Absolutely agree with the other ladies here.

From personal experience, in the past, all the cases of burnout I've experienced have been thanks to being emotionally drained from clients who irked me in some way or another.

I've since decided to start caring less, and just seeing who I want to, so I don't lose my sanity. End of the day we don't owe them anything once the booking is over, and the ones that become a pain in the ass are normally the ones you can't explain anything to because frustratingly, they're too ignorant / narrow minded / dillusional to speak to civilly anyway 

I forgot to block him on WhatsApp and now he’s moved on to there. He’s probably going to make an AW account just to speak to me next  too attached and also made a comment saying I remind him of an ex girlfriend 

If he does create an Aw account to book you at first won't know his user name until he either puts it on contact details via a booking request or through his email to you.
Just keep a look out. Hope he dosnt though 

Personally, I don't feel it's very nice to block outright straight away. I would say something like, 'I'm sorry, but I'm no longer enjoying our bookings and suggest you look for another SP.' If he starts whining, then block.

I don't know how to best convey into words to someone that I didn't want to see them anymore..
It's easier for me  to just block or ignore.

Why is it so difficult to email or text them with (as I do) "sorry I can not meet you again" ?  It is not rude but is clear in what you mean. Then you can choose to block or ignore if they persist in trying.

I think quite a few providers are frightened and rightly so because some punters/clients do not take a 'no thank you' very pleasantly.

However I think it's only fair and also stops most from continuing to try make contact........it's only a few who will turn nasty. A few more will ask for an explanation, some will ask for a second chance - polite no thank you usually means they can move on.

The ones who get nasty need a reminder that harassment is an offence that the police would be happy to discuss with them, however not every sex workers is either in a situation where they can, or wish to deal with the police.

So it's not as easy as it seems, however as I say being clear just stops the keep trying behaviour. Also stops the guessing games for those who just can't reply, I've had a few regulars wonder if my busy non-response has been because I'm trying to tell them I don't want to see them. I now always make it clear with new clients that if I ever don't want to see them I will tell them explicitly.

There is little things that annoy me. He pushes boundaries, asks for services I don’t offer. I tell him no and he just laughs it off. He doesn’t actually act on it which is why I put up with it. I don’t need to explain myself to him, so I’m just going to block and ignore.

Thanks for the advice everyone. X

I think I would just be polite but blunt with him and tell him that you have become increasingly fed up with his boundary pushing and asking for services you don't offer and you have decided you no longer wish to see him and then just block from everywhere.

He messaged on another number today, saying hi I’m trying to make a booking I think you accidentally blocked me this is my number ******.  accidently?!  I’ve spoken to another regular to get his opinion and said he wouldn’t keep texting me if I’d ignored him. I think I am going to message him back saying I do not want to see him because this behaviour is definitely not right! X

One of the girls said in a similar thread recently, any reply is encouragement.
I'd hate to be the regular you confided in though!

Ugh I had a client like this . He used to even try take over other clients bookings by offering me more money and he would just IRRITATE me so much where I could myself snapping at him. And I just realised I don’t want to get a rep for being a bitch and don’t want to give a bad service. So I just blocked and ignored - he must get the message too. We get paid well but honestly it’s not enough to put yourself through the mental torture !!!