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Milf-G

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How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« on: 21 November 2021, 07:51:29 pm »
Perhaps I'm too polite but I've seen this one guy twice and I really just don't like him. Nothing specifically nasty about him but he's hard work 'kiss me, suck my c0ck, do this, do that, kiss me'. I just don't like being ordered around I like my gfe to flow naturally, and he takes ages to cum so sometimes my mouth/jaw is aching loads.  He's a lot older than me, I just prefer either young acting 60+ year olds or guys my sort of age. I keep putting him off but he keeps booking in advance and there is only so many times I can tell him I'm fully booked days in advance when I'm likely to put my green light on. I've had other guys that I've not enjoyed after the 1st or  2nd visit just for various reasons but they've generally given me a reason to block them by ordering me to give them an appt. This guy has not been rude, I just feel used afterwards. He's also a 59 minutes and 59 seconds guy, which I hate.
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Miffy

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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #1 on: 21 November 2021, 07:58:35 pm »
Just tell him you have no availability/aren't taking advance bookings. You don't owe him any further detail or explanation.

If he gets in touch when you're displaying your green light, just ignore him. Even better, just block him.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #2 on: 21 November 2021, 10:16:23 pm »
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« Last Edit: 22 November 2021, 01:28:34 am by saltysweet »
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #3 on: 21 November 2021, 10:48:53 pm »
I'm in the same situation although my client I've seen twice is just bloody pushy.
I think I should take the same advice and just block him. He's so boundary pushing on one hand but nice in the other.
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Milf-G

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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #4 on: 22 November 2021, 12:51:22 am »
Quote from: KBP on 21 November 2021, 10:48:53 pm
I'm in the same situation although my client I've seen twice is just bloody pushy.
I think I should take the same advice and just block him. He's so boundary pushing on one hand but nice in the other.

In my limited, 51 week experience, they'll just keep pushing. Hate boundary pushers, so disrespectful. Think I'll just keep putting mine off for a few weeks and eventually hopefully he'll get the message. If not, I'll block.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #5 on: 22 November 2021, 06:50:31 am »
I would just tell him I'm not comfortable, I can't offer the style of service he requires.

This has happened, did let it go on a while with subtle hints and gentle suggestions totally ridden over. I would nip it in the bud sooner. Interestingly the person I'm thinking of turned it into his choice ie yes I don't think I want to book you again, but it stopped him booking so was absolutely fine (more than fine).
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #6 on: 22 November 2021, 09:03:11 am »
In this circumstance just block that's it. There is always another guy happy to see you.

I would also recommend speaking up when you feel ordered unless it was in the moment and it was mutually enjoyable. I do this with some clients but its more a naughty PSE senario and I get on with them after the booking and I am not having the piss taken out of me.

Sounds like this guy just wants to squeeze you dry for your labor and time and cares very very little for your comfort and knows he can get away with it so he keeps returning so he can just do one IMO.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #7 on: 22 November 2021, 01:46:29 pm »
I would just block him, his phone number and his ability to book you online, no explanation needed.
He is wanting a style of service that you are not happy to provide and he doesn't sound like the kind of guy to take notice if you tell him this so I'd say it's pointless putting yourself through another horrible booking and trying to change how he does things.
Also the 59 mins and 59 sec types pee me off no end too, just sounds like a pushy, entitled, not nice man.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #8 on: 22 November 2021, 03:19:27 pm »
I'm quite picky who I see so I just tell them I don't think we're compatible and won't be taking anymore bookings with you.
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Lady Frog

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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #9 on: 22 November 2021, 03:22:04 pm »
I know my approach may be different to others. But personally I never tell clients that I don't want to see them any more. I feel like if you are working but tell them you don't want to see them in particular, it kind of needs a reason why... and if you give them a reason many will see that as an opportunity to debate and try and convince you that your brain is misfiring and they are a client who you want to see. A certain minority will react really badly and get aggressive as well.

If I don't want to see someone again they get pure radio silence from me.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #10 on: 22 November 2021, 03:50:06 pm »
Quote from: Lady Frog on 22 November 2021, 03:22:04 pm
I know my approach may be different to others. But personally I never tell clients that I don't want to see them any more. I feel like if you are working but tell them you don't want to see them in particular, it kind of needs a reason why... and if you give them a reason many will see that as an opportunity to debate and try and convince you that your brain is misfiring and they are a client who you want to see. A certain minority will react really badly and get aggressive as well.

If I don't want to see someone again they get pure radio silence from me.

Yes, that's an excellent idea. If you completely ignore somebody there is nowhere they can go from there.
Do you block them or just ignore all comms?
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Lady Frog

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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #11 on: 22 November 2021, 04:19:54 pm »
Most of the time I ignore rather than block actually. My work phone is almost always on silent as I ask clients to get in touch by email or text, and then I will make an appointment to speak on the phone prior to meeting. So a few nuisance calls don't bother me and after a few tries or a few days they give up.

I prefer to ignore rather than block, because sometimes I will ignore calls from a certain person, and then immediately get calls from private number or another mobile number, which tells me there's a 90% chance of it being the same person, especially when my phone has not rang all day until then. It makes me less paranoid about rejected clients using others numbers to sneak round and book me. This did happen to me once actually, but I blocked him for being unreliable rather that being unpleasant, so I went ahead with the booking anyway and it was fine. But if I hadn't have blocked him I don't think he would have managed to secure the second booking.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #12 on: 22 November 2021, 06:16:21 pm »
You don’t have to say anything...you block. I know exactly what kind of client you’re talking about and I just block them.

If he doesn’t get the message that he’s no longer welcome (like a normal person would) and he tries on a different number, you don’t let him in if he arrives at your door and make it clear that he should not contact you again!
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #13 on: 22 November 2021, 06:54:57 pm »
Yeah on principle I would not see people that sneak round to get a booking. But in my case I didn't recognize him and he mentioned it himself after a few minutes... if someone did that again I wouldn't do the booking because it is weird.
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Re: How to tell a returned you don't like seeing him
« Reply #14 on: 22 November 2021, 07:07:06 pm »
Quote from: Lady Frog on 22 November 2021, 06:54:57 pm
Yeah on principle I would not see people that sneak round to get a booking. But in my case I didn't recognize him and he mentioned it himself after a few minutes... if someone did that again I wouldn't do the booking because it is weird.

I've had guys I've said no to create multiple accounts on AW and the AKA has not always picked this up. I had a client yesterday who I think was the non-discrete big guy stood on the corner of my road looking like a drug dealer that I posted about last week. Now, he was incredibly polite and followed instructions but I noticed him putting 2 phones down and then when I checked the calls yesterday's guy had called me 10 minutes after I sent mr drug deal away. I'm pleased he was nice though.
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