Author Topic: Do you offer fetishes? (Read 1273 times)

jellib33 · « **on:** 14 December 2019, 12:53:07 am »

Hello,

I was wondering if anyone offers fetishes and rates for these services. It seems I am gravitating to being a more vanilla companion. I offer anal for a higher rate but I'm getting tired of catering to a couple of clients that want fetishes such as peeing, strap on and I just recently blocked a client who would see me every now and again with his scat fetish of me taking a shit right on him haha (it's fucking disgusting, but if he was willing to give me my rate I guess at the time I had no problem with it). Do you offer fetishes? Also, the client who likes me peeing on him is messaging me and he sent me a deposit like almost a month ago but he is so flakey and when he asks if I'm available for a certain week or day he then never messages me. It's really annoying, but once he sent the full amount for an appointment and had to cancel because he had to go to the hospital and let me keep the full amount.

He's really, really annoying, and I feel like he messages me way too much for our sessions and so I do not want to give the deposit back. How would you handle this and with clients who want these services?

CelesteManchester · « **Reply #1 on:** 14 December 2019, 01:12:16 am »

I offer an Oedipal role play which as I mentioned in another thread, I really hate doing, but it's a $$ maker. Ugh tho.
I don't do pee/poo play bc I'm personally not comfortable with it, on me or to the client. You gotta know your limits is all I can to that.

Excessive texting: you must put a stop to this bc it will never end otherwise. You are a busy woman, out & about all day, with a life outside of this, perhaps another job, lunching, shopping, volunteering, working with Drs Without Borders....you get my point. You don't have time to entertain him, or if you do, he must pay for that sexting privilege. Even if there's no sexting going on.

"I'm happy to set aside a specific day/time to chat with you during the week/month, Carl, my sexting rates are as follows: XYZ amount for ABC minutes/hours/Skype/whatever. How would you like to pay for that? No, it's a separate donation from actual visits & cant be paid for THEN, sorry (I try to think of everything, heh heh). Why yes, I DID just start offering this! How clever of you to notice! You know... confidentially Carl? Just between us? I was getting so many requests for this I just HAD to add it to my repertoire!!!"

See how damn fast he shuts up. Mmmhuh.

Edited to add: I knew I'd forget something. Unfortunately you can't NOT give him back his deposit simply bc he's irritating. It'd be nice, but you gotta give it back. Now you could always keep it & figure out how much sexting it'd take as an equivalent, but I don't think I'd want to do that🤷🏼‍♀️. It's a thought tho.

saltysweet · « **Reply #2 on:** 14 December 2019, 02:05:19 am »

Quote from: jellib33 on 14 December 2019, 12:53:07 am

Hello,

I was wondering if anyone offers fetishes and rates for these services. It seems I am gravitating to being a more vanilla companion. I offer anal for a higher rate but I'm getting tired of catering to a couple of clients that want fetishes such as peeing, strap on and I just recently blocked a client who would see me every now and again with his scat fetish of me taking a shit right on him haha (it's fucking disgusting, but if he was willing to give me my rate I guess at the time I had no problem with it). Do you offer fetishes? Also, the client who likes me peeing on him is messaging me and he sent me a deposit like almost a month ago but he is so flakey and when he asks if I'm available for a certain week or day he then never messages me. It's really annoying, but once he sent the full amount for an appointment and had to cancel because he had to go to the hospital and let me keep the full amount.

He's really, really annoying, and I feel like he messages me way too much for our sessions and so I do not want to give the deposit back. How would you handle this and with clients who want these services?

I'm not quite clear about the nature of this deposit, did you both originally agree a day?
Or was the day never set?

I'd expect a deposit to be for a booking at a specific day and time.
If tell them if they cancel, 'deposits are not refundable'.

If it's an 'open ticket' for 'sometime in the future' and neither of you originally agreed a day then that could be confusing and you may benefit from firming up your T&C. But maybe you operate more informally than that....each to their own.

No I wouldn't keep his money, as you choose to respond to his texts. Keeping it could backfire on you.

I'm not sure how the deposits issue relates to fetish or BDSM services. It applies to all services surely?

Mirror · « **Reply #3 on:** 14 December 2019, 09:06:05 am »

Some punters do offer to pay a deposit for a future booking, I don't like holding deposits without all bookings details. This is one reason I don't give bank details until a time, date, location, duration agreed. If I do accept a not-yet-booked deposit the client has to book within a certain time period after which the deposit is forfeit.

Regards fetishes I won't offer anything involving faeces, and anything else has to be agreed in advance. My advertising is remarkedly unfetish like, with mention of what I will and won't do including specifying whether I give or receive. Anyone who wants a fetish has to sound like they've thought about it, and are prepared.

jellib33 · « **Reply #4 on:** 21 December 2019, 06:47:16 am »

Quote from: saltysweet on 14 December 2019, 02:05:19 am

I'm not quite clear about the nature of this deposit, did you both originally agree a day?
Or was the day never set?

I'd expect a deposit to be for a booking at a specific day and time.
If tell them if they cancel, 'deposits are not refundable'.

If it's an 'open ticket' for 'sometime in the future' and neither of you originally agreed a day then that could be confusing and you may benefit from firming up your T&C. But maybe you operate more informally than that....each to their own.

No I wouldn't keep his money, as you choose to respond to his texts. Keeping it could backfire on you.

I'm not sure how the deposits issue relates to fetish or BDSM services. It applies to all services surely?

Thanks a lot.

I did end up changing some of my rules. True, this is not only for BDSM!!

Harriet_Lille · « **Reply #5 on:** 28 December 2019, 03:35:04 pm »

I do watersports and roleplays, sometimes I offer taboo roleplays as well.

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