Author Topic: How to handle clients stupid, none-of-their-business questions about traffic? (Read 3023 times)

Rosenrot · « **on:** 19 April 2019, 08:50:32 am »

Morning

I’ve noticed that, whilst most punters simply mind their business do their thing and go, some of them love to interrogate you about your job, specifically asking how many clients did you have today. When answering truthfully, some throw a hissy fit and refuse to book you “because I want to be the first/only today”. Those really infuriate me because first off all, he knows what I do so should expect that he’s not the one and only and that’s frankly none of their fucking business.

However, as we need to remain polite and can’t tell them exactly that (I wish!) what are your strategies to answer those pesky questions or make them stop doing this altogether without coming across as too bitchy?

workingmum · « **Reply #1 on:** 19 April 2019, 08:53:30 am »

I hate those sorts of clients too, I normally politely tell them a lady never tells and smile. If they persist after that I have been know to ask how their wife/ gf/kids are or what job they do if they have really pis*ed me off.

Mirror · « **Reply #2 on:** 19 April 2019, 08:54:56 am »

Quote from: Rosenrot on 19 April 2019, 08:50:32 am

Morning

I’ve noticed that, whilst most punters simply mind their business do their thing and go, some of them love to interrogate you about your job, specifically asking how many clients did you have today. When answering truthfully, some throw a hissy fit and refuse to book you “because I want to be the first/only today”. Those really infuriate me because first off all, he knows what I do so should expect that he’s not the one and only and that’s frankly none of their fucking business.

However, as we need to remain polite and can’t tell them exactly that (I wish!) what are your strategies to answer those pesky questions or make them stop doing this altogether without coming across as too bitchy?

I no longer have qualms about saying I'm busy or whatever, however a great response is that discretion is important so you won't discuss other bookings ie whether you have them or not.

Lucie268 · « **Reply #3 on:** 19 April 2019, 09:16:18 am »

If anyone wants to be the first client of the day purely for the sake of me being 'fresh', I just decline their booking. I can't be dealing with guys who are squeamish or want to feel special as I get the sense they would be hard work, aside from the fact that it's insulting. As if we reset magically at midnight.

Braziliana · « **Reply #4 on:** 19 April 2019, 12:24:06 pm »

Quote from: Lucie268 on 19 April 2019, 09:16:18 am

...As if we reset magically at midnight.

Ya ha ha! And +1 to the rest of your reply; my feelings exactly!

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #5 on:** 19 April 2019, 03:29:12 pm »

I have only been asked this a couple of times, but I get the impression these guys might push for bareback. Because if you're wearing a condom, what does it matter?

Actually a far more common request for me is that they see me immediately after another punter and that I tell them how great the previous client was and how big his dick was compared to theirs.

saltysweet · « **Reply #6 on:** 19 April 2019, 06:37:15 pm »

How about asking him how much he earns? How often he fucks his partner...See how how polite and sweet he reacts to intrusive questions.

You have no obligation to be polite to intrusive, rude, insensitive individuals.

If it's face to face as long as you have his money first- you could pretend, you don't hear and divert the conversation to the weather, netflix, what you ate last night, anything mundane, he'll get the messege.

One of my techniques for irritating clients is, I'll say merrily, I need to go bathroom and leave him there for five minutes. Check my phone, do my lippy, tidy the bathroom etc If he repeats, off I trot again. You've seen the Dog Whisperer? That stops his flow and magically improves behavior never had to do it 3 times.

If it's on the phone, I hang up. AS VC says I think it's grooming you for bareback.

Grace D · « **Reply #7 on:** 20 April 2019, 02:50:03 am »

I always worry they may be planning to rob me if they ask that question. Probably being paranoid but better safe than sorry!
I'm very quiet by choice, and they are the first of the day. Always!

Justine · « **Reply #8 on:** 20 April 2019, 09:32:35 am »

Last night I had a new client who will be a one off I think as he was here to visit family at Easter and lives at the other end of the country. I say this as he was over keen and had he lived nearer may have wanted more bookings.

After the usual how busy do you get and how many would you see on an average day questions

to which I replied oh depends on how many I feel like doing (vague and not giving him the reply he expects) he then said so you have done this for a few years so do you mind me asking a question? Methinks a question you mean ANOTHER question!

How come you are single, are you single? On your own, a lovely woman like yourself not married?

I nearly kicked his backside. Luckily for him he was getting dressed to go when he asked.

Wailing Banshee · « **Reply #9 on:** 20 April 2019, 10:29:26 am »

I think a lot of the clients who ask this sort of question are just making conversation or are intrigued about the industry, especially if they are new to it. I don't think it's meant to offend us and I don't mind a lot of the questions they ask actually, though it seems I am in a minority here.

The ones that ask if I am busy/how many I just vaguely tell them it varies depending what else I am up to. It's easier now I have other work, but when I was full time, I would still be vague, mostly because I couldn't always tell if they wanted to get aroused by the number of cocks I have had or if they were being icky about it.

Though I do agree that the ones who want to see you first are annoying and I am offended they think I'll be grubby/cum soaked by lunchtime!

I think the secret is to be laid back about it, accept people are curious about the job - They probably ask plumbers and mechanics how busy they are too! Keeping a calm head in this game is important - there are so any annoying things about clients/timewasters/emails/phone calls etc if you let stuff get to you you just end up being cross and annoyed the whole time.
Just remember, you can tell them what you want and being vague and changing the subject is the best way to deal with.

That's not to say I don't have a good old whinge about clients myself sometimes!

Mirror · « **Reply #10 on:** 20 April 2019, 10:30:13 am »

Quote from: Justine on 20 April 2019, 09:32:35 am

Last night I had a new client who will be a one off I think as he was here to visit family at Easter and lives at the other end of the country. I say this as he was over keen and had he lived nearer may have wanted more bookings.

After the usual how busy do you get and how many would you see on an average day questions to which I replied oh depends on how many I feel like doing (vague and not giving him the reply he expects) he then said so you have done this for a few years so do you mind me asking a question? Methinks a question you mean ANOTHER question!

How come you are single, are you single? On your own, a lovely woman like yourself not married?

I nearly kicked his backside. Luckily for him he was getting dressed to go when he asked.

Oh yes I have had the 'Must be something wrong with you to have never married' same regards renting until I was 40.

Thank goodness all that has changed

Justine · « **Reply #11 on:** 20 April 2019, 11:29:50 am »

Quote from: Mirror on 20 April 2019, 10:30:13 am

Oh yes I have had the 'Must be something wrong with you to have never married' same regards renting until I was 40.

Thank goodness all that has changed

No one but me knows if I am single/attached/married or divorced or even widowed! I give nothing away. Some assume I am married or assume I am divorced. They can assume all they like. Any answer I give could be the truth or a fib but it surely will shut them up.

Some assume I rent my in call place and some assume I live there. Others assume I own another property

and some assume god knows what else. They again can assume all they like. I have had reviews which state I work from home yet have never said this or have any clues in my in call place to indicate this or anything else.

I know men can just be making conversation but if I am making conversation I do not ask do they rent their homes etc. but when they ask these questions I get the feeling it is more than just making small talk. I am tired of them asking what do the neighbours think? The neighbours have no clue and never will. My work place is perfect for never being discovered doing escorting. Some of my neighbours have more visitors than me!

PissedOffPrincess · « **Reply #12 on:** 20 April 2019, 11:41:48 am »

I try to remember they are socially awkward men in most cases with no social graces trying to make conversation.

Others worry me they are casing the joint for money

The ones who want to be first wtf? They think we dont wash between clients?

If they book for 6pm or later and want to be first they better pay me for doing nothing while waiting for them all day.

Depending on the man I will be funny in my reply or insulting asking abut their personal business, all depends on if they are rude to me I will be rude back no problem.

The ones asking stupid questions before booking are driving me crazy today lol I logged in here to vent about that

CCB · « **Reply #13 on:** 22 April 2019, 11:49:30 am »

Hi girls, hope you all doing well. I usually get these questions every day from a “judging client “ , I have an European accent too and that adds up lol. Questions like “are you alone here?” “How many clients today?” or even “when are you going back home”

) . I usually advise them never to ask an escort such questions and they kindly apologise. I then change the subject, asking like a good mother if he got all his stuff like phone and car keys and show them outside. At first I was getting very irritated but now I try to understand those people. They are simply uneducated and they don’t realise that. How could they.

regieeee · « **Reply #14 on:** 22 April 2019, 01:23:27 pm »

I never used to be too concerned by these. . .
Some men are well-educated, but they still leave some unsavory words right before they leave.

"judging clients". What an apt name!
It seems that some of them say these words, intending to show that they are so much better than "us".
I was OK before, but lately, a new emerging sentiment.

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