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I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« on: 11 May 2011, 12:58:57 pm »
Hello girls I find it really hard to get work due to boob size, so I have set up a website to try and raise the funds for a boob job.The site is <please contact this member directly if you want the link> I'm only a 34aa but want to get a 34d because I know this will boost work and income in the escort industry does anyone know where I can advertise this website. Thanks girls its really getting me down xxx
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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #1 on: 11 May 2011, 01:51:22 pm »
I'm not sure where you can advertise the website, but this forum (particularly this section) is probably not the right place.

As far as I know, there are clients who adore all sorts of different body types, shapes and sizes so anyone can find their niche and work happily there. So I wouldn't bother getting surgery just for work. But it's likely that you have additional reasons, so that may not be much help.
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« Reply #2 on: 11 May 2011, 02:10:27 pm »
Hello girls I find it really hard to get work due to boob size, so I have set up a website to try and raise the funds for a boob job.The site is <please contact this member directly if you want the link> I'm only a 34aa but want to get a 34d because I know this will boost work and income in the escort industry does anyone know where I can advertise this website. Thanks girls its really getting me down xxx

Bollocks.

Sorry I'm a 36A which is the biggest I ever get When I'm very lean I'm a 34AA (ie struggling to fill even an A cup), I have no problems with getting work. Sure the very odd guy has phoned and asked if I know anyone larger, but the majority of the time men don't mind - it's the overall package they are more interested in. A lot of clients have actually said,  unprompted that they really don't like large breasts and complain that it's very difficult to find an Escort who doesn't have big boobs. As far as I'm aware my small breasts have not caused me any problems in the work department. Sure I am not for those guys who have a thing about big breasts, but you can't please everyone. I also know that I have clients in common with much larger ladies too.

When I was in my 20s I always wanted a boob job, now I can actually afford one I'm quite happy. The way I see it is that I can do anything I want to without having to think about my boobs.  I also do not fancy having the surgery either - all surgery carries risk and if there were any complications I would not be able to forgive myself since it was entirely my choice and not out of necessity.The  only issue I have is that some lingerie ranges only start at B, and sports bras can be difficult to find/fit too!

I used to find it difficult being out socialising to see guys oggling over large breasted ladies, do not worry they tell me it's an automatic reaction - they can't help it. It no longer bothers me these days because I know men like all shapes and sizes.

Biggest piece of advice I can give you is don't change yourself for your work be confident, and if you are confident then that is far sexier than worrying about your boobs.
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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #3 on: 11 May 2011, 03:58:55 pm »
I would honestly think twice about this- one of the biggest complaints I hear about from guys looking for escorts is women who are too "plastic" glamour model-alike, with photos that look overly photo-shopped. They might like gawping at Jordan, but none of my male friends would want to shag her. They would quite happily have sexy funtimes with Belladonna though, and she doesn't pack much in the boob area. Big boobs really aren't a guarantee of success

How much work you get depends way more on other factors- what hours you work, whether you do incalls or outcalls, whether you're on adultwork only or have your own site (or both), whether that site is listed on punters' forums. Remember that we are in recession; those at the bottom end of the escort market, price wise, will be less hit than the "high class" ladies and even they will have noticed a drop in punters. Another factor is where you are based- a black escort, for example, in London is simply one of hundreds working that city, but in Glasgow she'll be one of a few and thus will stand out more and may be a bit busier as a result. Webcamming can be a good way of earning money when bookings are slow in coming/non-existent, and some of the ladies here have reported clients booking them as an escort after seeing them on webcam so maybe try that if you're strapped for cash?

I'm only a B cup myself, and they haven't been perky and pert since I was 15 and the nipples are huge. I've had a few comments, but no one's gone "Ohmigod your areolas are hideous! Back, foul demon! Back!"

So you have small boobs. What else do you have? An athletic build? Are you tall like a model? Petite like Kylie? What colour are your eyes? Men like boobs, sure, but they like other things too- do you have a blog? A twitter account? If punters get a good feel for what you/your escort alter ego is like, they may book you on the strength of that. Honestly, I would go for temporary (ish) changes- advertising in different places, dyeing my hair, writing a blog, webcamming- first before going for something permanent like a boob job, and I wouldn't recommend something that drastic just for work. If you aren't happy with them then fine, but I would also say that AA cup -> D cup is a HUGE jump, and can end up looking stuck on and fake (surgeons tend to ask you to put on weight so that your Ds look more natural). Also, you'll have to get them replaced every 10 years, which you'll have to pay for, and if it goes wrong you'll have to pay to correct that too. 

To summarise: don't if you're only doing it to get work, but if your boobs make you miserable then go ahead.

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« Reply #4 on: 11 May 2011, 04:04:11 pm »
I used to be  a 30B [now a 30C] when I first started escorting and I used to get comments like " Oh you have tiny boobs compared to the other girls" and it used to really get me down and like you I wanted a boob job and even booked a consultation, but what put me of was the risks and scarring, and having seen friends who have had boob jobs it really put me of and I am thankful I never went through with it.

Lol sometimes when clients used to get on my nerves  I used to say "Snap, you have a small dick and I have small tits" :) and that used to shut them up.

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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #5 on: 11 May 2011, 04:12:58 pm »
I'm small boobed 34a, always wanted a boob job, thought I could save up by escorting and now I don't want one.
Lots of men like small boobs and they know what to expect when they make a booking.

I've seen stuff on the Internet about me when people are looking for escorts on forums and people recommending me and others saying "she doesn't have much on the boob front" etc. but you can't let things get to you. 

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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #6 on: 11 May 2011, 04:19:56 pm »
Hello girls I find it really hard to get work due to boob size, so I have set up a website to try and raise the funds for a boob job.The site is <please contact this member directly if you want the link> I'm only a 34aa but want to get a 34d because I know this will boost work and income in the escort industry does anyone know where I can advertise this website. Thanks girls its really getting me down xxx

Maybe you just need a nice photographer and be confident and move your body with rythme :)

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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #7 on: 11 May 2011, 04:33:03 pm »
I got a boob job (for myself, not work, I booked it before I became an escort) and didn't find it made much difference to the amount of work I got. The first couple of weeks I was back I had a big rush to 'see my new boobs' but after that things settled back down to a normal amount. As everyone else has said there are clients who love big boobs and clients who love small boobs, all you'll do by changing your body is move yourself from one market to another and it won't necessarily be more busy. If you want to do it for yourself then go for it, it's made a huge difference to my confidence and they look fantastic, but don't do it just to please your clients it's not worth putting yourself through the expense and risk and pain for anyone but you.
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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #8 on: 11 May 2011, 07:37:12 pm »
I've seen stuff on the Internet about me when people are looking for escorts on forums and people recommending me and others saying "she doesn't have much on the boob front" etc. but you can't let things get to you. 

I think that sort of comment is either a) a guy just being perfectly honest about his opinions without any sort of implication like "omg all girls with small boobs are unshaggable!!" or b) him just trying to be extra-blokey and act like boob size is a concern of great import, like those guys who think it's cool to point at random passing women and "impress" their friends by guessing her bra size. The latter sort are obviously (& thankfully!) an immature minority so they're really nothing worth worrying about. And the former are no bother either, because as I said, they don't mean anything bad by it; they're just stating their personal preferences same as other guys will say they like to enjoy the perks (har! Pun!) of smaller boobs. :D
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« Reply #9 on: 11 May 2011, 07:56:11 pm »
I've seen stuff on the Internet about me when people are looking for escorts on forums and people recommending me and others saying "she doesn't have much on the boob front" etc. but you can't let things get to you. 

I think that sort of comment is either a) a guy just being perfectly honest about his opinions without any sort of implication like "omg all girls with small boobs are unshaggable!!" or b) him just trying to be extra-blokey and act like boob size is a concern of great import, like those guys who think it's cool to point at random passing women and "impress" their friends by guessing her bra size. The latter sort are obviously (& thankfully!) an immature minority so they're really nothing worth worrying about. And the former are no bother either, because as I said, they don't mean anything bad by it; they're just stating their personal preferences same as other guys will say they like to enjoy the perks (har! Pun!) of smaller boobs. :D

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« Reply #10 on: 11 May 2011, 08:47:50 pm »
 as someone who has had a boob job going from a 34 a to 34d or dd would be horrific (imo) you would end up with boobs like hard little oranges 
you would probably need at least 2 ops to get to a 34dd possibly 3
the reason being  your skin has to stretch so at 34a its probably not that streched especiallyif you havnt had kids or breastfed ,  therefore when puting in the implant it will be closer to the skin  and the skin  hence the orange/hard football look  ( this is put very basically but it the main reason why you get this look)
     
Jordan if i remember rightly had at least 3 ops to get to her biggest size for the exact reason the skin has to stretch before accomodating a bigger size  so if you do go that big  AND any surgeon who reccomends it for you i would think twice -   you will get the hard football look and the falseness 

i went from 34B To DD and to be honest if i say so myself they are perfect ( for me ) but i can get away with it cos im not a skinny minnie on a size 8 petite frame they would look like jessica rabbit 

as iman says how much work you will get will depend on where your located, your prices your look /style  how established you are, if you tour ect
in london as a black escort i do ok but if i go to  scotland or belfast ect i clean up as there are very  black escorts few around
if you only advertise on adultwork then you will find your work goes up and down like your knickers but if you have your  own website advertise on lots of relelvant escort directorys, get good photos, have a blog join in the fourms on punternet and punterlink ect and get yourself seen before having a boob job
also having a boob job you really need to be off work for at least 3 -4 weeks i took six weeks off when i had mine done so you have to think about how are you going to survive when your not working afterwards
and it will be sods law that you will loses clients becuase you no longer have  a 34a boob   


 
   

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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #11 on: 11 May 2011, 09:06:47 pm »
Spotted some lads at uni once holding up number cards as girls walked past their 1st floor kitchen. I got a '6' daft sods.

Oh dear. Homosocial bonding activities, eh? ::)
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« Reply #12 on: 11 May 2011, 10:32:50 pm »
I'd just assume they were marking people out of six, as in ice skating etc :)
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Re: I Find it hard to get work due to boob size..
« Reply #13 on: 11 May 2011, 10:51:51 pm »
as someone who has had a boob job going from a 34 a to 34d or dd would be horrific (imo) you would end up with boobs like hard little oranges 

Nope, went from 32AA to 32DD and many of my clients have commented on how natural they feel. A good surgeon will advise you on what you can reasonably manage.


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also having a boob job you really need to be off work for at least 3 -4 weeks

I took two weeks. Could only do short bookings as I needed to be able to put my bra back on for regular breaks but it was fine (again, that was on the advice of my surgeon). 


 
   
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« Reply #14 on: 12 May 2011, 08:29:21 am »
Nope, went from 32AA to 32DD and many of my clients have commented on how natural they feel. A good surgeon will advise you on what you can reasonably manage.

 mine are also very natural feeling and there is no scar  well there is but not one that you can see or feel  when i had mine done a few years ago a friend who also had her boobs done at the same time  went from  a small size 32a to a much larger size but she wasnt happy with it from the start, she felt that it wasnt big enough  !!!  and she went back a  18months later and had them redone she is now a jordan in the making (lol)    

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I took two weeks. Could only do short bookings as I needed to be able to put my bra back on for regular breaks but it was fine (again, that was on the advice of my surgeon).

 i was recomended to wear the sports bra continously for  4 -6 weeks and not to wear an underwire bras because my scars were underneath and it could iritate the scar and not to go running - gym ect until after my 2  post op check up and my stitches were out which was i week for the stitches and two weeks for the post op  
 i was way to sore to have anyone touch my boobs for around 3 weeks they were super sensitive  So i took the longer option and went on holiday as well  that way  i didnt have to work and could relax totally  At the time i was working from adds in the papers and pretty busy between 6 -8 appointments a day most days so could not have handled that amount of grabing of my boobs at that time    
my final check up was around 6 weeks after  the op
some people heel differently after an operation  Myself  i always go for the max amount of time that is suggested that way if i am better earlier its a bonus


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