I second Fab in trying non-latex. I was tortured with soreness, redness, recurring thrush, I had so many days off work. Now that I use non-latex (I too am a Skyns fan! Great fits, all non-latex, the packets are even easy to grip to open compared to durex et al) I have absolutely no problems. And lube lube lube.
Oh and I always say "Now, we'll have to start very slow and gentle then we can go hard after" because I would just split myself in two if I didn't start super slow.
I typically do OWO, and only considered a latex allergy when I realised my mouth was itchy after the odd OW client.