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I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« on: 23 May 2010, 06:18:26 am »
Has anyone done this?? I watched that episode from Secret Diary of a Call Girl and now I'm curious. Most of the ones Ive found online seem to be gay male escort agencies? Anyone know of any ones for women strictly??

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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #1 on: 23 May 2010, 09:29:05 am »
I hired Scott2hot from AW a couple of years ago.  Since then he has been on the Lily Allen show talking about being a man whore.  He runs a swingers club in Walthamstow. He also does duo work with lots of women escorts.

Truth be told, his pictures are way out of date.  He did not turn up in the suit requested, (hawaiian shirt and jeans!), found it difficult to perform with another guy in the room and was not that hot.

Afterwards I re-checked his profile and found that all the videos are of women giving him head - enough said.

He charged ?150 for the hour.  Came to Kent on the train.  Must have taken him ages.

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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #2 on: 23 May 2010, 11:11:49 am »
TBH Im surprised if youve not got dozens of blokes emailing you on AW already, offering thier services.
They all seem to think they are the bees knees too. That a womens idea of satisfaction is a huge dick banging away in doggy. That if you express pleasure it does not mean "carry on" it means do it faster/harder or rougher.
But to be fair we as escorts/women plant this myth in thier head so they are not entirely to blame.
I must sound terribly cynical but I think we are just wired differently. I get more out of an encounter with an older client who has the "omg" factor when it comes to oral or use a toy and meet up with the eye candy for a meal later. Thats just me though, I wouldnt want to gamble a lot of money on something that may give disappointment. I can recommend a civvy guy who is exceptionally gifted though lol.  ;)
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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #3 on: 23 May 2010, 02:09:21 pm »
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=1102.0 this thread is a good place to start, there were a few I think that had tried it, and a recommendation for a guy offering sensual massage with extras.

I wouldn't pay a man, personally. I have a partner that meets all my needs there. I have considered seeing a female escort though as i much prefer women and don't meet any through my work and few socially. I'm actually really shy when it comes to talking to girls!
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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #4 on: 23 May 2010, 05:29:05 pm »
Most of the ones Ive found online seem to be gay male escort agencies? Anyone know of any ones for women strictly??

See the numerous "I wannabe a straight male escort" posts: no. Because the vast majority of clients for male escorts are men, only scammers can make a SME 'agency' pay (by extracting money from the wannabes!) and typically even potential clients cannot see the victims' profiles without paying up as well.

A significant proportion of the men on the 'gay' sites are going to be bisexual, and AW has about five thousand very optimistic straight men on it to choose from, some of whom - ahhh - won't even charge you.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #5 on: 23 May 2010, 06:13:45 pm »
Most of the ones Ive found online seem to be gay male escort agencies? Anyone know of any ones for women strictly??



A significant proportion of the men on the 'gay' sites are going to be bisexual, and AW has about five thousand very optimistic straight men on it to choose from, some of whom - ahhh - won't even charge you.

I agree here XW5. Try ringing a straight male escort and asking for a freebie. Wonder if he will say no?!! lol.
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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #6 on: 23 May 2010, 06:34:08 pm »
I have thought about it, but only so I could practise my a-levels  ;D It's been a while and it would be much easier to have someone there who has to listen to what I say and knows what he's doing, rather than some bloke.

Now, finding one between all the wannabees would be hard, I'm afraid.

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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #7 on: 23 May 2010, 07:49:45 pm »
I agree here XW5. Try ringing a straight male escort and asking for a freebie. Wonder if he will say no?!! lol.

An interesting point. Probably a good guide, too: If you ask for a freebie and he says yes, he's likely just a chancer and wannabe. If he says no, that he's too busy(!) then maybe go for it!

Would I be a bad person if I got in touch with a male escort just to see how he responds? Then *I'd* be the timewaster! ;D I could really string it out, too, making a definite booking for next week and then oh no something came up at work can I reschedule for your day off next week? Only day I can do, I'll pay ?100 extra! I need face pics too and let me describe my fantasy in hilariously epic detail! Then tell me what you'd like to do! Great but I need to reschedule again my job is really busy you see, when's your next day off? That's the only day I can do again great thanks oh no I didn't turn up and didn't even text to let you know. Woops!
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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #8 on: 23 May 2010, 10:46:44 pm »
Oh I figured.  It's way easier for girls to get free sex, there are millions of ''naughty dating sites'' out there which are probally 90 percent filled with guys trying to get some action. I'm sure it's the same case with male escorts but in their cases they think they can make a bit of money while their at it. I would only ever pay if it was like that guy in Secret Diary? haha but apparently that doesn't exist!

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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #9 on: 25 May 2010, 09:30:14 am »
It's way easier for girls to get free sex

It's way easier for people to get free sex with men!
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« Reply #10 on: 25 May 2010, 10:30:25 am »
Oh I figured.  It's way easier for girls to get free sex, there are millions of ''naughty dating sites'' out there which are probally 90 percent filled with guys trying to get some action. I'm sure it's the same case with male escorts but in their cases they think they can make a bit of money while their at it. I would only ever pay if it was like that guy in Secret Diary? haha but apparently that doesn't exist!
He was yummy! But alas, most male escorts usually fall short of the mark somehow.

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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #11 on: 25 May 2010, 11:53:02 am »
I would only ever pay if it was like that guy in Secret Diary? haha but apparently that doesn't exist!

Probably not on Adultwork but have you seen sites like this? I mean, he's in the US and you'd have to get past that whole "Armand is writing in the third person about his own beguiling sexual qualities" thing - but he says he's a male model and if those really are his pics, I might believe him. I'm sure I've seen the UK equivalent somewhere or other so if you just hit Google and do some searching, you'll probably find more, too. I think you could probably use some of the same tactics sensible male clients use to look for a reliable and appealing female escort: strike out any that can't spell or who use incorrect grammar; maybe avoid any who have really low rates and lots of phone camera pics of their genitals; be as picky as you like about physical characteristics and consider calling to confirm services etc.

Obviously, any male escort might still be a total berk in real life but I'd hope that a one who takes his job seriously is as good as any successful female escort has to be at transforming himself, inside and out, into the living-breathing fantasy of his client.

...Now, if only that Armand also had a degree in nuclear physics I'd probably be sending him two grand and a plane ticket right now. ;D
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Re: I'm curious about getting a male escort! haha
« Reply #12 on: 25 May 2010, 10:41:35 pm »
Probably not on Adultwork but have you seen sites like this?

I dont know, maybe there are women out there willing to pay...but remember also, there are companies out there who create escort websites by solicting them and taking their money. I just had a call today from some telemarketing company who seen my ad on backpage.com, touting they would expand my client base. Long story short, it was basically a company charging $450 a month and $150 upfront to create a very professional website. here is the link.

As far as me ever getting a male escort, I'd have to agree with Krystal Champagne. Most people who hire us are more often then not married, already with a loving partner and have disposable income. It would not help me feel any better about my lack of dating life by paying for it. And I would hope that someone hiring me wouldn't see that as a solution either.

But my thing is, if money is good and you don't want to get attached to one guy, sure...pay for it. Me on the other hand, I dont have the money and I want a boyfriend  :'(