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madison25

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I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« on: 10 September 2009, 08:40:02 pm »
I do really want to do this, my first job is on Monday and I'm really nervous.  I'm with an agency and the lady who books everthing said she won't give me anyone straight away who is after any kind of fetish session, but I still worried as the unexpected makes me nervous, I know I'll be cool doing this after I've done it a few times but its getting past my nerves for the first times :( I'm wondering what kind of service exactly they are likely to want, if your 'at it' for the whole hour or some talking or what.  Also I am wondering what the old guys are like as I have never slept with anyone over 30 and I know that one of the regulars is 82!!! hmmmm, help......x

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #1 on: 10 September 2009, 09:03:11 pm »
Its ok to be nervous and excited (expected to be honest) but just relax and be confident and I am sure everything will go great.

Its hard to sterotype guys in terms of age when it come to how you expect the booking to go. Every guy is different Sometimes guys like to have a bit of a chat and move at a slower pace and some would strip in the hall if it meant they could get down and dirty faster!

If you really don't want to see someone really old then discuss this with your agency. They should be ok with it as they cant force you to do anything u dont want to do.

good luck for the first booking. let us know how u get on!!

Kisses

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #2 on: 10 September 2009, 09:16:22 pm »
Thanks Amber.  It's just with the age thing I think I would really struggle to do stuff to an 82 year old Man and wondered if everything still worked properly at that age or if they will be after a different type of service.  Do most of the guys when you arrive tell you what they want or do you kind of see what happens?  Would be so grateful for as much info as poss to help my nerves :) thank you x

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #3 on: 10 September 2009, 09:42:50 pm »
Some guys are upfront with what they want if it is a bit unusual or even if it isnt. Sometimes it just flows really well and you can give him what he wants without needing to actually ask him but if I am having trouble reading them then I simply ask.

Yes you do need to adapt to certain clients as they are not able to do certain things or certain positions but they will soon tell you.

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #4 on: 10 September 2009, 10:00:04 pm »
Just starting out myself so I have no wisdom to offer here, just wishing you all the best!

Remembering a post I read very recently from a girl about a much more 'mature' client who was providing RO.  She mentions being very impressed with his 'service' to which his response was 'well, I have been doing this for over 50 years!'

Have fun x

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #5 on: 12 September 2009, 09:35:16 am »
Ladies, i really wouldn't be too worried about older clients as they usually turn out to be quite quick and easy plus they are more relaxed and easy going and often very well mannered and interesting to talk to. It's the young ones who have loads of stamina and think they are re enacting a porn flick that are harder work. Good luck xx

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #6 on: 12 September 2009, 11:02:01 am »
The thing about this job is the complete diversty of clients in age/tastes/what pace they want to go at.
As far as fetish is concerned this doesnt necessarily mean whips and chains! I had a lovely bloke just want to stroke and admire my feet for an hour, another wanted me to get me to dress him in girls clothes and call him a sissy! I find the time flys and im trying not to laugh. BUT I did these things because I decided to, maybe a chat with your agency to let them know your boundries? ie "vanilla" only at first.
With age, ive found I prefer the "oldies" too. More reliable, respectful(not always though.) I dont feel as confident with younger clients although ive never had a younger one walk. A lot of punters are older though, I cant lie about this but it is something I got used to.
Not all clients go at the same pace but its rare for the to bulldoze you at the door! Simple delaying tactics can help such as saying you need to check in with the agengy, asking what theyd like(provatively.) asking for a glass of water(only pretend to drink it) Many clients struggle with penetrive sex due to age/certain medical conditions like diabetes or even if theyve had the snip.
As far as safety goes, a good tip is to give a brief hug at the door so you can look over his shoulder to check theres nobody else in the room, use the bathroom so you can check there too. Leave clothing on top of your bag between the bed and the door in case you have to leave in a hurry. Dont leave your bag unattended.
I will stop with the "mother hen" stuff now! I just worry about newbies. Hope it goes well, let us know anyway.
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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #7 on: 12 September 2009, 01:36:36 pm »
Old clients can be very experienced. VERY experienced!

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #8 on: 12 September 2009, 04:50:09 pm »
Old clients can be very experienced. VERY experienced!

Mmmmm, yes indeed... Mt 1st outcall was a dream come true! Local hotel 5 mins walk(or 2 min sprint for my safety buddy!) He wanted a good chat first and had got a nice bottle of wine(which I made sure I uncorked and served myself. He was around mid 50s but clean and v.pleasant, on best behaviour. But I never let my guard down for a second. If im badgered for my real name its "Karen" lol. Do I have a b/f or kids its no!(end of convo, lets talk about you!) When I get the occasional email from a past client it reminds me of that Chubby Brown song except im thinking "Karen? Karen? Who the f**k is Karen?!"
Thing to remember is hes a client, get the cash up front, service with a 100 watt smile, leave. None of this lets meet up for a chat/whats your msn rubbish!
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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #9 on: 14 September 2009, 11:41:15 am »


 Hi Madison,

 Let us know how it all went after you've had your booking today. Good luck! xxx

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #10 on: 17 September 2009, 04:48:29 pm »
Just starting out myself so I have no wisdom to offer here, just wishing you all the best!

Remembering a post I read very recently from a girl about a much more 'mature' client who was providing RO.  She mentions being very impressed with his 'service' to which his response was 'well, I have been doing this for over 50 years!'

Have fun x

That was me.  ;D

Yes he's a lovely man but I must admit my heart sank when I first set eyes on him.

Regarding older clients, I just ask my guys to be realistic. I mean I have no problem seeing someone who is
106 provided he isn't expecting french kissing.  :o :o

Also, with a bit of experience you can deal with almost anything. If you have an older gentleman who just
won't stop trying to kiss you with all three of his teeth, flip him onto his back and get on top, it's far more
difficult for him to pull you forward.

Also if you have a guy with halitosis, this is the reason doggy style was invented.  ;D 8)

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #11 on: 17 September 2009, 11:51:32 pm »

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That was me.  ;D

Yes he's a lovely man but I must admit my heart sank when I first set eyes on him.
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Seriously?!  What a great quote that was....certainly had an impact on me.  Fab advice LauraLee...thank you!!

Sunny x

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #12 on: 22 September 2009, 07:14:12 pm »
Hi everyone. My first post on here and felt I had to reply to this thread as I'm 51 and a bloke so someone you'd class as older I suppose.
I've met over 30 female escorts over the past 10 years (some 3 to 4 times each) and never had any complaints.
The youngest I've met was 19, the oldest was 55.
I'm an airline pilot so very rarely drink and keep quite fit, ie: not overweight.

Many of the girls I've met will not see anyone aged below 25. They all say the same as the younger ones have no respect for girls, and think that just because they have paid for sex, they can treat the lady like a lower class citizen.
Us 'oldies' have been there, done that, etc, got nothing to prove, and DO have respect for you working girls. Personally I think you are all great. You are definately some of the most beautiful girls around and certainly the most open minded.

Rather than you worrying too much about meeting the oldies, personally I think you should try and avoid the younger ones.

One other word of advice from a punter: your attitude matters more than anything. It is very easy to see through someone who is just going through the motions. If you genuinely love your job and love meeting the client, they will respect you much more and go home happier.

Hope your first booking goes great.

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #13 on: 24 September 2009, 07:25:16 pm »
Great to hear that roadie, thanx. An input from a client is great to get the other sides' point of view.

I hope the appointment went ok. Has anyone heard from her?

Luv Kate xx

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Re: I'm sooo nervous about my first job :(
« Reply #14 on: 24 September 2009, 10:05:19 pm »
Great to hear that roadie, thanx. An input from a client is great to get the other sides' point of view.

It is, but I can't help thinking that roadie may have taken a wrong turn on the way to a Punters forum (of which there are plenty). Unless he wants to sit and read about periods, timewasters, blow jobs and how to sort your tax/neighbours/pubes out. In that case, fair dos  ;D.