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I'm new to this. Does this sound right to you?
« on: 16 December 2011, 10:05:03 pm »
Hi,
I just found a small agency in NYC.
They have about 641 clients and aren't taking any new ones..
My manager booked me for 20 guys tonight.. over 8 hr job..
and I am supposed to receive $8,000.

How does the money part go? Do I get money before or after every client..
or will he give me the $8,000 in one shot when I'm done for the night?
I don't really want to ask..

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« Reply #1 on: 16 December 2011, 10:57:58 pm »
If you are to do this, and there are lots of people who would not, you want the $8,000 before any sexual contact with anyone, in cash, and be able to have somewhere to ensure that it is safe.

It is a very big if though - just what are you expected to do with twenty men over eight hours? Have them one at a time? (Ouch.) Be on the receiving end of an eight hour gang-bang? (OUCH!) How much rest will you have? etc etc. Whatever the answer, unless you have had a very interesting sex life, it will be unlike anything you have ever done before and no-one is going to say that it will be a good introduction to pay-for-play sex. It will be unforgettable, and very likely not in a good way.

Even if you are interested (and about the only scenario I can think of where that might be sensible is if you need $8,000 and only that amount, i.e. this is a complete one-off), if you cannot take along someone with your best interests at heart - and that's not your 'manager' - and who will ensure that your boundaries are respected, it's a big screaming sign to say 'No, why don't you do it?'

If you do it, get those boundaries - what you are prepared to do and what you are not - sorted in your mind, communicate them, and stick to them. Even if that means some of the delightful twenty don't get what they want. Especially if...

 
« Last Edit: 17 December 2011, 12:01:15 am by xw5 »
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #2 on: 16 December 2011, 11:18:44 pm »
Maybe it would be a good idea to look on Stripperweb, in the Other Work forum, they have quite a few escorts in NYC, they may be able to help you if you give the name of the agency.

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« Reply #3 on: 16 December 2011, 11:34:39 pm »
Oh, yes, I missed this aspect...

What sort of agency sends someone new, about whom it knows very little, to a job like this?!? The answer, I suspect, is one you wouldn't want to be near.

Assuming it has any other staff - and thinking about it, I do wonder - then surely they will have been offered this job and clearly they said 'no'. What more do you need to know?
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #4 on: 16 December 2011, 11:48:04 pm »
Let someone know where you are and if anything feels wrong ( go with your gut instinct ) and leave. Its your body and guys should respect your boundaries, DO NOT let them cajole, manipulate, scare or force you into anything you would regret.
Theres so many good agencies around that, if this one treats you bad, you can get work anywhere. ANYWHERE.

Good luck hun, stay safe and i think we`d love to know how you get on.

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« Reply #5 on: 17 December 2011, 12:13:59 am »
Oh no ladies,
Its not a gang bang lol.
I'll be seeing each man seperately..

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« Reply #6 on: 17 December 2011, 12:17:09 am »
I was just wondering when I would receive the money.
I don't want to be rude and ask him straight up.. should I ask before each client?

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« Reply #7 on: 17 December 2011, 12:26:16 am »
I was just wondering when I would receive the money.
I don't want to be rude and ask him straight up.. should I ask before each client?


Money upfront before meeting each man would be acceptable to *me*.

But $8000 for over 8 hours is VERY low. It's less than $100 per hour and you may feel exhausted and 'used' at the end of the shift. The agency will want their cut from your earnings - HOW MUCH IS THAT?? Plus you might not feel like (or be able to) work for another few days, depending on what the guys want from you.

HOWEVER. I don't have agency experience, so please take advice from those here who do. Please stay safe :)
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« Reply #8 on: 17 December 2011, 12:36:01 am »
the 8,000 is after my cut. But I am beginning to get suspicious about this..
I need to find a good NYC agency out there.. but it's so hard to know who's real.

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« Reply #9 on: 17 December 2011, 12:36:33 am »
I was just wondering when I would receive the money.
I don't want to be rude and ask him straight up.. should I ask before each client?

Asking how and when you will be paid for working isn't rude - if it was any other (legal) activity you wouldn't think twice, surely? You need to get your money before you start each and every time - you can't take back a service if they refuse to pay afterwards or haven't got enough cash - you don't say whether this is an incall or outcall situation, but you will need somewhere secure to keep it if this conveyor belt of punters is going to be passing through as you're unlikely to have time to go to the bank.

I don't understand how the twenty works - that isn't even enough for them each to have a half hour, and quickie bookings are usually weighted to be proportionally more expensive price-wise. I'm guessing they'll all be 15 minute splash and dashes or you won't even have time to shower.

Money upfront before meeting each man would be acceptable to *me*.

But $8000 for over 8 hours is VERY low. It's less than $100 per hour and you may feel exhausted and 'used' at the end of the shift. The agency will want their cut from your earnings - HOW MUCH IS THAT?? Plus you might not feel like (or be able to) work for another few days, depending on what the guys want from you.

HOWEVER. I don't have agency experience, so please take advice from those here who do. Please stay safe :)

I took the $8000 to mean the OP would receive this after taking the agency cut out (and if the above is the type of bookings they generally organise, somehow I'm not surprised it's low) but yes, it's still a ridiculous amount. I don't have agency experience either, but when I worked in New York I charged $280 for one hour/$500 for two and that was still relatively low compared with others.

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« Reply #10 on: 17 December 2011, 12:37:02 am »
Now's the time to forget all that conditioning to be polite and become Ms Assertive. It's not rude to ask such questions, it's a necessary part of your safety. Always, always, always get the cash before being sexual with someone. (And, given you're in the US, never ever say anything that could be interpreted by a court as 'I will be sexual with you for money.')

What's the deal? Twenty men who know each other are taking turns or twenty random men are turning up somewhere, not necessarily knowing there are nineteen others with the same idea?

If it's the former, then all the cash upfront. If it's the latter, I'd still go with all the cash upfront personally, but I can see an argument for each one paying separately. That does bite into the time, though: eight hours divided by twenty is only twenty four minutes. In that time, you need to 'get them up, get them off and and get them out' and clean up (you and the space) for the next one.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #11 on: 17 December 2011, 12:38:23 am »
Now's the time to forget all that conditioning to be polite and become Ms Assertive. It's not rude to ask such questions, it's a necessary part of your safety. Always, always, always get the cash before being sexual with someone. (And, given you're in the US, never ever say anything that could be interpreted by a court as 'I will be sexual with you for money.')

What's the deal? Twenty men who know each other are taking turns or twenty random men are turning up somewhere, not necessarily knowing there are nineteen others with the same idea?

If it's the former, then all the cash upfront. If it's the latter, I'd still go with all the cash upfront personally, but I can see an argument for each one paying separately. That does bite into the time, though: eight hours divided by twenty is only twenty four minutes. In that time, you need to 'get them up, get them off and and get them out' and clean up (you and the space) for the next one.


Yeah, that.

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« Reply #12 on: 17 December 2011, 12:40:46 am »
But $8000 for over 8 hours is VERY low. It's less than $100 per hour and you may feel exhausted and 'used' at the end of the shift.

$1,000 per hour, but yes, if she doesn't feel shagged out at the end of this, I would be surprised.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #13 on: 17 December 2011, 12:45:58 am »
But $8000 for over 8 hours is VERY low. It's less than $100 per hour and you may feel exhausted and 'used' at the end of the shift.

$1,000 per hour, but yes, if she doesn't feel shagged out at the end of this, I would be surprised.

Yes, sorry, my brain was fixed on the $8000=8hours=20men scenario, and my maths got very muddled!

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« Reply #14 on: 17 December 2011, 12:48:21 am »
Wow ladies.. you're right. Thank you!
I know I need to grow some balls lol
I'll tell you how it goes!