Recently I've been finding it so damn difficult to get rid of clients. I feel awful saying, 'I've got another booking now, you must go'. Can't count how many times I've overrun by an hour, sometimes even longer!

I don't want to look at my watch and look rude... Advice anyone? I'm constantly making up crappy excuses like I have to go shopping or meet friends and I'm running out of excuses and I'm scared I'm going to use the same excuse twice and get hated by my regulars!

What if we're mid 'doing the dirty' and we've gone over by like 20minutes or more? Tell him to get off me?

Help!

xxx

Recently I've been finding it so damn difficult to get rid of clients. I feel awful saying, 'I've got another booking now, you must go'. Can't count how many times I've overrun by an hour, sometimes even longer!

Not good, hun. Time is money, and an hour plus is a fair whack of cash you're missing out on

I don't want to look at my watch and look rude... Advice anyone? I'm constantly making up crappy excuses like I have to go shopping or meet friends and I'm running out of excuses and I'm scared I'm going to use the same excuse twice and get hated by my regulars!

Just politely say something along the lines of "as much as I'm enjoying this, babe, I've got to beautify myself for my next appointment who will be arriving shortly" or maybe "Would you like to book an extra 30 mins, hun"?

What if we're mid 'doing the dirty' and we've gone over by like 20minutes or more? Tell him to get off me?

If you're over by 20  mins or so then chances are he knows it and is trying to pull a fast one. An "Oh shit!! Look at the time.. that's an extra <insert fee>... want to continue"? should do the trick, lol.

That's just me though. I'm sure some of the other ladies will be able to offer better advice. Besides, I'm not very tactful when it comes to freeloaders, heh

I also agree with Friday. You don't need to give an excuse. The reason they have to leave isn't because you've got something else to do, it's because they're paid you X amount for a particular length ot time.

As for appearing rude, I wouldn't want a regular who thought it acceptable to book for one hour and stay for two.

"Our session is coming to an end.
Would you like to finish up now or
have another session?"

If the latter, hold your hand out for coin.

For sure. And there's no reason not to be totally smiley and adorable about it, but at the end of the day, things have to happen on your terms else you'll end up a miserable prossie and punters are always moaning about them.

It's possible that some of these regulars are regulars because they know they get ~100% extra time free with you, which means that if you start only giving them the time they're paying for, they may get huffy and rude and sulky. But you can't continue working in a way that makes you feel used and miserable - not to mention, you are missing out on either other bookings or having a life while they're getting all their extra free time! - so you must just be prepared for their reaction and stand up to them.

As Sarita said, I am happy to spend extra time relaxing and chatting with clients who are lovely and who appreciate such things (some guys obviously think any second spent not having their penis inside you is a second wasted, lol) but that's only if I've got time to spare - if I honestly do have a doctor's appointment or coffee with a friend or an assignment or whatever, I will tell them and would expect them to respect this without any problems.

It may be worth noting that my rates are really quite high, though, so of course I don't mind relaxing a bit longer with my nice clients or even spending an extra ten minutes making sure he comes twice if I know he really wants to and will appreciate it. If someone's rates are closer to industry average, though, I really don't think they should feel at all obliged to be giving out free time unless they really want to. So maybe in this situation, you could tell the clients who spend 2 hours with you while only paying for 1 hour, that you love the "hour" they spend with you but you will have to put your rate up slightly because "the hour always turns into two cos we enjoy ourselves so much" etc etc. That way you can tell them on the phone when they book rather than having to say something face-to-face - they'll know full well you're sick of them taking advantage and if they have any manners at all, they'll either start paying a 90-minute or 2-hour rate, or they'll stop trying to overstay.

You may still have to implement Jodie's suggestion above once their first hour is up, though, if they still haven't got the message.

if your still bonking away 20 mins after the appointment then i would suggest that you need to manage the time properly that you spend with the guys  so .....
 
Get an ipod or an mp3 
do some playlists   ie 30 mins approx (7  songs)  45 mins 10 songs  /  1 hr 13 songs
in fact what i do is  use the 30 mins then add  a few from the other playlist so that i know at any given time where i am and how long of the appointment i have left  with each client
 
Towards the end of the last 2  3 songs on an hour appointment  you know you will have approx 10 -  15 mins left of your  appointment so you can begin to wind it down a bit 
   
Things that i might say to a client when bringing it to the end of the appointment  is  would you like a shower, ( if they say yes then just say ok ill grab some towels  and put the shower on for you   ( if they say no  then say ok im just taking this  (used tissues /condoms drinks downstairs  ill let you get dressed   ( dont put a bin in the room as its a great excuse to nip out and do this at the end of the appointment)   
   
   When they are in the shower  dont stay in the room  go into the lounge or kitchen and give them time to shower and get dressed on their own and just return in a few minutes when you think they are almost dressed  and then walk them to the  door 
 
Or  you can say what have you got planned for the rest of the day  ( this allows you to reply with anwsers like  other bookings, shops , meeting friends, off to church    watching jeremy kyle lol  ect in a totally natural way,   

also  have some sort of routine so that you know where you are as such, it dosnt need to  be clinical,  but it needs to cover the majority of stuff that you do

while im not a clock watcher,   its very very rare that i go over the alloted time with personal services  i dont mind if im chatting afterwards  as it my choice to do that but i dont go over the time with regard to sex and personal services as thats what they have paid for i make sure that they get the full time with regards


 


 

If we are well on our way through "round 2"  and time is almost up I switch to giving them oral sex, as I find it's a good way to finish up.
    If they don't "finish" after a certain amount of time I tell them to finish off and they can "finish" on me.
Then when we are done I clean up and then start changing. That's often a pretty good hint

Tell them you are desperate for a number 2  that's the quickest way to get rid of a guy.

Tell them you are desperate for a number 2   that's the quickest way to get rid of a guy.

Unless they like poo. As 80% of my potential clients seem to be.