Just wanted to know if I should question this a bit more than I did- spoke to a nice sounding elderly man yesterday, good rapport on the phone, agreed to meet in a couple of weeks. Then, right at the end

Him: "do you, er, like to be restrained or anything?"

Me: "No, sorry, not if I don't know you"

Him: "Oh good, that is exactly what I was hoping you'd say".

Ay?! It was just that last line. How would you interpret this?! I took it as "oh good, I like vanilla ladies" initially but then I am obviously still thinking about it, and now wondering if it was some sort of veiled clue that he likes women to put up a fight when he restrains them?! Now I've written it down, might knock this one on the head actually, instincts and all that......

agreed to meet in a couple of weeks. Then, right at the end

If he didnt give an approximate date, I'd be wary. time will tell. Sometimes timewasters have slick ways of asking things. Usually in the end when they've already chatted you up. For example earlier this week someone calls me from Minne-f-ing sota (nation's largest mall's there ya know) asking if I spoke Porteguese cause he wanted to take someone down to Brazil. Then when I said "no", he says, oh I no you didnt but you look spanish. WTF!

Hi I'm new to the forums...
I can't see why anyone would ask this question unless they were keen to try it out...
Please don't meet this man, as I think you already know on gut instincts!
as Liverpool jenny says callers or emailers always seem to drop in something they want right at the end of a call or after a conversation, not sure why maybe they already know you don't provide what they want but think after talking to them and them perhaps softening you up, you might agree.