In my experience less men accept escorting. I hid escorting by doing while he was working then before he phoned me it was a challenge. But what helped me was remaining calm throughout. Now I start a job tomorrow so he need to never know. He dont live with me. But couldn't get away with escorting if was living together. That would make me paranoid. It's a big risk for you but be prepared if he finds out will you be happy to lose him. It depends on what risk you want to take.

I have just started a relationship and he doesn't know but at the moment he doesn't work. I, however, have my own house and bills to pay. I can't live on fresh air or handle the stress of a civvy job, so needs must when the devil drives, or so they say.

Besides, this job isn't 'cheating'. I would NEVER in a zillion years entertain any of my clients for free.

I disagree, it is cheating as having sex with someone else whether it's work or having sex with a civvie behind your partners back. Same as I would consider a boyfriend cheating on me if he had sex with a hooker behind my back.

I did it myself and made excuses to justify myself. 

Anyway, a bit of practical advice how not to get caught.

If you tour for a couple of weeks in different cities you can explain that away by saying you work off shore. PM me for all the cover stories you need for that. It's a job where nobody can contact you by normal phone though. Just watzap. But it's the best I can think off for explaining you have a lot of money. Say you are ad hoc and go as required so you don't have to do set patterns.

If your partner goes down on you he may be able to smell condoms. Use non latex. They leave no smell.

The thing is he will find out at some point and by that time both of you will be very much invested in your relationship. 

Firstly you need to decide what is more important a relationship or your financial stability.  If your partner is not supporting you financially then you then you either...

Tell him and leave it up to him to make up his own mind whether you he wants to stay or go.

You can ask him whether you providing webcamming would be acceptable to him until you find employment.

Or end your relationship and go back into full time escorting without the added stress and worry which will ultimately only make you sick.

Good luck xx

Not necessarily. There are plenty of sex workers who keep their work secret and never get found out, just as most affairs go undiscovered. The OP could be one of those. That said, it is a gamble.

If you want to do both, you're going to need nerves of steel, otherwise you'll be in a real mess, mentally.

If she does that and she remains in the relationship then she is not only cheating on him willingly but also putting his sexual health at risk as well all know it is so easy to pick something up these days and if he ever does find out is she prepared for the repercussions?

I had a boyfriend and i was working as an escort at the same time . I have to admite that it was the most difficult time in my life . Firstly , I was paranoid that he may find out true . I told him that I am only doing BDSM and fetish stuff . I had to hide the fact that I sleep with my clients. I was so worring that he can find any details on uk punting or any other website about my appointments. I could not leave my phone away even for 5 minutes when he was at home . On the top of that I felt as our relationship doesnt exist anymore. We became as flatmates (I was working in the same house when he was at work) . I felt so so so lonely and then I started romans with my client who become my another boyfriend. DOUBLE DISASTER.  So my new boyfriend didn't like my job and due to that fact I was laying to both of them. First one didn't care anymore. We was living together because I couldnt find another flat. I hadn't any references etc. My new boyfriend was a really psycho who mentally tortured me ... I lost money, respect for myself and I hadn't more energy .... I had to stop all that game. I told my client-boyfriend that I am going to fuck anyone who is going to pay me. ( I get more abuse but I didn't care anymore). In 2 months I saved enough money to tell my both boyfriends to fuck off. I paid my landlord 6 months in advance so I could keep my house before I found a new place.

Today... I have a new house and new boyfriend who know what I am doing, he knows my past ... but what is the most important I don't let anyone to tell me how should I live. If someone don't want accept me for who I am then " go to hell and don't back".

Today... I have a new house and new boyfriend who know what I am doing, he knows my past ... but what is the most important I don't let anyone to tell me how should I live. If someone don't want accept me for who I am then " go to hell and don't back".

I'm sorry for what happened to you, but I'm so happy that you've found someone who accepts you for who you are and you've found who you are and won't let anyone else change that!