside YOU, not fitting the guy's cock) and if you don't perfect your technique you'll be forever trying to get him hard again.!!
Honestly - get online and get clued up.
Good luck x
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Hey ladies I am completely new this I recently split up with my boyfriend of 2 years and have been left with all bills so I've decided I'm going to do this on the side aswell as working. So anyway yesterday I had my first client he came at half 11 at night was half an hour late he kept wanting blowjobs whenever I stopped after a long long while his hard on just went back down it was lictually just a disaster we attempted to have sex but he just couldn't get hard he took 2 Viagras before he came and still didn't get hard and he didn't cum. does this happen a lot? I have another today at half 2! Also what condoms do I buy what sizes? As yesterday i was lucky and found one in my draw.
The very best of luck to you Latoya and keep safe, the ladies on here have a wealth of experience don't feel isolated.
get your items as suggested before hand so youre well prepared.
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Yes, you need to think about e.g. shower facilities and so on as well, but condoms are the most important thing. Lovehoney can be a good place to buy them in bulk (packs of 100) and/or on offer - 80% of men are fine with normal ones, but have some XL and smaller/snug ones to hand too.
Depending on where you live, neighbours etc., you probably can't have people round at all hours without causing trouble for yourself, so I'd suggest making 10 or 10.30pm your latest booking.
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For getting them by post, there is always freedoms-shop.nhs.uk/shop/product/search/ but a sexual health clinic will give you a variety of free ones.
For working from home, it's especially important that you leave giving them the actual address as late as possible. As ever, a search will find more, but the basic technique is to get them to go to somewhere - ideally somewhere you can see - and call from there for the last details.
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For getting them by post, there is always freedoms-shop.nhs.uk/shop/product/search/ but a sexual health clinic will give you a variety of free ones.
Thanks xw5, I wasn't aware of this site - great prices!