Hiding it, WILL hurt him because eventually he WILL find out, all lies are ultimately caught. Whether it's sooner or later.

Again, no, this is not the case. Perhaps we would like to believe that if our partners lied to us we would find out in the end but this is just not reality.
Most married punters get away with seeing sex workers. Their partners don't usually find out.
The OP absolutely choose to go down this road. Bear in mind she is asking for advice on how not to get caught out, not advice on whether or not to continue with the job and her relationship.

IMO the if the OP is freaking out at the mere thought of a booking she isn't the type to brass neck as she wouldn't be panicking like this and asking for advice she would just get on with it like many other escorts do plus I don't think its a good basis for a relationship if she is deceiving her BF.

Oh great stuff ------------ that's just what she wants to hear I'm sure..................    Poor girl comes on here for advice and has to read that?

Sorry but I think you're being unreasonably harsh by saying that.  She's found herself in a predicament and purely because she is in love with her bf then it is bound to be causing her distress.  After all, at the end of the day we're as bloody human as everyone else and we also have feelings/emotions that we cannot just switch off like that.  Give the girl some advice please but don't patronise her or berate her for feeling the way she does and as for deceiving her bf.............. we work in a world of deceit where we actually condone it so who are we to comment? 

J

I hid it from my ex-boyfriend of 7 years for 4 years while I was at university and practically living with him, he was a serial cheat who needed a taste of his own medicine and I thought sod it I'll get paid for it while I'm at it.

The stupid arrogant twat never even suspected me of sleeping with other men for money and I hid my work bag whenever he came over including my whorephone and condoms etc. I got such a thrill from going to bookings and then waiting for him to come over knowing he had been screwing around behind my back and I'd just been paid to do the same thing.

However he did eventually find out ironically once we had split and I was with my now husband, he outed me and tried to make my life a misery but unfortunately for him my family accept my career choice and have been nothing but supportive since. So yes you probably will be found out eventually (took me 7 years for the shit to hit the fan) you have to decide if it's worth it, being in love with your boyfriend will obviously skew your view on this, thankfully I never had this problem.

I should add that my husband has known from day one what I do and is 100% supportive as well, if he wasn't he never would have become my husband in the first place. We all have a right to do what we want with our own bodies but unfortunately our spouses also have an equal right to not be happy about what we choose to do, you have to decide whether the money is worth losing your boyfriend.