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Clarabella

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Pegging / Strap On services
« on: 06 January 2014, 10:38:10 am »
Hello everyone,

I've decided to explore out of my comfort zone and try using a strap-on on a client for the first time.  He has specifically requested it and I've gathered the courage to try it out.  This is my first time and I'm a little apprehensive.  I've instructed him to douche thoroughly before our appointment.  I think that the 'mess' is my first concern.  Really grosses me out and I don't want to him to feel embarrassed in anyway. 

Any tips, pointers or heads-up would be received very gratefully lol.  Technique (for my own backs sake) worst case scenario (mess  :-[), safety (I don't want to injure him)

Many thanks!  C xx

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« Reply #1 on: 06 January 2014, 12:10:55 pm »
Make sure you have lots of lube ( silicone best). Best to maybe use a condom over your finger or two, to properly lube him (fingering him). Lube strap on, and insert it slowly, bit by bit, watching his reactions and ask him if he is okay. Make sure he has given himself sometime after douching, just in case water is trapped can cause a mess, 15 min to 30 min should be enough.

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« Reply #2 on: 07 January 2014, 08:32:12 am »
With regards to the potential mess, I put a condom on the strap on and wear disposable gloves. When you're done (or to swap a condom half way through) take hold of the base of the condom with one hand turning it inside out as you remove it and then hold on to it with that hand. With your other hand take hold of the wrist part of the glove you used to remove the condom and turn that inside out as you take it off so that the condom is inside out inside an inside out glove. Then hold that in your gloved hand and do the same with that so everything is in there. If you practise you can do it in a matter of seconds avoiding any embarrassment for him and preventing contamination. Just be extra careful when removing the condom though to lift and stretch it while turning it inside out, as it is more than possible to propel poo across the room, or in the case of wetter poo have it land on your knee/shoe/foot lol. Have a practise first with lube on. Put an old towel on the bed too.

When it comes to safety etc, plenty of good quality lube and slowly does it is a good motto. Take your time to open him up with your fingers. Have a pile of gloves next to you in case you want to take one off to move attentions to other areas, or in case of poo, then you're not ruining the moment getting icky (just turn the affected glove inside out using the other one as before) or getting up for more gloves. If you're really worried, just keep in mind how it would feel if it were being done to you.

Technique is tricky as height of both of you are factors. When moving from fingers to strap on I usually end up with them on their knees on the bed with head down. On their back with legs in the air is often a fantasy but very awkward for you in reality unless he's small and slim (holding their legs up is just one of the problems).

Hope you enjoy, it is possible to get through unscathed and even relax into having fun with it (most of the time lol)!

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« Reply #3 on: 07 January 2014, 09:22:00 am »
Great tips guys thanks so much! 

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« Reply #4 on: 26 July 2021, 02:59:12 pm »

Do any ladies use strap ons with clients ?
I got a medium vibrating model off love honey just recently but I couldnt find a smaller size for clients who  dont want it so big.
I would use a condom and lots of lube on any size do you find that is the best way too?
Could anyone recommend a smallstrap on model please





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Re: Pegging / Strap On services
« Reply #5 on: 26 July 2021, 03:43:19 pm »
Do any ladies use strap ons with clients ?
I got a medium vibrating model off love honey just recently but I couldnt find a smaller size for clients who  dont want it so big.
I would use a condom and lots of lube on any size do you find that is the best way too?
Could anyone recommend a smallstrap on model please

Lovehoney do a fabulous starter kit, comes with different size rings and small pegger.

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« Reply #6 on: 26 July 2021, 04:59:33 pm »
I have the starter kit from lovehoney - I find it’s a popular request.
I always use a condom with it and plenty of lube. And gloves for myself. And plenty of baby wipes ready for when it’s time to pull it out. It’s the only service I charge extra for because of the amount of mess that can be left behind…

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« Reply #7 on: 26 July 2021, 05:52:35 pm »
I also use the Love honey beginner set, and you can also use it with bigger dildos as long as they have a suction cup base.

I always start with rimming and prostate massage to "warm them up" and I always start with the smallest dildo first, then try a larger one if they request.

What you need to consider is that a dildo gives you no physical feedback - so if you're accidentally hurting them, you're not going to feel physical resistance in the same way that you would using your finger. So it's really important to keep checking they're okay, and I always explain this and say they MUST tell me if it becomes uncomfortable. An anus is a lot less resilient than a vagina and it's easy to accidentally cause someone a lot of pain.

Always use a condom on the dildo, and obviously wash them (sterilise them if possible) between clients. Regarding lube, you might want to buy one that's specifically for anal - it's more of a vaseline type consistency and lasts much longer.

There can be a bit of poo from time to time, usually when withdrawing. I have learned to simultaneously roll the condom up the dildo whilst pulling out, which takes care of most stuff (a skill my careers officer at school never made me aware of!) But basically - with any anal stuff, a bit of poo now and then is the price of admission, so if you feel completely grossed out by it, this may not be the service you want to offer!
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

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« Reply #8 on: 26 July 2021, 10:51:30 pm »
Thankyou ladies very helpful as always  :)

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« Reply #9 on: 17 September 2021, 02:17:58 pm »
Hi

I bought a strap on from Wish which you can use different size rubber dicks on.  Strap on has a hard plastic spike which you attach rubber dick to.  I have four different sizes so client can choose what size he wants.  Small and thick to long and slim.  Detachable straps are good for choice as not every man was a huge dick up their arse. 

Hope this is helpful

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« Reply #10 on: 19 September 2021, 01:48:30 pm »
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« Reply #11 on: 19 September 2021, 02:44:14 pm »
Yes, I've just bought one of these.  ;D

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« Reply #12 on: 19 September 2021, 07:06:34 pm »
Hi

I bought a strap on from Wish which you can use different size rubber dicks on.  Strap on has a hard plastic spike which you attach rubber dick to.  I have four different sizes so client can choose what size he wants.  Small and thick to long and slim.  Detachable straps are good for choice as not every man was a huge dick up their arse. 

Hope this is helpful
Yes thankyou .😊

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« Reply #13 on: 23 March 2023, 08:47:23 am »
I have a nice client who wants to try this, it something I have never done, any advice please?

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Re: Pegging / Strap On services
« Reply #14 on: 27 July 2023, 12:44:29 pm »
Hiya, I'm new here but have enjoyed sugar/escort meets for a few years.
I've noticed alot of guys seem to be very keen on being pegged without being dommed?
Sensual pegging/strap on play e.g massaged, rimmed sucked with penetration, I really enjoy it, the guys say they are st8 etc.
Have other girls noticed an increase in being pegged too? I have about 5 years experience part time escorting?