Oh great stuff ------------ that's just what she wants to hear I'm sure.................. Poor girl comes on here for advice and has to read that?
Sorry but I think you're being unreasonably harsh by saying that. She's found herself in a predicament and purely because she is in love with her bf then it is bound to be causing her distress. After all, at the end of the day we're as bloody human as everyone else and we also have feelings/emotions that we cannot just switch off like that. Give the girl some advice please but don't patronise her or berate her for feeling the way she does and as for deceiving her bf.............. we work in a world of deceit where we actually condone it so who are we to comment?
J
I'm not berating her. Maybe you would think I'm supporting her if I tell her its OK to live a lie and deceive her BF?
In this business you have 3 choices you can either...
A. Be single and escort with a clear conscience.
B. Lie to a partner and live with the stress and consequences of being found out.
C. Tell your BF what you are planning to do and let them have the choice of if they want to be in a relationship with you.
I'm never going to advise an escort to lie and/or cheat on a partner but that's me.
There is no magic answer to this problem, the OP has to search her own conscience for the answer and make her own decision.
I'm sure if she thinks I'm berating her she can speak for herself.