Author Topic: How would you handle a client where the condom accidentally broke? (Read 3068 times)

jellib33 · « **on:** 22 November 2019, 09:50:52 pm »

Hello,

I am wondering how you would handle a client where the condom accidentally broke? I have the thin condoms and it was my mistake by allowing him to grab them in the table where I keep them. I've thrown them out since i no longer think that they are safe. The condom didn't break inside me, only when he was trying to shove it in and of course I was as dry as sandpaper. He also smokes weed he is a functioning stoner, and he is nice just not the brightest person which makes it even more scary because he is not fully present.

The way he fucks is really hard, do you guys get any clients like that? I just hate it because I get so scared that the condom might break. Do you have any advice?

saltysweet · « **Reply #1 on:** 22 November 2019, 10:16:35 pm »

Sorry this happened to you, hope you get tested and are ok J.

They're not allowed to touch the condom at all.
I put the condom on clients and lube it while he's got it on. They're not allowed to touch the condom at all.
Then I keep my hand touching the cock every couple seconds while it's in action.
I stop if I think it might shift and adjust it or use a fresh one.
I stop him whenever I like if it needs lube to prevent breaking.
Then I remove it, whatever my position, so I can examine quickly it and see it's all in tact and no seepage.

If they keep wanking with the condom on I will stop, remove it and put a fresh one on just for peace of mind...or
I tell them to stop touching it.

Yes I get some hard fucking clients on a good day. I like the pleasure-pain thing. Not had any breaks with them with above method.

denise96 · « **Reply #2 on:** 22 November 2019, 10:20:43 pm »

I do exactly like salty x
I will never see someone who is smoking weed as theyr will last forever and fuck really hard. So that is a big no no for me.. i have been asking clients before because i thought they are on drugs and i really don't like that

jellib33 · « **Reply #3 on:** 22 November 2019, 11:01:58 pm »

Ok yeah.. Would you see this client again?

saltysweet · « **Reply #4 on:** 23 November 2019, 02:01:20 am »

Oh sorry I misunderstood. I thought you meant about how to manage condoms.

No I don't have any advice, it's personal choice.
As for drug users or dealers never had a problem with them and some of my nicest, most reliable clients.

GG · « **Reply #5 on:** 23 November 2019, 10:27:50 am »

Quote from: denise96 on 22 November 2019, 10:20:43 pm

I do exactly like salty x
I will never see someone who is smoking weed as theyr will last forever and fuck really hard. So that is a big no no for me.. i have been asking clients before because i thought they are on drugs and i really don't like that

I find the same with clients who are on any type of pain meds, it takes them forever to cum x

EvelynWho · « **Reply #6 on:** 23 November 2019, 10:38:47 am »

I also try never to let them touch the condom. If they’re larger I’ll apply some lube to avoid friction breakage.
I certainly don’t let them pull on it til it’s straining at the head end and it splits “accidentally”. In my beginning days : oh my gosh the number of times people’s tried that “trick”... and then it’s “I guess that my condom allowance shall we just do it without, or with it like this ?(broken)” ..... hmm no pal, no. I have plenty of others thanks.

Depending on their vibe I’ll refuse doggy style positions also. And at any point I question how the condom is doing I’ll wiggle a hand down there to check, even if it means stopping them to check.
Same as Salty, really. Best to be careful, and constantly checking rather than risk the potential consequences of a broken condom. :/:/:/

Mirror · « **Reply #7 on:** 23 November 2019, 12:15:36 pm »

Quote from: EveWithEve on 23 November 2019, 10:38:47 am

I also try never to let them touch the condom. If they’re larger I’ll apply some lube to avoid friction breakage.
I certainly don’t let them pull on it til it’s straining at the head end and it splits “accidentally”. In my beginning days : oh my gosh the number of times people’s tried that “trick”... and then it’s “I guess that my condom allowance shall we just do it without, or with it like this ?(broken)” ..... hmm no pal, no. I have plenty of others thanks.

Depending on their vibe I’ll refuse doggy style positions also. And at any point I question how the condom is doing I’ll wiggle a hand down there to check, even if it means stopping them to check.
Same as Salty, really. Best to be careful, and constantly checking rather than risk the potential consequences of a broken condom. :/:/:/

Oh yes the pulling condom tight over the head, this can also happen if he pulls out and re-enters on every stroke. Almost always associated with condom splits as well as not enough lube. I'm pretty hot on this as a result not had any condom splits for years, prior to joining the clues I would get one once every 12 months, sometimes two in one year. All were bouncing in and out, pulling the condom tight and I was not lubricated enough. All things I can do something about, a split puts me, and him at risk not to mention the upset.

jellib33 · « **Reply #8 on:** 23 November 2019, 06:10:43 pm »

Thank you saltysweet I am terrible at explaining myself and I end up rambling lol my apologies!!

I ended up blocking him. He just ended up being kind of strange :| like, he wanted to book me continuously, which is good I mean he is a paying client but at the same time with the weed smoking and the condom breaking, slamming it in ah just ended up being a bit too much. I always find it strange when someone who sees you wants to keep booking. Like, non-stop, like, they're growing some weird obsession. I know, that can happen, and it's like they fall in love with some sort of fantasy but I don't know, I just think like, no one is really that special there must be something you're trying to eventually get me to do and it ain't happening! I've been paranoid as of lately, like, when you forget, and be nice, that's when the strange things start to happen. :|

Thanks so much for the advice, I don't know, why I ever forget, I always need to check the condom. It's like, they don't like it when I am freaking out about the condom, but, they have to deal with it! The amount of men that want bareback is soooo disgusting! I was looking at this website for some asian ladies and they offer bareback so I am just guessing but they probably think that if they can do it there that they can do it everywhere else! So gross, and I feel terrible for those ladies and hope that they are just doing it under their own choices!!

saltysweet · « **Reply #9 on:** 23 November 2019, 06:55:29 pm »

All good J. I only do this because when I didn't pay attention I had a couple condoms rumple up inside or spill when being pulled off. Also had a bad batch which split at the lightest touch for no reason, with the dick poking through

and condom all raggeddy like a frilly tu-tu, it's a pain going off to clinic just for that

MARIPOSA 76 · « **Reply #10 on:** 30 November 2019, 07:45:20 am »

It is very difficult to treat these difficult clients who are crazy
and when I am afraid that the condom breaks, I simply control, and put a little lubricant,

I have different condom markings for different penises .There are strong and good condoms in the market that are for heavy men and also if I don't feel safe I change the condom for to be calmer when I have sex.
There are heavy types who do not know how to do sex and moving their penis badly there is a possibility that the condom is broken .... ///

Own those men prefer not to receive them again or i wanted to receive them only if I have a need for money, I usually add them to my blacklist .

China_Grl · « **Reply #11 on:** 02 December 2019, 02:26:17 am »

Quote from: jellib33 on 22 November 2019, 09:50:52 pm

Hello,

I am wondering how you would handle a client where the condom accidentally broke? I have the thin condoms and it was my mistake by allowing him to grab them in the table where I keep them. I've thrown them out since i no longer think that they are safe. The condom didn't break inside me, only when he was trying to shove it in and of course I was as dry as sandpaper. He also smokes weed he is a functioning stoner, and he is nice just not the brightest person which makes it even more scary because he is not fully present.

The way he fucks is really hard, do you guys get any clients like that? I just hate it because I get so scared that the condom might break. Do you have any advice?

Condom breakage is a occupational hazard and one that's sadly going to happen occasionally.

Alternative birth control will protect you against pregnancy and frequent sti checks for catching any unwanted bugs.

saltysweet · « **Reply #12 on:** 02 December 2019, 04:41:40 pm »

The ho clinic gave me a spare morning after pill just in case. Having one handy in the future could be immediate backup whilst you arrange STD tests.

Curvymamma · « **Reply #13 on:** 26 December 2019, 01:51:08 pm »

Can I just ask you....if you have a condom break do you go for PEP treatment (and then STI testing a couple of weeks later). Also would you work in that 2 weeks till you got results? Not had if happen to me, but I'm sure it will at some point.

GG · « **Reply #14 on:** 26 December 2019, 02:32:59 pm »

Quote from: Curvymamma on 26 December 2019, 01:51:08 pm

Can I just ask you....if you have a condom break do you go for PEP treatment (and then STI testing a couple of weeks later). Also would you work in that 2 weeks till you got results? Not had if happen to me, but I'm sure it will at some point.

I would definitely get pep and ask them for advice about working. Ive just been having this discussion with a lady in our whats app group. The guy told her that even though he had spent a lot of time in kenya in the army. He can not have HIV or he would be sacked from the army so she didnt go and get PEP. Why do guys do this sh!t and fcuking lie about something so serious

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