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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: yoshipet on 04 June 2014, 12:59:24 pm

Title: I don't want friends or family to find out
Post by: yoshipet on 04 June 2014, 12:59:24 pm
I've been escorting for nearly a year now, I probably see one client a week, or three at the most it depends who messages me

I have an ex who I see often, a bit complicated. A few times he's asked me how I have this amount of money, usually I'll say babysitting
My mum has been asking me lately too where im going before I escort, she made a joke recently about prostitution because I told her I want to rent a flat.

I'm a bit worried, I don't carry all the money on me, usually keep it at home but obviously I still carry some on me and babysitting wouldn't be enough to live on
Title: Re: I don't want friends or family to find out
Post by: amy on 04 June 2014, 02:10:47 pm
Yoshi, why don't you just put the money in the bank? Most don't send paper statements now unless you ask for them, and nobody apart from you should have access to yout online banking.

As for your ex, it's none of his business how much money you have or where it is from, but if you use the Search box here for things like 'cover story' you'll find quite a few previous threads with ideas :).
Title: Re: I don't want friends or family to find out
Post by: SophieX25 on 05 June 2014, 09:51:20 pm
go self employed and say you work at various bars or temp work
Title: Re: I don't want friends or family to find out
Post by: abbietiffanys on 05 June 2014, 10:55:16 pm
I tell people I'm a still a night security guard (this was my previous occupation)
Title: Re: I don't want friends or family to find out
Post by: Jessica2017 on 06 June 2014, 01:22:23 am
You could say you do part time work in a care home.
It's pretty easy to get a job in one and it would explain the odd working hours.

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